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When a guy and a girl are walking eachother, who's are goes on the other person's shoulders, and who's goes around the other one's waist? (link)
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Usually the girl'ss arm goes around the waist and the guy'sarm goes around the shoulder. =]
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Hey. Well, I'm 13/f, and I weigh I think like 97 lbs, and I'm 5'1. I have a lot of extra weight on my stomach, butt, legs, and arms. I really would like to lose a lot of my weight by August, I'd like to be either 85-87 pounds, becuase I know I'm tall, but I want to be a flyer this year on my cheerleading squad, because I was 2 years ago, then I was a base, and I really want to fly again. I want to be so skinny, that I can fly, regardless of my height. Please help with any tips of exercise that will make me skinnier. Please help? I rate :]. (link)
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Well you can do squats, change your eating habits, and use workout tapes, but you may want to be careful. You're already really light, and being tall and really skinny can be dangerous, plus it doesn't look very good. That's how my mom was and she was made fun of for it. She hated it so much that she actually had to take a medication to gain weight again. It was a hard time for her and I don't want it to be a hard time for you too, specifically when the kids can be so mean now a days. Good luck and be careful! =]
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hey. ok 14/f. well, i met this guy at church a few weeks ago. i could tell from the second that i saw him he liked me. and after i talked to him for a little bit, i liked him, even though i didn't know him very well. well, he always kept flirting with me. and today he told my friend Tina that he liked me and was gonna ask me out. and after i got out of the bathroom, he asked me for my number. so like, 3 hours later he called me. and we just started talking, then he goes, "hey... do you wanna go out with me?". and i was like "i don't know.." cause i really don't know if i wanna go out with him. so i was just like "can i have a day to think about it?" and he just gets all pissed and is like "why do u need a day?" and i was just like "i don't know". by the way, i'm skipping a little bit of this, cause it is really long. so, we just started talking about all of this today and he keeps saying "baby, i love you" and stuff like that. he's also talking about kissing me, and how he wants to kiss me so much. and i just think it is all moving way to fast. but see, he's been in some trouble before. like, he used to smoke weed, and he got a girl pregnate (sp), but he doesn't do that stuff anymore. but also, there is a bit of an age difference. i'm 14 and he is 17. do you think he is to old for me? but tonight when he goes "i love you, you know that right?" and i was just like "yeah.." and he gets really pissed and says " you know what?f**** you, i've worked to hard in this relashonship, now its your turn" blah blah blah... i don't know what to do. i can understand he wants an anwser, but i need a day to think. what do u guys think i should do? do you think i should go for him, or tell him no? i really need help. i really like him, but i'm afraid he might break my heart. he told me that he is kinda scared to go out with me because he might "fall in love". like seriously, does he like me, or does he just like using lines from movies? haha, jk. anyways, help!!!! thanks a bunch! (link)
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Well, from what you just said, it almost seems like he has an anger problem. He kept snapping at you and you just took it. You need to stand up for yourself tell him you need to think, to figure everything out, like the age difference for ex. If he is boyfriend material, he should be able to understand. You should just throw out little tests to see how he reacts. Also, by the sounds of it, he seems to be the jealous type. Plus, just because he says he no longer is the trouble kid, doesn't mean he's telling the truth. It's hard to stop that stuff, so he may just be playing you and try to do something with you, you may not be ready for and by that point it's pretty hard to stop an older man, because they're usually strong. One last thing is that he may get you into that stuff like drugs or may get you pregnant. Just watch out for yourself and keep an eye out for signs for those kinds of actions. Good luck and be careful of what you may get yourself into. =]
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Lately me and my best guyfriend have been getting in lots of fights, and I feel like he wants to end the friendship. I've asked and he said he doesn't, but everytime we're trying to solve our problems I feel like I'm pushing him away, like making him not want to be my friend. In all honesty, he's doing the same to be, but I would never end our friendship. Is there anything I can do to make him want to be my friend? Stop the fights/stop solving problems? Anything, I need help! (link)
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He may just be going through a hard time at home which is putting him on edge and something is making him snap. you should give him some space and try again to understand what is wrong. It could just be personal.
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I need help on getting a proxy that isn't blocked to get on myspace at school, or anywhere that it is blocked. the only thing is, is that im always searching proxy lists but those sites are blocked too. it seems like everything is blocked at school, and i shouldn't complain but it seems unreasonable, ridiculous, and unneccesary. (sorry for spelling errors.) How do i create my own Proxy Site or whatever that my school won't know and wont block? (link)
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it's blocked at my school too so use the site www.6oogle.tk and you'll surely be able to get on. Just type the site into the google search box and it will show up.
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My church goes on 1 cruise a year with the parish. This year they went to Italy. Next year in the spring they are going to Jamaica, The Bahamas, Aruba, and St. Martin! My family has NEVER been on one of the cruises with the church, and we thought it might be a fun experience.
First off, how can I make my dad totally into the idea. I told him you get discounts when going with the church. Also, all of our close friends will be there. My mom doesn't do planes or cruises so she won't go and my dad probably doesn't want to be the only adult.. I was thinking maybe we could ask my neighbors if they would be interested in going.. What else could I say to get him to want to go because we don't travel a lot and we don't go anywhere far like this before? (link)
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That's just it. you need to tell him that it's a once in a lifetime experience and that it's best to travel when you're young, like yourself. If that doesn't work then ask one of your close relative, like an aunt or grandparent. You deserve this trip when you're young, plus you're more likely to remember this better if you take it when you're young. Point out your age, the discount again, maybe you'll pay for half of whats left of the cost, you set it all up and all he has to do is come. Have him take one of his friends so he won't be the only parent there. I'm sure there will be someone willing to take off sometime to take a cruise like that. Like you could take me or something. Just Kidding! =] Hopefully you're able to go and that you enjoy yourself!
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i am doomed as a junior in high school.
can anyone name some good jobs that pay all right? (link)
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Nursing, printing, lawyer, teaching, manager, start your own business, pretty much you can do anything you want! Have fun with it.
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Everytime I look really "nice/good/pretty/stylish/glamorous" my friends always spot something on me. Like a little bit of smudged eye liner, or peanut-butter breath, messy hair, lipgloss not on the lips, or make-up prob. Its just so annoying. I hate it. I wish they would just compliment me. but they always find something. So I try to look good but then they always are so mean. I always feel bad after they told me that and embarassed. Its like they never have something to say nice to me. what should i do about this? (link)
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You should tell them how you feel. If they are your real friends, they will listen to you and will value your views on the situation. Good luck!
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Does doing taebo help with your abdominals? (link)
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Definitely. Just make sure you're doing the right type of taebo. You may want to do the cardio type or flexibility.
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My dog threw up blood. Do you know what I can do to help? (link)
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You'll probably get this message a lot but you should take it to the vet. Hope everything is all right. =]
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i cut often and im not really afraid as to what people think of me but i wouldnt choose to hear it...i just transferred schools and i know that they feed on drama.....i dont want to be any part of that but the summer is coming and its getting really hot.i want to be able to show my arms without hearing whispers but i dont know what to do......i know they will talk......i just want to do my work.....what should i do? (link)
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Just one answer to this. Don't cut! It's simple. They won't talk about it if you don't do it. Plus, if you reveal your cuts, it's most likely that a teacher will see and report it to the nurse, getting you in trouble. Try hard not to cut, and try to do something else to get rid of your stress. ood luck and best wishes.
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if your in abercrombie or hollister and you take a tank or shirt or something with you in the changing room and rip off the tags and hide it under your clothes or in your purse or something, will you get caught and will the security sensors beep? i'm definitely not gonna do this but i was just curious. thankss (link)
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No offense of course, but why would you want to even know how to do that? I'm pretty sure they have protective seals on it so, you can't sneak it out. Plus, they have sensors on the tags so they can tell if you're leaving with it if it hasn't been scanned. Hopefully you won't do this, but if you do, good luck! =]
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well im a 16/f and i im indian which means im not allowed to date. but i decided to get a boyfriend and i've been dating this guy for like a little over a month. and im not sure if i should tell my parents because my mom always says they'll find out eventually the things i do. so yah should i tell them? (link)
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I wouldn't if it's only going to get you in and the boy you've been seeing in trouble. If you do, it may scare that boy away. I'm not sure about what age you can date at, but you should see if it's going to last before you tell your parents, because if you do and it doesn't last, then you could be victim to the 'i told you so' and then your parents will be snooping around. just wait it out or you oculd tell the boy, that if he likes you so much, he should be able to wait until you can date and for now you two could just be really good friends. Good luck and remember to go with your gut. =]
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One of my friends steals. Not from stores, but from us! (her friends) she wont admit it. She just recently stole my mac shadestick, and those arent that cheap. She will not confess to it and i KNOW she has it. She stole my friends iPod, and steals my other friends clothes a lot. I really want my shadestick back because its my fav one and i had it the morning before she came over then after she left it was gone. I dont know what to do to get her to confess? She also makes up a lot of lies and stuff .. what should i do? (link)
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Well, technically that's against the law so you could threaten her in a way you wont get in trouble d=from. Tell her you will go to the authorities if you and your friends don't get your stuff back. Then I would be friends with her any longer. It's not worth it if the only reason she is friends with you is for your stuff. Good Luck!!=]
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okay i reallllly likke this guy. When ever i think about him i smile and i get this weird feeling in my stomach, its not like butterflies though. He just makse me so happy =D. when ever i talk to him i feel like i can tell him everything and we are the only two people in the room or something, Its just such a great feeling :d. we hung out the other night with a couple of other people and it was SOOO fun. while two friends [ girl ] went off with there boyfriends, me my crush my best friend [girl] and my other fiend [boy] just stayed together, it was really great. Then my two friends left cus my friend thats a boy had to go get somethintg and they left me adn my crush alone, it was soo perfect, we talked and laughed, and flirtedd :-*! We even held hands for like a couple seconds! i almost dieddd. i could keep typing foreverrr (link)
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Well, it could be love, and I wouldn't doubt it. You should find out how he feels and ask him out. See how it goes from there. Hope it all works out in your favor!!!!!!! =]
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i lost my virginity to my boyfriend last night.
i have been on birth control for 3 months now but i took yesterday's pill a lot later than i ususally do, and it was a little before we had sex so i am not sure if it had time to kick in.
we were having a little difficulty with the condom so we didn't use it and he accidently cummed in me.
do you think i could be pregnant? (link)
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You probably could. You need to go either to a doctor or get a home pregnancy test and check it out that way,. It would be able to tell you positively until two week later, I believe, but it could work sooner.
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I’m sure you would agree with me in me saying drugs are bad, but I’ve made some pretty bad mistakes and I think I may be addicted. For a few months, I’ll say about 7; I’ve been using prescription drugs like hydrocodone and oxycodone. Sometimes I eat them, sometimes I snort them. A friend of mine warned me about addiction, and I’m a little worried that I could be. I’m pretty much an everyday user, and even in school, friends and even teachers tell me I should cool it. I take more and more each time, and when I didn’t have my “fix” I felt horribly sick…I didn’t even wanna go to school. [Usually, I’m pretty good about school, since I got caught skipping it.] I’ve noticed odd symptoms like nausea, headaches, nosebleeds, dizziness, blurred vision, irritability, irrational thoughts, stomach pain…and a lot more. I just don’t want to tell my mom about it, because I told her I’ve been sober since summer. And my brother knows about it, because he uses too, but since I’m younger than him, I’m afraid he’d nark on me or something. My mom doesn’t care when he comes home high, only because he’s an adult. I’m 16 and a girl, so she doesn’t like me doing it, also because of my little sister. I’ve tried to stop, and I did for a long time, but I always get back into it. A friend of mine also told me I was going through withdrawal [when I mentioned sickness]…could I possibly be addicted to opiates? (link)
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Well, it may be hard, but you have to stop. That is addiction. You may be sick for a while, but that's the risk you'll have to take to get over the addiction. Get rid of all the prescription drugs in your house that you use everyday and just take a couple days off from school and cool it. Your friends and teachers are right and you should listen to them. Good luck and just stay strong! =]
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for the past like 3 months or so the week after i get off my period i get sick.. it sucks majorly, so i was wondering does it lower your immune system or is it just a bunch of coincidences, and if it does, will birth control help it? because usually i only get sick once or twice a year and this sucks... (link)
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Well, when you have your period, you're losing iron, so you constantly need to be drinking water, because it will lower you're immune system if not.So just drink a lot of water during your period. Hope you feel better! =]
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in april i am going to florida and i want to look a lot skinnier. im not fat but im not very skinny. i have a membership to a gym that i usually go to but im gunna try going 5 times a week and im also on a diet. im also trying to get abs by april but im not sure if thats possible. what do i have to do to make me look a lot skinnier and possible get abs by the end of april? also what are some excersies that you would remomend?
thank you so much (link)
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Try doing sit-ups and push-ups. Also you could try renting the exercises from Tae-Bo. They really work on the abs and they keep you moving. You can really feel it working. Good luck! I actually have the same goal as you. haha! =]
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well this is really complicated...
my gf and i broke up because my parents dont want me going out yet.now, we would have been going out for 5 months if we hadnt broke up with at the time that we did. her parents told her that the only way to get over me is to not have anything to do with me.so i had done the same thing, ttaken all he stuff that reminded me of her, and either putting it in the very back of my closet, or throwing it out(cds, letters, cards, gifts, pictures,etc)so i didnt have to bare it, because everytime i see her or am reminded of her now, i get depressed. and she goes to my church(which is today) and i dont know what to do because im afraid to see her because i KNOW that i wont be able to talk to her. and shes all i think about so it makes it harder. i dont know what to do. i feel discouraged because of this. i feel useless. and i feel like i might as well let everything go.
plz help. (link)
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Well, I know it's going to be hard, but you're going to have to let her go and move on. It's going to be hard because you liked each other. Maybe you could just date a little until her parents let her date for a while. I can't tell you if she will be waiting for you, but you need to show her you were true to her to the point where maybe she could convince her parents to make an exception. If they're good parents then they will want their daughter to be happy and they will soon see, that you are what makes her happy. You just need to prove to her parents you are a trustworthy boyfriend. Good luck! =]
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