Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 12:07 am
Hi,i was wondering,my g/f is having her period and i was wondering what i could say to her to make her feel better/more comfortable about it,and what i could just do to be nice about it..especially when the mood swings start =(
dannisaysso answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 8:26 pm: just agree with everything she says. your going to have to put up with her being like this for a few days but if you care for her then its worth it. you dont need to do anything special or say anything about it. dont mention it and let her complain to you. us girls love to complain so just agree nicely. be as nice as you can to her, dont tell her that her pms is bothering you because she isnt going to care, for that week, its about her and how she feels. if she complains about cramps tell her your sorry and tell her that you wish you couldmake her feel better. but other than that, you dont need to say anything about it. just leave her be [ dannisaysso's advice column | Ask dannisaysso A Question ]
blujay answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:54 am: please not all females get the mood swings but there is nothing that you can say about her period pains so just leave it alone! no biggy [ blujay's advice column | Ask blujay A Question ]
MSMWBTUA1718 answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:38 am: Well don't bring it up, if she brings it up then that's a different story. If she's getting mad at little things, just agree and try to laugh it off. try to avoid talking about issues and problems that might be bothering her so she can feel more relaxed. make her laugh, bring her chocolate, make her feel loved. good luck [ MSMWBTUA1718's advice column | Ask MSMWBTUA1718 A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:18 am: Just be there for her. Call her and let her complain & whatever & she will love you for it. when she's pushing you away don't say "i guess i'll let you go.." because she'll regret it & get all upset about it. just care about her & stay on the line unless its obvious that she doesn't want to tak anymore. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 12:58 am: first off, don`t even mention pms. don`t say anything about it. also, don`t talk about her being on her period. don`t even mention it. if she does, just be nice and stuff about it. if she gets mad, just deal with it, don`t get mad cuz she`s mad. apologize. don`t tell her she`s making a big deal of something. NEVER tell her she`s making a big deal out of something or blowing it out of proportion. just be understanding. [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 12:49 am: Do something nice for her, like maybe go cut some flowers and bring her a bouquet.
I wouldn't advise saying stuff like "sorry you got your period, hope this makes it easier" because that definitely won't help prevent a mood swing... Also, you don't want her to be embarrassed about it. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
angieroonie answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 12:45 am: heat pack (for her stomachache), chocolate (always makes a girl feel better), and just watch some movies so she has something to take her mind of it. :) [ angieroonie's advice column | Ask angieroonie A Question ]
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