theres this girl that has been following me around since 7th grade she never talks or when she can you can't hear her.I dont like feeling like I have a shodow its emberassing when I talk to people and they try and talk to her but she just wont talk. Its the most annoying feeling so thats why i dont even enjoy lunch anymore id rather go to my next class. even if i say to someone "i need to tell you something in private" and walk away she still follows me. Shes the shyest person EVER and i would feel bad hurting her feelings. BUT I CANT TAKE IT ANY LONGER. pleaseee help i'll rate 5's
thanks
oh man ... sorry to hear that. i think tryign to talk to her is a good thing. and if someone wants to talk to you in private and she starts to follow you, just say oh can you stay here a minute i have to talk to him/her. and if she still doesnt listen start to get a little attitude. if she doesnt listen by then you scream! but it shoudlnt go that far. just keep tryin to talk to her and try to let her know she can talk to you. make her feel comfortable. i know it can be annoying but jsut give it one last shot!
xo briana
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Well my parents make me see a theripist and my theripist is awesome but he has this saterday thing where its group theripy and i want to join it its all boys and my theripist says that i would like the class i dont know what to do....I really want to share my problems with other people. help i rate high
you shood do it! im sure it will help! you can meet new friends who are going through the same feelings as you! i think it'll be good.
hope i helped you =)
xo briana
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Sorry in advance for it being long. I'm 14/f and there is this guy that I really really like. The thing is we don't talk much, we don't see each other a lot, and earlier this school year he said I freaked him out. Well, during this year he has been flirting with me, and my friends noticed too. He hugs other girls, and awhile back he said he doesn't hug me because I'm too specail for his hugs. Then a couple days ago, one of my friends asked him why I don't get hugs. And he said that I don't want his hugs. I just want him to notice me, and we could talk more. But I'm kinda afraid to go up to him and just start talking or even on AIM. What should I do? I really like this guy. Does he like me or am I just being retarded?
well he probably does like you .. you should defintely talk to him more! i know ur scared but he probably is too! lol .. dont worry just relax and be yourself .. dont think too much about if he likes you or not cas then if you hear wat you dont want to you'll b dissapointed .. so just be friends .. and im sure he'll start giving you hugs!
xo briana
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okay i have this friend who ive only known for like a year and weve only been good friends for like a couple months but anyways he is going out with my bestfriend ..and i mean i hate when people my age (14) say i love you if you can tell they dont mean it but i KNOW they do and i hangout with them like everyday and i have so much fun with them they are the two people i can honestly say i trust i love them both to death they are my bestfriends... but this kid got charged for raping these two girls..but he didnt do anything like that he would never do that...they are just stupid and try to start shit and thats not something to joke around with and so he was locked up for 2 months until he went to court...and his gf's (my bff) mom found out she said she wanted her to have NOTHING to do with him..he got out and we were over there everyday and she had been lying to her mom but then we got cought the other day and her mom was bullshit and told my mom the whole story and now we cant see him because neither of them want us going over there...my mom says i can talk on the phone with him and stuff and maybe go over in a little while when he gets off house arrest but i feel so bad he is my bestfriend and she loves him and he is the only one she has besides like me and a few others.... please helpp
find out who the girls were! make them tell the truth! if they end up not gettin raped, all cahrges will b dropped.. DID he get foudn guilty tho? if he didnt tell ur mom that, but if he did, then u neeed to tell him that u cant talk to him for a while..after week, talk to ur mom about how much u miss talkin w/ him n stuff, tell her that he wood never rape ne bodi n tose dumb hoez were lieing for attention. hopefully ur mom will understand and u guys can hang out together. As for ur freind, tell her to do the same thing! lay low n then ask! cas if u lie n go behind ur parents baq there never gunna let u hang out w/ him! specially if he does end up doing something bad!!1
hope this works out oaky...
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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.
wat you shood do....is get a gift basket n fill it w/ deoderents, shampoos, and conditoners, perfume n crap. then hav one fo ur freinds giv it to u for ur b day party. then, b like omg " freinds name " i got all this stuff alredi...i dont need it, u want it? i mean i hav this exacpt basket at mi house or in my bathroom or w/e. then ur freind will take it n shell use it!
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
I think your doing the right thing and waiting! i think that u shood just tell him how ur feeling. maybe he feels the saem way! then u guys wont have to kiss n stuff wen it temts u to go further! ive never been in that situation, but thats how i wood handle it! hope this helps...briana
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Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP
i think that if hes nice around u, u shood hang w/ him! im 13 n i talk to a 16 yr old all the time! were not as close as u n ur friend r but hey! i think that u shood def talk to him about his drinking habits! u dont want to end up gettin in his car w/ himw en hes drunk n like get in an accident! but tell ur freinds how he is! maybe u cood all hang out sumtime so they cood get to no him!
briana
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Hi, I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool. As you know I would have to start thinking about a future job and what I would like. I have 3 things chose. 1) A crime scene investigator 2) a teacher or 3) an interior designer ... now with # 1 I can't stand blood thats coming out of the body in large amounts, would I usually see this if i was a CSI??
yea probably! i mean i dont wanna gross you out or ne thing....but u will porb end up seeing people who were shot to death, stabbed to death, beaten to death, and like stuff liek that, and that usualy contains a lot of blood! lol
briana
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Sorry this ones loge but i need help
I'm in a really big social group at school and my 2 neighbors r in it. ive know them since i've moved in and we became really good friend. when school started 1 of my neighbors bff was at my school. right away we hated each other and i don't no why. about a week ago my neighbors and the bff started a book that no one was aloud to see. it really pissed me off and made me realize that every one i surrond my self with are a bunch of backstabing, secret telling liars. i got in to a big fight with 1 of my neighbors and iots sort of resolved but after that was over the bff wrote me a note calling me a poser and a tramp and talking shit about my bf. i was soo pissed off. now i don't want to hang out w/any off them but there like the only people i no.
p.s. me other friend feels the same
i think u and ur other friends should hang out more often instead of ur neighbors. i think that if they wanna b like that let them but dont let them giv u ne b/s. tell ur bff that u were reli hurt by her letter n that u styll wanna b freinds w/ her ( if u do ) other than that...def start hanging out w/ ppl u like more!
briana
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I've been having a lot of problems at home and everything in the last forever long. Last night something got to me really bad and I ended up taking off. I was swimming and after that my mom literally almost dragged me to my school, told me to clean out my locker and that I wouldn't be going back to school there anymore. after swim practice, mom walked into the aquarena and started to scream at me right in front of my friends. he litterally dragged me over to pwc, where she made me clean my locker out, telling me i was never coming back to school here again. once we got outside i just dropped my books and started walking back towards the pool. mom followed me and we actually started to fight. now mom's smaller then me, and i didn't want to hurt her so i just shoved her off and ran for it. lachlan lives like a 5 min walk from the pool.. but it ended up taking me like 20 mins to get there because i had to hide. mom was driving around looking for me. went to lachlans, snuck around back and walked into their kitchen. neil (his dad) just smiled at me and said 'your mom dropped by here about 10 mins ago looking for you. i thought you'd turn up eventually.' and he offered me food. i just decided to sit out on their back deck for like 30 mins thinkning... mom came by while i was there, neil covered for me and said they hadn't heard from me. they promised not to give me away. anyways, fio (his mom) came home and we talked outside for awhile, then lachlan came home and we talked.. i called kids help phone and then went inside his house. my hair was wet from the pool and i was outside for over 2 hours so i was freezing! didn't eat like a thing. figured out that i'd be spending the night at their place. then we went and picked up jamie, went to the village mall where i left a msg at home saying i was okay and i was staying at a friends house...when i came home today she flipped out at me so bad. I'm at the point where I can't stay at my house anymore but I feel really bad for not staying there. Has anyone ever done this, or anything similar? And how can I get help or be able to stay there? =\
ive never been in that situation before. i think wat mite help is that u talk to ur mom about wat ur feeling. ask her if u can temporarily live with friends or sumthing...if she doesnt like the idea then u shood def go to a family counselor. im sorry if this doesnt help......good luck..briana
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i have 2 really close friends. Ones a guy and one's a girl, if that really matters. And they say they love me all the time, but i just dont feel it. i just dont feel loved, i feel upset all the time. Does anyone kno y i feel this way? i think it's b/c i'm so lonely, i dont have a bf and never have. Anyone have sum tips?
i think that you should reli start being happier! wen that kicks in ull see that ur friends reli do love tyou nad guys will def notice and start to like you! if u hav a reli hard time getting happy, ask ur doctor for anti depressentts i no it sounds reli drastic, but it can and will help!
hope everything works out for you...briana
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For starters in 14/f... I did something really bad with a friend's boyfriend. About a month or so ago, my bf and I broke up after dating all summer because he liked her, we'll call her Sam. I knew she led him on and that's why he was being such an idiot towards me. (He was my first real bf, him being 16) I couldn't take the jealousy anymore, and after we broke up she still talked to him and lead him on, even when she was dating one of my friends, call him Bob. About a week ago Bob, 2 of my other friends, and I were all hanging out. I don't know how it happened, but i was still so upset with Sam for doing what she did, and I don't have feelings for Bob or anything, but I gave him head just because that was something we both wanted to get out of the way for the first time. (While the other 2 friends did the same thing too..)
Everything was okay, and I regretted it but we all agreed not to tell *anyone* and forget it ever happened... Bob slipped to one of his friends and Sam found out. Now she's so mad and I don't blame her. Now, the ex that I've been trying to patch things up with won't talk to me, and Sam only blames me for what happened. I'm an awful person I know that... I should never have done that to her, but it was just all so hard after stealing my bf from me. Someone please just help me here.
okay...wow...apologize to ur friend n tell her that u were jsut upset and u r sorry n it wood never happen again...tell ur ex the same thing! tell bob to keep it on the down low so no1 else finds out n starts calling u a slut.
hope everything turns out fine.....briana
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my bfs b day is coming up in about a month and i LOVE him so much....we r really close but i have NO idea wat ot get him!!! help!! i dun wanna get him lyke a watch or sumthing hes more of a skater n i want to get sumtihng that reminds him of me whne he sees it and sumthing sweet...help...15/f
wat u cood get him, is a cd that way wen he listens to it hell think of you. u can aslo buy him like a guy bracelet if hes skater. think of all the things he likks, if u styll dont no....ask him wat he wants... mayb he wants sumthing particular that u cood get for him!
briana~~
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there is a guy that i like and he just broke up with my friend..i heard that while they were going out he liked another girl and she liked him and she still does and they talke on the phone..and he doesn't go out with girls very long and if i were to go out with him i wouldn't want to find out that after we break up he would like another girl while we were goin out should i like him or not?
i woodnt if i were you...he seems like a jackass, but if u truley do like him....go rite ahead! but give ur friend the heads up so seh dont get mad!! briana
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This is kind of wierd and I don't mean to be all snooty when I say it...
I love to go shopping, I love going to get my toenails done, I love going out to eat at fancy restaurants. But the thing is, my friends hate doing that kind of stuff. I would be like "Lets go get our toes done!" and they would be like "lol, No, thats stupid". I DO admit it. I'm the stereotypical 'Californian' girl who...spends money and goes to the beach and stuff. But is that bad? My friends never like doing that stuff... and I feel stupid. Its not like they don't have the money. We all have the money to do that stuff, they just think its stupid. What should I do? It seems like I'm the only "preppy" girl at school and I don't fit in with anyone. Yet I've lived in my town for 16 years...so its not like I just moved here and don't fit in. I'm just different. Is there anything I can do to convince my friends? How should I handle it? Because it kind of sucks... and I listen to like, Ashlee Simpson, Hilary Duff, and everyone hates those people... I feel so out of the loop, and yet I don't want to be in the loop...I want people to come to my loop....
well its good you dont wanna follow everybody else. try talking ur friends into the "girly" stuff you do. who nos maybe they'll like it! listen to ur music round them and try seeing their music idols n their way of life too! dont worry its not life ur friends wood drop u.
hope this hleps u...briana
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my shoulder came out during my football game yesterday ( we still won cause were beast like that ) but anyway how long do u think it will talk for me to be able to play again it will talke atleast a week ( league rules u go off tot he hospital u gotta miss a game )i also gotta concusion form it
youll definatley b out of games for liek a week. if its reli bad prob longer!!
sorry for bad news...briana
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ok i just got home, its halloween, sucks im in so early right? well ok my cheeks hurts, my friends and i went out, there were like 13 of us and we're just goofing off, having fun, being normal teens on halloween, egging... and some van pulls up and stops in the middle of the street, there were like a LOT of gangbangers in there and they started shotting.. i thought it was eggs and stuff and we didn't know they were aiming at us, i mean we dont even know who the fuck they were, and my friends are all dodging and i am to but im a lil slow, and i got hit and they run off. i touch my cheek and its HUGE ... and green, then i find out that i got hit by a paintball, so i put on soo much ice, i don't want my parents to see it cause they'll start bitching, and well i put cover up on when i got home. i dont want people starting roomers at school, and i need some explanations i could use. we came up with i popped a pimple, lol, i scratched my self, something bit me, ... and i need something better. its not too big but its noticeable. does anyone have any ideas i can use to get rid of it faster and what cover up is good? thanks a bunch!
ps ... by the way im 14 if that helps! =) thanks again. ill rate you!
okay ow musta hurt! but like loreal coverup on it! the liquid crap!! u cood tell them u walked into a door or sumthing! or u cood sey u got in a fight w/ ur friends joking around n got hit too hard or sumthing! your parents shouldnt get mad at you! but if u dont want to tell them dont! lmao
briana
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alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.
i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.
PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =)
well i wont tell u to stop if ur working on it.. keep putting coverup on it and wen the time is rite tell ur mom about it and y u do it! if u decide not to, draw things on ur hands and wrists so she doesnt think u lied that one time! i wood tel her, but its up to you!
hope it all works out!
briana
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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you.
well u should definetly stop! tell someone...like a counselour....but for gym n stuff, but coverup on it! it shood work, n carry it in ur bag so u cood secretly put it on before class starts if it comes off during 1st period. if it doesnt work, u can try blush...sumtimes that works to0!
hope evrything works out oaky 4 u
briana
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im a 14 year old guy and i weigh like 150 pounds..im 5'6 or 7 and over the summer i lost like 20 pounds, but instead of it being gone, it turned to more muscle even though i naturally have a lot of muscle (it runs in my family) even though everyone tells me i dont look fat or anything, and actually some say i look so muscular and everything i dont think its true..i think im fat and i dont like it and im afraid to take my shirt of in front of my friends..although i know that my weight turned into muscle, i still look almost the same in the mirror. people tell me i look like superman because i have big calf muscles and shit like that (i have big calf muscles because i skateboard) why do i still think im fat and see myself as fat although everyone tells me im not?
its normal that when u work out all exess fat turns to muscel!! if u stillt hink ur fat, go on a safe diet and exercise more to tone down!! dont worry about it!
hope this helps...briana
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