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I usually joke around with this buddy of mine. I mess with him, he laughs, and it all goes well. But today I was joking with him as usual, and he all of a sudden got really mad, called me horrible names, like I am a horrible person (and other innapropriate things). I am sure what I said wasn't offensive. It's the same thing I similarly say every time I talk to him, and every other day he laughs about it. He did say he was having a bad day but he took his anger out on me. So he is mad at me, while I am just slightly mad at him. He really hurt me, but I am worried if I talk to him I will make things worse for our friendship. Should I just let him cool off for a few days, or try talking to him (with the risks involved)? I don't want to lose him as a friend, but he really hurt my feelings.

Any advice?

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let him cool off for some days...he just wasn't in the mood for jokes....and you have to respect that...maybe when he is better you can tell him he hurt your feelings,and i'm pretty sure he'll say sorry...


Hi,i was wondering,my g/f is having her period and i was wondering what i could say to her to make her feel better/more comfortable about it,and what i could just do to be nice about it..especially when the mood swings start =(

thanks =)

Age=14 (link)
umm don't ever mess with her about her period....umm do not give her chocolates...it will cause her to get cramps...ummm agree with anything she says that wont harm you or her......and just be cool about it*her mood swing* ok


im another girl with a small chest who wants to increase her breast size. all my girl cusins are bigger then me and there the same age [13] they're B's C's while i barely fit into a size A. I mean i have a boyfriend and everything and he doesn't care what size I am but I just feel I would have more self esteem with a bigger size. My boobs started to grow at age 10 and i got my period at age 11 so i thought i'd have boobs by now but thats not the case. Will they grow if i eat certain foods? or take birth control pills? [thats what i've been told] BTW dont tell me patience and to wait if you answer with that you have not helped at all k thnx (link)
okay...you are thirteen...you are sill a little kid..jeje...umm...do NOT take birth control pills....and just wait to develop you will grow and so will your breast.and if you don't want to wait....i don't think food will help for breast are muscles so exercise could help too...not only breast but your behind jaja...so yeah you either wait or do exercise


okay, i just started my period last month and i have already noticed that my boobs are a big bigger. Is this abnormal? or what does it mean? Does it mean that i will have a big front later? Or what will they look like by the summer? (link)
okay...umm...it is totally not abnormal...you are developing....and it's good that you develop...umm just incase they haven't tld you this...while you are on your period avoid junk food...it can cause cramps


Alright so my friend mandy puts eyedrops in her water to like make her go poop? or something beause her mom wont by her have laxitves because shes trying to be a bluemic i guess she says she dosent take them all the time like once a month but can they really hurt her? or what is it doing to her body? and could it mess up her future like health problems? if so what. im pretty sure she only takes them once a month or so.

thanks a bunch
and sorry about spelling

Maria (link)
well in the future it can cause her to get very sick..because eye drops contiain chemicals...and it is specified to be used on eyes...so she should stop


im very scard. i smokED, i recently stoped 2 weeks ago because of my shortness of breath. (weed and cigs) i noticed if i went up about 6 stairs, i was complety out of breath. i used to play soccer, but i cant anymore cause i cant breath. today i was skiing and i took 2 aleve in the morning, for my knees. at 4 i came in and they were killing me, so i took another aleve. now its 6:30 and its kind of hard for me to breath, and i have a killer head ach but i cant take anything for it. also im drinking cold water. but i saw a commerical on mtv, that was talking about lung cancer. im 14 and my parents DONT know i smokeD. i was wondering what are signs of lung cancer? im scard i might have it. (link)
i had my cousin google thi up....because i have a friend whom i completely love....and he smokes so i wanted him to be aware of these symptoms....and you should too



There are a variety of symptoms of lung cancer, including difficulty breathing, coughing up blood, chest pain, loss of appetite, weight loss and general fatigue. Some lung cancers do not cause any noticeable symptoms until they are quite advanced and have spread to other parts of the body.



and just for you to know

There are four main types of lung cancer: small cell lung cancer, squamous cell carcinoma, large cell carcinoma and adenocarcinoma. Tobacco smoking is strongly linked to the first three but only weakly linked to adenocarcinoma. However, this type of lung cancer has been linked to the use of low-tar cigarettes


P.S don't thank me for this...i just don't want anybody to get hurt...my friend..he is 13 and he just won't listen to me...he won't stop smoking but even if i don't kno you i'm happy you stopped


I accidentally drop my Ipod in the washing machine today while it was running. Thankfully, it was off and on hold, but I haven't tried turning it on yet in case there is moisture in there. What are the chances of it ever being able to work again? Is it possible to just leave it off for a few days and just let it dry out? Or am I basically screwed? (link)
i'm thinking you are screwed


i\'ve been noticing a girl in my college compound showing interest to me. when she is alone, she doesn\'t seem showing interest. but, when she is with her circle (g/friends, she looks at me, very cutely...i really like her. meanwhile i\'m scared if she says to her cicle that am after her while looking at her...i just want to go for her...but this to do is coming beyond my guts. i\'m very shy in these cases. just give me, some good and well assured attractive ways to just date her. i\'ll be too glad and meanwhile appreciate your kind cooperation and help to me emailing you from india. Please, find a better way to teach me to get good moral of dating her out successfully.
thank you so much.
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well first of all if she shows no interest when she's alone...have you thought maybe she doesn't like you...not to be rude,but her friends and her could be just messing with you because they know you like her....so there is no solving this until you kno if she likes you or not...sorry..by the way i am a girl...and one of my friends did this to one guy



i can't figure out the title of this song.
it starts like this:

"the girls pose the same for pictures,
all the boys have the same girls hair.."

i've tried google-ing it, but i've found no good results. has anyone ever heard this song and can tell me the title and artist?

thanks in advance :) (link)
umm i believe it's she doesn't get it by the format




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