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okay so i have this friend and her name is jenna. we've been bffs since kindergarden and are still bffs. but this year is really different. like everytime shes around SHES the spotlight. and im the OUTCAST! its so annoying. and today is valentines day right? & i forgot to give her gift to her and she was like UMM I LOVE HOW YOU GAVE ME A VDAY GIFT. i was about to punch her SOOO HARD. ughh shes really agervating me. and oh yeah if i tell her how i feel she'll be like I DIDNT DO ANNYYTHING. (because she "never does")
oh please help me
thanks in advance!!
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a real friend wouldnt ask you for a valentines day gift, or gifts in general. its very rude. real friends aren't friends because they get eachother nice things, they are friends because they are compatible and have fun with each other. you dont seem like you are having too much fun with her. i would tell you to tell her how you feel but i guess you've already done that and she doesnt seem too sympatheic. i know its hard to give up friends that you've been friends with for so long but sometimes you just need to drop them. i would talk to her one more time, tell her how you feel, and if she keeps being so ignorant, tell her that you dont want a friend like her. who knows, she might decide to be more respectful of your feelings if she thinks shes going to loose you as a friend.
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Well, that's definately a toughie. If you guys are best friends, maybe you should try and talk to her in person about how you feel your friendship has changed, i wouldn't reccomend saying she thinks she's always the sopt light, don't get mad or anything, just tell her that things have changed and you feel that you're not as good of friends anymore, and sometimes she can be agrivating. I wouldn't bring up anything about the present (even though that was very rude of her and she shouldn't have expected anything) because that would just make her upset. If she's a real friend, she'd understand.
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I truly hope you reevaluate this friendship.
BFF is a title given to a very dear friend who you hold in the highest regard, and vise versa.
It was very rude for her to expect a gift from you, and even worse for her to make an issue out of it. If she is so inconsiderate of you and your feelings to not only behave that way, but to go on about how she never did anything when you talk to her about your feelings, then she is no BFF to you. A BFF is a person who respects you and your feelings.
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Just from reading this, I can tell you don't like her that much, even though you have been friends for a long time. If she's that immature about you not getting her a valentine's day gift, then she isn't a very good friend. I say talk to her, and tell her to be serious about it. If she continues to deny doing anything, she isn't the type of friend you need. Friends need to be supportive and not mad because you didn't get her a gift for a commercial holiday meant for couples.
I hope I helped!
--Jack
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