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recently things in my life havent been going to well.. a while ago me and my ex broke up and we totally were so mad and backstabing eachother like crazy.. and so i found comfort in my best friend (daniel) ive known him for like ever and we tell eachother everything.. we were about to get together after getting over our exs but then they both stepped in again and i have no idea what to do.. but also we are back together with them.. but before that happened i was starting to like antoher guy.. and we dated for a while. but things happened and he felt clingy and i felt liek i had to get away.. and now we totallly hate eachother.. n hes dating this other girl who is totally fake.. idk wat to do.. bc if i tell him hell deny and blame more stuff on me.. even worse.. he writes it on his xanga and blames me for stuff i didnt do.. idk what to do.. better yet i dont know what actions to take because everything feels liek im backtraking... help.. if you understnad this at all.. thanks
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you should just break up with the guy your with now, and tell your friend how much you like him. tell him you'd rather be with him. dont insult the girl he's with though, because if you do, he'll probably get really mad and defensive. you dont want that if your trying to patch things up with him. tell him you just want everything to get worked out and you wanna be with him. (assuming that is what you want, your question was a bit confusing but i think i get most of it) after that, the rest is up to him. hes going to have to decide whether he'd rather be with you, or with some other girl. thats all you can really do. good luck. =)
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my bf and i are going to the movies this weekend and he wants to kiss me and all and i do to but i am afraid. I am afraid that i will mess up. CAn someone please explain how you kiss and not just say you will no how! i rate 5'z (link)
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i understand this isnt what you want to hear, but there is no wrong way to do it. your not going to mess up, as long as you stay calm. the more focused you get on it, the more your going to worry, and thats just unnesecary. its not as big of a deal as it seems to you right now. stop worrying so much and then you'll do fine. the only way to get better is to practice, so you'll be getting better when your kissing him! good luck.
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ok long story...lately like for the last 3 months i've been really mad at my 2 best friends. but i dont have an exact reason why its more like 50 billion reasons that alone just sound trivial. anyway all together they pretty much sound like im jealous that they've been making new friends and hanging out wayyy more with other people(some of my other freinds) than with me. i told them and they dont understand what i mean, that i just want like some sort of effort out of them...something like an attempt to hang out or a movie invite but they're always talking about somethin they just did or are going to do with another person...or what their going to do with like their new boyfriend(who cheated although she accepted him back, and she said im too critical and that pple make mistakes) anyway what should i do like try to forgive and forget these just random things that drive me insane or what i dont want them to think im just a bitch...help
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you should just talk to them and tell them you feel like your not included. when they say that theyre going somewhere, just say: oh, well would it be ok if i came? maybe if you start to hang out with them more again, then they'll remember to invite you places and start hanging out with you regularly. good luck.
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so i have this boyfriend..but we dont talk a lot. i love him SOOO muchh but i always get these really weird butterflies whenever i'm around him. he doesnt act like he likes me but everyone says he likes me A TON. i wanna like hug him, kiss him and hold hands with him but i dont think we're close enough..since we dont talk a lot..how can i get close to him and non shy??? and this might seem weird but..how could i get close enough to like hug and kiss him??? (link)
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start to get closer to him. just take his hand and hold it, maybe he'll start to catch on that you want him just as much as he wants you. hes probably just too shy, too scared to start holding you and hugging you and stuff. whenever you see him, go up and give him a hug. before you leave when your with him, give him a hug. if he doesnt catch on after that, i dont know what to tell you. he may just be a bit slow. maybe you could tell one of his friends that you know to tell him to give you a hug and hold your hand. if he wont hold hands and hug you yet, you may have to wait a bit longer for that kiss. good luck.
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Well...it goes like this me and her are girls and were both 14 years old. We've experimented together before 3 to 4 times (no below the belt). We loved each time, but she feels that everytime after we get sexual she the next day she feels like a lesbian. She can never look at it as it was a great mind blowing experience and loves to do it. She keeps doing this ego thing sayin' i'm totally straight all the time. I am to, but i like havin' some kinky fun and she can't admit it though. She knows i want i have a strong eager for pleasure and sex, but i also want to stay a virgin until i'm in college or until 17. She's now going out wit this guy and he really doesn't make her happy like holding her and kissing her or saying imtimate sweet stuff to her. A couple of times she's told me that she really wants all that stuff. From my heart i tell her how guys are cravy to not go at her and just gaze at her beautiful figure and gorgeous green eyes. When i say those things i mean to her she says, "i wish u could be my girlfriend, but u kno how i feel about the whole lesbian thing." Just saying for me i want us to be together like that, but she really doesn't want it like i do. I can't get the words out that i want to experiment again. We haven't done it since May 25, 2005 and its now really killing me everytime i stare at her i just want to feel her lips on mine and lips and tongue on my neck making me feel in heaven. What do i do she's my best friend and i love her very much too. Do i tell her my feelings or just try to let go even though she is amazing at pleasuring so GOOD!! Help me!! (link)
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ok, im not sure i totally understand, but im gonna try to understand it as best as i can. you want to be with her, and she wants to be with you but doesnt want to be known as a lesbian? well maybe you should just fool around with her when you can. if you get to intimate with her, the friendship you and her have may be a bit messed up. its hard to go from being friends, to being lovers, and back to being friends after something like that.
i can tell that you really like her, so talk to her more, and tell her you like her if your sure that you want her to be your girlfriend. she seems like more of a person who wants to keep it quiet that shes not perfectly straight. that may be the reason that she wont go out with you, or it may just be that she doesnt really like you like that. some girls enjoy fooling around with other girls, but when it comes to actually being in a real relationship with them, they dont want that. eventually, you'll be able to work something out with her probably. just talk to her more and see how maybe you and her could work this out so that both of you can be happy with the realationship you have right now. good luck.
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well, here's the deal. I really like this guy, like alot! he's so perfect in almost every way. I guess you could kind of say that we're together, but nothings official. I want to be with him so bad, but theres a porblem... my best friend is his little sister. he's a junior, and i'm a freshman and his sister's a sophomore. you'd think that they'd be really close, but they're not, not at all. she's my best friend, so i've told her all about her brother and i. She made it really clear that we should not be together. She doesn't even think that he would ever want to be with me because I'm a freshman. when she first told me all of this i promised that it was just a crush, and that i would never date him, because i knew she was against it. but at that time i never thought any thing would really happen between us. now things are starting to happen and i really want then to happen. i can't help how i feel, and her reasoning for not wanting us to be together seem pretty stupid. but at the same time, she is my best friend and hopefully always will be. I think going out with her brother would hurtour friend ship, but i don't want to give up this opportunity with the perfect guy. i need help!!! what should i do? (link)
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im really sorry about that. your going to have to pick one of them, because your friend obviously doesnt agree with you dating her brother. you know the right thing to do is to stay with your friend. one of my best friends got mad at me because i went out with a guy she didnt want me to go out with. (even though it wasnt her brother) that was last march. me and this guy broke up in may. my friend still doesnt talk to me because she thinks i was a bad friend and always will be. when i decided to pick the guy over her, i assumed id be able to win her back. but she has never forgave me and still wont speak to me. so make this decision carefully because if you pick her brother, most likely, you wont be together forever. it'll be nice when it lasts, but your friend may never be as close with you after it. guys come and go, but friends will last forever. i suggest you just dont go out with him unless your friend changes her mind about you being with her brother. good luck.
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okay so the other night, my friend told me she likes me, and 2 nights later I asked her out. And she says "I would love too, but I have to bring my grades up and I have Cheer competitions almost every weekend in in January." I really like her and my other friend told me just to give her time. And i don't know if i should give her time or what to do? (link)
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your friend is right. if you wanna go out with her, and shes pretty busy right now, then just wait for her. eventually she'll be ready to go out with you probably.
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i have a crush on my friends brother and he used to like me. but last year i messed it up, and now i really miss him. he and i didnt go out but we flirted alot, and now i wish i was going out with him. he acted like i was the most icky thing on earth for like a year, but lately he has been acting a little nicer to me. what should i do????? i still really like him and i dont know what to do. please help.
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talk to him more, and flirt with him alot. eventually, maybe he'll start to like you more and ask you out later. if not, at least your getting to spend a bit more time with him. im sure in time, he will start to like you a bit more. show him a different side of you other than the "icky" one. good luck.
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hey im that girl with the ear piercing question. yea my mom did already talk to my dad and he said no . I wanna still get my ears pierced anyways so what should i do ?
thankz
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if you want to, you can do it yourself.
first, get a needle, or something sharp enough to go through your ear. using just the earing wont work very well, so use something else.
then get ice, and plenty of it. do only one ear at a time though. numb your ear where your going to be piercing it. the whole thing will probably get numb, and thats ok. after you have almost no feeling left in it, stick the needle through it.
have something like a piece of fruit behind your ear to stick it through. (i use a slice of an apple)
then do the same on the other ear.
if you dont want to do this, i understand. not all people are as crazy as me.
if you do it by yourself...
-it could get infected
-you could get in alot of trouble with your parents
-your parents may make you let it close up, and then tell you that you definitly cant have it done because you did it unsafely and behind their backs.
so if your not going to do that, heres some other options...
1. persuade your dad to let you get it done.
2. have your mom take you to get it done without your dad knowing.
3. just wait until you'd be allowed.
good luck. let me know what your gonna do or if you have any questions.
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alrighty so this guy likes me, i like him, i told him that i did and he started acting differently *like not talking to me as much* like we've hung out, gone on a "date", talked on the phone, but lately, he hasn't been the same. like whenever i hug him he just stands/sits there, he doesn't really answer me when i talk to him or he'll just start talking to his other friends, he told me he wanted to go out this weekend and that he'd call but he never did. and i'm still worried that it's all because i told him that i like him. i really don't know what to do because i really care for him and don't want to lose him, but i'm scared that i already have. can anyone please give me advice on what to do?! (link)
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ask him whats up. maybe theres something going on with him? talk to him and see why hes acting this way. if he just simply says he doesnt know what your talking about, or that nothing is wrong, then tell him you know something is up, or ask him if he still likes you, cause he sure isnt acting like he does. if nothing works with him, simply do the same thing to him as hes doing to you. then maybe he'll realize how annoying and confusing stuff like that can get.
good luck!
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Hey! I'm 13 and I just asked this one girl out that I've had a crush on for about a year. She knew I've liked he for a month and now that I've asked her out, she can't decide what to say. Its been 2 days since I asked her out and all she has said is "probably". What should I do if she doesn't say anything tomorrow at school? (link)
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well if she doesnt know, then whatever. move on until she decides she wants to get back to you. talk to her and let her know you feel kinda weird with her not responding right away and it'd be better if she could give you an answer instead of just leaving it hanging like that. if she cant decide soon, then she obviously doesnt want you enough. after a few days, just move on. good luck.
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ok how do you french kiss thats what i want to no (link)
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to french kiss someone you stick your tongue in their mouth! duhhh! im so tired of people asking "how" to do it. theres no technique to it. the more you do it, the better you get, usually.
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hi!
im 13/f
and ive been begging my parents since the 5th grade to get a second ear peircing. i am now in the 7th grade and just turned 13 and i asked my mom again and she said yes i can get one. the problem is my dad .He said NO because hes afraid that after i would want more piercings and come home with them all over the place. I told him that everyone has their second hole but he doesnt care. What should i do to convince him to agree on me getting one ? (link)
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have your mom talk to him about it, or do it the same way i do. if your parent(s) say no, just do it anyways. ive pierced my own ear more than 5 times. if you want to do that then just ask me and ill help you with it.
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14/female
okay this boy likes me but he doesnt want to ask me out yet because he thinks im prude and well i only had one other boyfriend before and we only kissed like once but it was like a second. and i dont want a reputation as prude! so i would like to know some tips for kissing someone like much longer than a second ! like making out ! =)
so please leave tips pleasee !! or just anything about kissing that could help me
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i dont know how many times ive told people this, but theres no "proper way" or "good tips" on kissing people. its alot easier, and alot less complicated when you dont try to do certain stuff to make yourself better. just go with it when your kissing someone. its not really a big deal. good luck
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sry this might be long but i need help..i'll rate all 5's to anyone who helps and isnt smart about it.
i've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. and really the only reason we went out was because i really liked him. and he kinda liked me. well lately he's been annoying.
he said he wanted to get together last weekend so i told him to call me and mayb he could come over, and he never called. and its not that he didnt come over that bugs me its the fact that HE said he wanted to do something with me. and blew me off.
any ideas on what to do here?
i've talked to him about it..and currently i probably said 5 words to him the whole day at school. so we're kinda "not talking"
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obviously, things are getting kind of boring in your relationship. your just getting a bit tired of each other right now. if you both dont like each other anymore, then maybe you should take a break or just not go out anymore. if thats not the case, just keep going on with him. eventually, you'll probably get through this stage of getting annoyed with him. dont stop talking to him though, because if you do, then you may stop talking all together, which kind of ruins the relationship. good luck wit him.
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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?
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i would be really, really mad if i found that. but, im a very jealous person. no, your not wrong to be upset with that. but, the reason she may be allowed on his bed, is because shes not his girlfriend and you are. in my opinion, it still doesnt give her the right to be on his bed with him. do you think he'd be on his bed with a friend of his that was a guy? unless he's bi, i would think not. good luck.
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Hey guys,
I'm 15/f, and I really like this kid and he's 14. The only problem is that he lives in a different state! It pisses me off, because I like him so much and he already knows that because I've told him many times. He also has told me he likes me a lot. He wants to come and visit me sometime with his mom. I also talk to his mom, and she's very sweet. I've been talking to her son for a year now. I like him so much, and it's driving me crazy. I wanted to know if anyone here has ever really liked someone in another state, and has become really close with them. I really wish this kid could move here, and he always says how he wants to move here. I also wanna know if anyone has liked someone a whole not in another state, or even just far from them, and eventually the person moved closer to them, or in the same state? I know this is a stupid question, but I really like this kid. He is the sweetest kid I have ever talked to, and he has the nicest mom ever. Do you think there would ever be a chance for him to move here anytime soon, or when he gets older, or am I just being stupid? Someone please help me out! I'm going crazy here. We talk to each other everyday. I've never liked anyone this much. We have sent pictures to each other, and he's got the best personality. If anyone can, please help me out! I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much! :-( Please don't say I'm stupid or anything, and don't tell me to get over him cuz that won't happen anytime soon. (link)
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in my opinion, long distance relationships are very very hard, but if you want to do it, go for it. its just hard for it to work out when the person lives so far away because you miss them so much, you never get to see them and you'll never know if they cheat on you. if they start to date other girls that live near them, you'd never know because you live so incredibly far away. if you want to try and make it work then you can, but i usually dont recomend it. i've never had a long distance relationship and i probably wont try to have one until im alot older and can drive myself to see him all the time. keep talking to him, and maybe if he can come and see you, then thats great. good luck.
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what does stfu mean? (link)
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it means shut the fuck up...
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:/ I just cant get it right.:/ I called the acting audtion person today but she said it was too full.:/ O well... I wasn't ready. Can somebody give me acting advice? I really want to become an actor.:)
~Aaron Leung (link)
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just keep trying. its ok if you dont get it right the first time. just keep working at it and eventually you'll get yourself somewhere. keep your head up. good luck.
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I get jelous really easily. If I see my friends together without me, I instantly get jelous. I like get into this depressed state and start thinkin know one likes me. Or if they`re talkin about a good time they had together and I wasn`t there I get all upset. I really hate to feel this way, I know I can`t be their WHOLE lives. What should I do ? (link)
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tell them that you feel left out sometimes. when you see them together without you, just go ask if you can join. its not that theres something wrong with you. it'll be just fine.
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