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im another girl with a small chest who wants to increase her breast size. all my girl cusins are bigger then me and there the same age [13] they're B's C's while i barely fit into a size A. I mean i have a boyfriend and everything and he doesn't care what size I am but I just feel I would have more self esteem with a bigger size. My boobs started to grow at age 10 and i got my period at age 11 so i thought i'd have boobs by now but thats not the case. Will they grow if i eat certain foods? or take birth control pills? [thats what i've been told] BTW dont tell me patience and to wait if you answer with that you have not helped at all k thnx (link)
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i dont really know much about the whole birth control thing, it hasnt worked for my friend even though she takes it. i know you dont want to hear it but you cant make your boobs grow. you can make them look bigger, thats what victorias secret it for. they have the most amazing bras and they can do wonders, trust me. even their bathing suites are padded and they dont look fake or anything. but there isnt any realy assured way to make your boobs grow except for surgery and that is definitly not an option. i would definitly try buying different bras. especially water bras and push ups. they really work, trust me.
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Well i have this best fired and i used to like him a year ago and now i find out that he thinks that i like him again how do i get him to know that i dont like him? (link)
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well the best way would be to tell him. if you dont like him, he should definitly know. dont lead him on or anything and he definitly needs to get it through his head that you dont like him like that and that you just like him as a friend. if hes really your best friend, he should accept the fact that your just friends.
good luck!
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Ok there is a dance at my school, and im going to ask my ex to dance, we broke up cause she wasnt felling it :( . Anywho I was wondering if it is ok to whisper in her ear somthing like I still love or I miss you. Is it ok? She wants to be just friends and her step sister said " dont she will be a dink " but I dont want her to go out with me again out of guilt. But I would also like to no some other things I could say, something affective! But this is a Junior high dance im in grade 8 and she is in grade 7 but were both 13. I need help real bad! (link)
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well i am a girl and out of experience, when i didnt like a guy that was usually the excuse i would use. dont try too hard to get her back, give her her space and if she really likes you, she may come back. if you want to ask her to the dance, just ask her you dont need to tell her that you miss her or still love her, it might push her away. if she says yes, maybe the two of you will click at the dance, maybe her feelings for you will come back. at the end of the night, if all goes well, then maybe you could tell her that you miss her.
good luck!
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okay so , this is actually really comnplicated but i'll try to make it short & sweet & not waste too much of your time. Once upon a time i fell for one of my friend's boyfriends (don't worry i told her about it and she was cool with it & liked the idea of us being together)Things were going great and according to my friends he was planning on asking me out he was just wating for the perfect moment (which was a blind date Xmas present thing) well he never did and i later find out that thigns statred to get complicated and confusing for him right around xmas break (the time he was suppose to ask me out) & then i find out that there was sorta another girl he liked at his school & his ex girlfriend started to feel things again (i knew that would happen & he always felt stongly about her & it took some time but i was the one to change his mind and make him move on) so i got frusterated because he didn't know what he wanted and backed out of the picture so i pretty much slowly backed out of the picture so he could have time to himself and figure things out. And well we don't really talk so much anymore, & my firends don't really care for him anymore. But i just want to find out reasons, why he didn't jsut ask me, if he liked me that much, why did he hesitate, and yet im still crazy about him, I mean i try to avoid him but i secretely still want him. Does that make any sense, And he is my first major crush in a very very long time. How do i get his attention again, & how do i get those answers to why he changed his mind? Anyway thats BASICALLY it, Theres more detail but you don't really want to hear that,s o yeha, does anybody know what i can do???
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well that makes perfect sense and i think you were completely right when to gave him his space and to give him time, but if all of your friends are over him, you should try and talk to him again. i would tell you to tell him how you feel but that sounds so cliche. i wouldnt try and aviod him. you really need to start talking to him again so that you guys can be friends and then maybe end up more then that eventually. the only real way to find all of those answers is to get them from the source...him. and maybe some of your friends may know some details so i would ask them about it too.
good luck
hope i helped
Danni
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well i REALLY want to dye my hair.but my mom says im not old enough (im almost 13) and how can i convince her to let me dye it? like i think she MITE let me get it done for my b-day but i dont think thts gonna happen. (link)
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i have had my hair dyed so many times and its really hard to get your parents approval. i would definitly get a modest color and not anything to drastic and you should tell her that. tell her that your not going to go and get some crazy color, and if thats what you want, i dont really know what to tell you. but if its just a natural color, tell her things like your friends have it done, that your only going to get a natural color, that if she doesnt approve then youll get it fixed, tell her that its your birthday and that its what you really want. stuff like that.
good luck
hope i helped
Danni
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Do people define others upon their social status more so in middle school or high school? I know that there are so many more kids where i am going to go to high school next year, so wouldn't it be difficult to get to know everyone? thanks =] (link)
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middle school definitly because by high school, you have already found who your friends are and you usually stick with them and everyone else around you excepts that. also in high school people are usually more focused on actually doing good in school because most of us want to go to college. for me, people at high school seem nicer because most of them have matured enough that they arent going to pick on you and are usually nice. you dont need to get to know everyone, just stick with your close friends, they are definitly enough. high school isnt bad so dont even worry about it. =]
good luck
hope i helped
Danni
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I know that I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never cheat on me because he honestly loves me and it's a mutual feeling, but he's been talking to this girl that he said he met about a year ago and she lives about an hour away from where him and i live, but when he visits his dad he visits her, and she is suposidly one of his best friends, but for some reason whenever i'm hanging around with him and a girl calls h sits there and texts her or talks to her, and it bugs me alot, and i said something once and he said that he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm still scared that something will happen. I'm also upset because I was looking at this girls MySpace and it had some comments on there from like almost a year ago him saying on her pictures stuff like "Or you're so sexy.." and stuff like that but he posted those things before him and i started dating, but it bugs me that they are still there and i tried telling him i didn't like it and asked him to delete it but he told me that i shouldn't worry about it and it shouldn't be a problem but for some reason i still don't like it, and he talks about his ex's alot and it bugs me alot and i told him and he said that i had nothing to worry about and i shouldn't worry about, but i really love him but it bugs me so much and i try to ignore it but i can't and whenever i try to talk about it with him he gets pissy and moody and says that i'm not listening to my heart and i'm only thinking about his past.
I'm sorry that this is so long but i needed to get it out. Thank you so much.
-Beanie (link)
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well, he should not be telling you to "not worry about it" when it bugs you. he has no right to visit another girl and talk to her when hes with you. he should be paying attention to you, not her. if he doesnt like her and shes not that important to him, he would hear you out and actually do something about this other girl. if he really cared about how you feel then he would at least take off the comments that they left eachother, even if it was a while ago. i have the same problem with my boyfriend so i know exactly how you feel. even though he reassures you that he doesnt like her, it is still going to make you uneasy when hes hanging out with her because he shouldnt be. you need to tell him that he needs to stop talking to her so much and give you his attention when you guys are together. dont let him tell you not to worry about it, talk to him about the situation in depth and dont let him stop you by saying "dont wworry about it". even though you should trust him, i think hes pushing his luck.
good luck
hope i helped
Danni
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Hi, I fell for my best guy friend. He completely lead me on for about 2 months, then flat out cold stopped talking to me. (For reasons unknown, he won't tell me) I need ways to get over this feeling, I felt like he liked me, but I guess not because we're barely even friends now. Any help on how to get over someone who lead you on? Mind you, he WAS my best friend, and I'd like to at least stay friends with him somehow. Thank you! (link)
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it is really hard to get get over someone that you really liked, especially if he was your best friend. definitly talk to him about it. there is no reason that he wont want to be friends with you and if you were best friends before, you should try and go back to that. even though its hard, try and forget about all the rough stuff you went through with him. tell him that you still want to be friends and you want it to be like it used to be and not to lead you on if hes just gonna drop you like that.
good luck!
hope i helped
-Danni
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I'm new to this site so bare with me.
I am a 14/f. My sister is 13. My sister always steals (excuse me.."borrows") my clothes to wear to school after I leave for school (I'm in High School &
she's in Middle, so I leave an hour and a half earlier).
This is SO annoying, for several reasons. One, she doesn't ask, she just picks them up and goes. I used to not mind if she asked, but it's gotten so
frequent now that I get agitated, anyway.
Second, when I ASK her if she has any of my clothes, more often than not, she'll lie to me and say no. A lot
of times, I've tested her by finding some of my clothes that she has taken. Then, I would ask her if she wore it, and she'll say, "no." Of course, I
know she's lying because I already found the clothes in her room. Also, whenever I ask, she's always like, "WHY WURR U DIGGIN 'ROUND IN MAH
LAUNDRY" and frankly, that is so hypocritical of her, since almost everyday she digs around in MY closet. And besides, I don't dig around in her laundry:
I find the clothes when emptying her stuff out of the washer/dryer.
The biggest reason of all why I HATE it when she takes my stuff, is she fucking stretches them. I first notied this a couple of months ago - one of my
shirts that she had borrowed was looser on me. I didn't say anything because I thought I was imagining it. But my fear was confirmed when she
borrowed a pair of my shorts, WHICH WAS CUSTOM MADE *FOR ME* (8th grade home ec class..good times :P) and *BY ME*, and after I found them, they no longer fit me as well as they used
to. They slide down when I jump now :( Also, a white shirt that I had went missing last year (I think she borrowed it and never returned it), and I only found it in the basement this past weekend. I've only worn it once, and it was a nice fit on me. Then my sister comes along, TAKES it, and of course, I noticed immediately it was gone because I now have to keep tabs on all my stuff so I know asap when something is missing. Anyway, I washed it and tried it on again, and now she stretched it SO much that the bottom lining of the shirt RIPPED so it's all loose and not that good of a fit anymore. (note: it was a size small, so it was kinda tight on me anyway)
She says she takes my stuff because she doesn't have enough clothes to wear. Bull fucking shit. If she only took the time to find all her clothes and pack them neatly every once in a while, she would see she has just as much stuff as I do, if not more. My closet only appears full because half the stuff in there are stuff I'd only wear to parties & stuff.
So my question is, how can I make her stop taking my stuff, and how can i tell her politely it's because she stretches them? (I NEED to tell her she stretches them, because no other reason, not even for the sake of my privacy, will stop her from raiding my closet, apparently.)
Please don't tell me to tell my parents, my mom neutral and all about "sharin' is carin'" and my dad is on my side but he doesn't enforce it. ty (link)
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well like everyone else said, a closet lock is a very good idea but she might be offended by that.. so i would definitly advise talking to her before you go locking anything up. you definitly dont want to hurt her feelings so i would sit her down and tell her sternly but not in a mean way that you would appreciate it if she didnt wear your clothes anymore..and if she argues, tell her maybe that she can wear certain clothes and only like once a week if she "runs out of clothes to wear". she should understand
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Ok My name is Meghan and in 14 years old and i like this boy that goes to my school and his name is Sean and we were like bff's and then i started to like him and he started to like me but we did'nt go out because he had a gf.Well then after we told each other that we liked each other we stopped talking and now him and his gf broke up and were talking again but i don't know if he still has feelings and im afraid to tell him how i feel. (link)
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well the worst thing that you could possibly do is not tell him. how will you know if he still likes you if you dont tell him? i know its hard and kinda scarey to tell someone that you like them. but to me, it seems that if he started to like you before, why wouldnt he like you now? just tell him, he could tell you that he likes you back or he could tell you that he doesnt have the same feelings and that you guys can still be friends. it isnt so bad. i wouldnt keep your feelings all botteled up.
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Hi,i was wondering,my g/f is having her period and i was wondering what i could say to her to make her feel better/more comfortable about it,and what i could just do to be nice about it..especially when the mood swings start =(
thanks =)
Age=14 (link)
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just agree with everything she says. your going to have to put up with her being like this for a few days but if you care for her then its worth it. you dont need to do anything special or say anything about it. dont mention it and let her complain to you. us girls love to complain so just agree nicely. be as nice as you can to her, dont tell her that her pms is bothering you because she isnt going to care, for that week, its about her and how she feels. if she complains about cramps tell her your sorry and tell her that you wish you couldmake her feel better. but other than that, you dont need to say anything about it. just leave her be
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Okay... I have this friend that I've liked for a really long time. I'm so close to just saying "I like you more than just a friend" but I can't seem to find a time to just say it. I have to find a way for her to bring it up, or else I won't say it. I know, it's bad, but I can't do it. If she would somehow bring it up if I like her or not, then I would say I do like her... Any ideas?? (link)
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dating a close friend can definitly ruin things between you two. if you really care about her and dont want to loose her, dating might not be the best thing. but if you really want a way to bring it up, ask her maybe who she is crushing on at the moment, or maybe talk about what her views on realtionships are..if you try these things and she doesnt hint at anything more between the two of you, maybe you should leave it alone because i know i wouldnt want to loose my bestfriend.
well from what you told me, it seems like shes interested. i think that you should tell her how you feel and bring up that convorsation again. it seems to me, by what she said, she is hinting at something between you two
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I'm a 14 year old girl and over the summer i go to sleepaway camp. At camp i met this really great guy and we became like best friends. We both started to like eachother and everyone knew it. He tickled me made me laugh...the whole shabang. We never really became a couple though because I had a boyfriend. On the last day of camp we told eachother how we felt and so on...he kissed me. He only lives about 20 minutes away from me and no matter how long ago it was, he means the world to me. Hes not one for keeping in touch though. He tells me he still has feelings for me and wrote a poem for me! But our conversations are about once a month. I keep Iming him and he doesn't answer. I call him...no answer. I don't try too hard to contact him because I know that is totally annoying. But...what gives?? Not talking to him and seeing him hurts and I feel like im the only one giving some effort to keep in touch. What should I do? Ive tried EVERYTHING!! I know he still cares about me...should i give up? (link)
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you probably shouldnt give up but i think that if he really cared then he would be putting in as much effort as you are. it isnt fair that you are putting in this effort and he isnt. i would try as hard as you can to contact him one day no matter how annoying you think it may be and maybe he will answer you, and when he does you need to tell him that if he wants you to try for him, he needs to do the same for you. if that doesnt work, maybe write to him if it comes to that or even go see him, even though i think thats a little extreme. there are pleanty of other guys out there dont get too caught up on one its not worth it in the end.
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What can I do to get slimer thighs in the upper area? I'm skinney but I got a lot of fat in my upper leg I could say because if I walk in my underwear or in anything I can feel that fat in my legs jiggling! Here's a picture of an example of the legs I want (any example would do like celebs that don't have fat in their legs) and I don't have a webcam or scanner or anything so I tried my best at drawing my leg.
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/leg.jpg
Anything about ugly knees either? I sit down a lot so my knee is really ugly looking but it's mostly from school, you can't say I want a chair and other students can't get one or it would be unfair. (link)
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i have the same problem and it makes me so self concious. if you are naturally skinny and just naturally have bigger upper legs and thys, it is very hard to get rid of. running is one of the best things that you can do.
http://www.annecollins.com/Weight_Loss/slim_thighs_exercises.htm
this is a pretty good website if your looking for specific exercises. but running and jump roping definitly work if you keep it up every day. good luck!
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Theres this guy, Jake. I've known him for two years, but until this year we didn't really talk. Last year, he would say hi to me and all, which was nice because I was new, and we weren't really friends. This year, we started talking more because we had classes. We're kind of friends, I guess. But I developed a huge crush on him. And now he seems a little more distant. Like, he'll talk to me, and say something really sweet, and he seems like he's genuinely interested. But then I respond and he seems like he suddenly loses interest. Why!? (link)
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well it depends. does he know how you feel? if he does and hes doing this, he might be nervous about starting a relationship or maybe he doesnt want one at the moment. he might be trying to keep you liking him by saying sweet things to you but maybe he doesnt want to get to far into things. i would say something to him about it. If he doesnt know how you feel, maybe he is hesitant because he doesnt know if you like him back. boys are so confusing and im sorry i cant answer you too well because im not a guy lol.
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There's this guy Dean who I just started to talk to on myspace. He's two years older and really hot... blonde surf hair and gorgeousss blue eyes. I havent talked to him in person before, but he commented me last night, and we've been talking a lot on myspace. He seems really sweet. We don't ever see eachother in person, and he has different friends. I think I'm starting to like him... is that bad? (link)
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i dont think thats bad at all. if he goes to your school and you know that hes not some crazy stalker then i would definitly go for it. ask him on myspace if he wants to sit with you at lunch sometime or if thats too much just smile and say hi to him in the hallway if you ever see him. he sounds really cute and i wouldnt let him get away. i would definitly talk to him online a little more and try and see him in school before you set up any kind of date with him. i would want to know a little more about him if i were you. and about him having different friends, tha could be a chance for you to meet more people. my boyfriend has way different friends from mine and ive actually gotten to know them and they are pretty cool. i would go for it!!
-danni
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okay so i have this friend and her name is jenna. we've been bffs since kindergarden and are still bffs. but this year is really different. like everytime shes around SHES the spotlight. and im the OUTCAST! its so annoying. and today is valentines day right? & i forgot to give her gift to her and she was like UMM I LOVE HOW YOU GAVE ME A VDAY GIFT. i was about to punch her SOOO HARD. ughh shes really agervating me. and oh yeah if i tell her how i feel she'll be like I DIDNT DO ANNYYTHING. (because she "never does")
oh please help me
thanks in advance!! (link)
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a real friend wouldnt ask you for a valentines day gift, or gifts in general. its very rude. real friends aren't friends because they get eachother nice things, they are friends because they are compatible and have fun with each other. you dont seem like you are having too much fun with her. i would tell you to tell her how you feel but i guess you've already done that and she doesnt seem too sympatheic. i know its hard to give up friends that you've been friends with for so long but sometimes you just need to drop them. i would talk to her one more time, tell her how you feel, and if she keeps being so ignorant, tell her that you dont want a friend like her. who knows, she might decide to be more respectful of your feelings if she thinks shes going to loose you as a friend.
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what should i take in 10th grade...french or spanish? whaterver i choose i want to take all 3 yrs cause its what a colleg will look for. so i want to have an impressive resame. what will look better 3 yrs of french or spanish? thanks (link)
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well just like everyone else said, Spanish is definitly the way to go. being a 10th grader myself, i totally regret taking french because it is very difficult and i now know that spanish is the second most spoken language in the united states after english. If you are planning on getting a career in the U.S. i would definitly go with Spanish.
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i have very thick hair so i normally straighten it but i dont know how to wear it because its annoying to wear just down so could you give me some good hair styles (link)
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http://www.virtualhaircare.com/virtual%20salon/your%20hair/thick.html
^^^ thats a pretty decent website but i dont know if thats what your looking for..i would reccomend getting it thinned if you dont already, and different layers work. i wear mine half up half down so with more in the up part so it dosent look like i have so much hair on the bottom..but thats just me..i also pin it up away from my face on the top and both the sides with bobby pins and that works sometimes too..but thick hair is so hard
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oh my gosh does anyone know where i can find the song Out to Sea by Smile Empty Soul? ive tried itunes and limewire and they dont have it! it used to be on their myspace but now its not and i need it for free! (link)
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well i tried to look for it on myspace and limewire to see if i could find it but i couldnt and then i looked the song up on google and many of the radio sites say that it isnt avaliable yet. so i dont know if that helps but im not sure if its out from any computer sources yet, but i could be wrong..
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