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I'm a 14 year old girl and over the summer i go to sleepaway camp. At camp i met this really great guy and we became like best friends. We both started to like eachother and everyone knew it. He tickled me made me laugh...the whole shabang. We never really became a couple though because I had a boyfriend. On the last day of camp we told eachother how we felt and so on...he kissed me. He only lives about 20 minutes away from me and no matter how long ago it was, he means the world to me. Hes not one for keeping in touch though. He tells me he still has feelings for me and wrote a poem for me! But our conversations are about once a month. I keep Iming him and he doesn't answer. I call him...no answer. I don't try too hard to contact him because I know that is totally annoying. But...what gives?? Not talking to him and seeing him hurts and I feel like im the only one giving some effort to keep in touch. What should I do? Ive tried EVERYTHING!! I know he still cares about me...should i give up?
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you probably shouldnt give up but i think that if he really cared then he would be putting in as much effort as you are. it isnt fair that you are putting in this effort and he isnt. i would try as hard as you can to contact him one day no matter how annoying you think it may be and maybe he will answer you, and when he does you need to tell him that if he wants you to try for him, he needs to do the same for you. if that doesnt work, maybe write to him if it comes to that or even go see him, even though i think thats a little extreme. there are pleanty of other guys out there dont get too caught up on one its not worth it in the end.
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don't give up on the guy until you talk to him about it. tell him how you feel and try to talk through it all. make sure to give the guy some time to talk and to be open. don't be too mean about it but make sure to let him know you're serious about it. tell him that in order for it to work you both have to give. hope i helped and it works out for you two.
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hey, well never give up until you absoulutely know that youve tried everything. you need to go to his house. ring the doorbell and just wait there. if he isnt home tell his parents that you really need to talk to there son and leave your phone number. if hes home explain to him that you have to talk to him. tell him that he still means a lot to you and that you cant just keep waiting, hoping, and wishing for him to come into contact with you. you need to know if he wants to keep talking or what. tell him that you cant live like this anymore.
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