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I still want him
okay so , this is actually really comnplicated but i'll try to make it short & sweet & not waste too much of your time. Once upon a time i fell for one of my friend's boyfriends (don't worry i told her about it and she was cool with it & liked the idea of us being together)Things were going great and according to my friends he was planning on asking me out he was just wating for the perfect moment (which was a blind date Xmas present thing) well he never did and i later find out that thigns statred to get complicated and confusing for him right around xmas break (the time he was suppose to ask me out) & then i find out that there was sorta another girl he liked at his school & his ex girlfriend started to feel things again (i knew that would happen & he always felt stongly about her & it took some time but i was the one to change his mind and make him move on) so i got frusterated because he didn't know what he wanted and backed out of the picture so i pretty much slowly backed out of the picture so he could have time to himself and figure things out. And well we don't really talk so much anymore, & my firends don't really care for him anymore. But i just want to find out reasons, why he didn't jsut ask me, if he liked me that much, why did he hesitate, and yet im still crazy about him, I mean i try to avoid him but i secretely still want him. Does that make any sense, And he is my first major crush in a very very long time. How do i get his attention again, & how do i get those answers to why he changed his mind? Anyway thats BASICALLY it, Theres more detail but you don't really want to hear that,s o yeha, does anybody know what i can do???
18 yrs old
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hmm where to start! first off lemmie say i have alot of respect for you for getting away from him and making distance with him. because not alot of girls are that strong to that. you did the right thing especially since things were getting hard for him. Because sometimes when a person is overwhelmed, it can lead to things being said but not being meant. i think that even if your friend didnt have feelings for him again, it would change the outcome. because look, they`re not talking anymore so what is holding him back from talking you again ? i have so many thoughts about why he could of changed his mind, since i really dont know the person, you could probably pick out which one it is sicne you know him better. maybe he was scared to have another serious relationship ? like scared to catch alot of feelings for a girl since the last relationship turned into them not being together anymore. another possibility could be that he lost feelings, sometimes people realize that they just dont want a relationship and they want to be single. i guess what im trying to say is that if he really liked you and wanted a relationship with you, he would be the one to come to you and say that he still likes you and say sorry for what he did. you cant really bother him too much just incase he gets annoyed. just give it time and if nothing happens, then let it go. i really wish you the best of luck.
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well that makes perfect sense and i think you were completely right when to gave him his space and to give him time, but if all of your friends are over him, you should try and talk to him again. i would tell you to tell him how you feel but that sounds so cliche. i wouldnt try and aviod him. you really need to start talking to him again so that you guys can be friends and then maybe end up more then that eventually. the only real way to find all of those answers is to get them from the source...him. and maybe some of your friends may know some details so i would ask them about it too.
good luck
hope i helped
Danni <3
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