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heyy i`m lindsay -- fifteen -- and currently loving the life that i have =) ask me anything and i`ll help you as best as i can!! if you wanna see more pictures of me, then check out my xanga -- www.xanga.com/hazelxeyes89
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this has really been getting on my nerves lately. and i just dont know if this should be going on. this is the thing: i could do anything little thing and i end up thinking about it for the rest of the day. like if i do something and it wont even have to be a "bad thing" then i think back on it and im like i should of done this or i should have done that and then i can never et it out of my system. its the most annoying thing ever. is somethin wrong or does n e one have advice for helping me loose this "concious" bc i think thats it... PLEASE HELP!
well next time it happens just be like "omg that could have turned out soo bad, what if i did this and this and this then everyone would hate me" It probably wont go away, just try and keep yourself busy so you dont have time to dwell on the past.
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Ok I am 14/f and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks now and he's great but lately we have been gettin into little fights. Like the other I was on AIM and my b/f and I werent really talkin that much... so I was talkin to my best friend tony... well my b/f got all mad and he says I dont ever talk to him and we made up but i really think that he is still mad... what should I do... I will rate high and I will take n e answers???
Thanks!
shooot let him kno that tony is just a FRIEND and ONLY a friend, and that your going out with HIM not tony, and he should trust you. Also, try to spend a little more time making sure your talking to your b/f.
hey everyone. I went out wit this guy awhile ago and then he liked me for quiete awhile after we broke up. Recently he told me he liked me but i told jhim i didnt feel the same way as he felt about me. Now he met my bst friend and they seem to like each other, its sorta akward but im happy that they like each other. I sorta miss him liking me, cuz he is always talking about how great she is and im not sure if i like him again or if i just dont like the idea of him liking her, evne thouh i don't think i do like him. So my question is, im not sure if i should tell my friend how i feel about ir o just not say n e thing cuz i dont want her to worry about something that really isn't a big deal and i am happy for her that she and this guy like each other, and i dont wanna mess n e thing up. So plz help, thanks
Well it could be that your jealous cuz you might not be totally over him and your so used to him liking you. I wouldnt say anything to your friend cuz she might get better. Just wait it out a while, because it will either go away, or your friend and that guy will break up.
ok jus like 20 minutes ago me n my sister were play fighting...well she pinched me realli hard on my hand and now my vein is purple n sticking out is that ok or should i go see the doctor??
put ice on it for like 15 minutes then take it off, and show it to your parents, and if they think its bad then theyll take you to the doctor, but it`s probably not that bad, maybe just one of those cuts that dont break the skin open but they bleed but it doesnt go through the skin and the blood looks purple, its happened to me before and they go away after a few days
Hey guys,
When I was in second grade, I got really sick and had to be put in the hospital. Since I wouldn't eat, they gave me streiods. When I got out of the hospital, I wouldn't stop eating and now I am chubby. I want to loose about 10 to 15 pounds and I am just so fed up with my weight! I have been trying to loose for about 3 years but I havn't really been able to stick with really anything. I want to loose some weight as soon as possible. Does anyone know any ways that would be fast and easy? Please help me!! I want to feel beatuiful and confident. I will rate a 10 if someone suggests something good. Please help!!
~Chubby~
First you have to make sure you stick committed to it, like go through magazienes and cut out pictures of ppls bodies taht you want yours to look like, then post them in places where you`ll see them alot, especially in your kitchen so it stops you from eating anything unhealthy. Also, drink TONS AND TONS of water, cuz itll fill you up, but it doesnt become fat. Don't eat after 7, because your digestive system "rests" then and doesnt start up again til the morning, so all that food ujst sits in your stomach all night and becomes fat.
okay i was on a antiobitioic for a sinus infection, and its a form of penecilin, and i had these HUGE absolutley huge hives all over me, they were disgusting, i was wondering what exactly are hives?
Hives are just showing you having an allergic reaction to something. That, or else you can also get them becuz your worried/stressed out about something.
to reach my weight goal i need to lose 8 pounds, but these last pounds just won't come off! what is a good way to lose weight?
drink lots n lots n LOTS of water...like before each meal just drink a glass of water cuz itll fill you up more but not make you gain wait. ALso, dont eat after 7, becuz your digestive system doesnt work as well at night, so if you eat past 7 all that food is basically just sitting there in your stomach all night and yeah not good.
I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..
make sure you REALLLLLLY trust this guy, and that youll be able to support this baby no matter what. if i were you, i would try and hold off a few years. And dont worry about what anyone else thinks! Their opinions shouldnt matter to you, especially if you and this guy are REALLY in love
ok I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and hes really sweet! and i like him alot but all we've done is makeout, he's tried to go down my pants but everytime he does he pulls his hand out and starts laughing so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do?
Maybe he`s just not ready yet... you should be thankful youve got a guy that would rather wait and not have sex with you after the first week. Just give him some time, and ask him why he always ends up laughing everytime he does that.
Okay, this may sound weird, but here it goes. I've never had a canker sore before, but recently, one grew inside my lower lip. I have always heard my friends complaining about this but they never said much about it. How do you get them and how can you make them go away/prevent them?
They hurt really bad but dont last very long. I kno that theres stuff you can by at stores to put on them, but it never really worked for me it ujst hurt REALY REALLY badly. I dont think you can really prevent them, but just keep doing whatever it is that your doing, cuz if this is your first time getting one then you're doing pretty good.
ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do?
just tell your friend she needs to stop acting that way. First of all, you hving a boyfriend does not mean you two cant stillb e friends. Second of all, she needs to be supportive of you, especially if you really like this guy. Tell her how you feel, but if it still isnt working out then you need to decide if having a boyfriend is more important, or your friendship with this girl.
how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old?
uhh becuz it kinda is..depending on the type of person.
older people tend to take advantage over younger people. iguess its just because people are worried about what would happen to the 13 year old.
Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal.
what i did was went shopping in my older friends closets =) lol. i mean its REALLY cheap that way, besides notlike anyones gonna remember "omg so and so wore that dress on this day to this dance" and i ended up with 3 free dresses to choose from.
hey my first day of 8th grades coming up in like a week n idk what to wear! i got this cute white skirt from hollister n its like ruffled i guess you could say, n it has a little blue in it and i was thinking about wearing that with like a blue tank top an a white zip up type thing since were not allowed to show our shoulders..do you think thats okay? cuz im trying to wear new things this year n everyone always comments on my clothes but do you think its an okay first day outfit?
yess!!! it sounds really cute! if not...then wear it like at least the second day or something. good choice =)
well you see i love you advice and i went to those site that you have mentioned before and they dont look like they want them and AIMutation wont work on my computer and my dad will egt mad if i start downloadinq stuff but i need some awesome faded ones like loads of people have!! can you help me out a bit??
suuure..do you want me to like send them to you or something?? or i`ll make a few i guess. just IM me sometime, im like always on... hazel x eyes91
Well i love to get on AIM and i love my away messages but is there anyone that can make those cool faded color away messages?? thanks!!
a really really easy way to make them... go herehttp://www.vex.net/~x/xfade/index.shtml
or herehttp://www.geocities.com/nightshadows21/fader.html
or you could download aimutations, just go to www.aimutations.com
ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do
what would you do???
sorry its so long
Well i wouldnt really care if he went and did something like that to you. Hes not a good friend in teh first place, he doesnt deserve to have you talk to him.I mean, you didnt get mad when you told him that you liked her and then he went off and asked her out! So just tell him that, and if he gives you a stupid reason, then i dont htink you should worry too much about loosing him in the future or not, because after a while he`ll probably end up doing a lot worse to you.
I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!
Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
well a lot of people feel that way at some point in their lifes, i think its just because girls are used to being with girls all the time, and their more comfortable with that. It could be a phase. i dont think youd be lesbian, if you do like guys. But you could be bi maybe. But since the thought of marrying a girl makes you sick then it might just be a phase.
ok so i got those glasses with the plastic frames last year cuz i liked them (at the time). they r blue with sparkles. i got them from da adult section cuz they werent in the kids section. at the time i didnt realize that they were too big for my small face soo i never wear em anymore. im afraid people will make fun of me, so i dont risk it. im only supposed to wear them at school and at home watching tv or sumthin anyway but sometimes i feel like i cant see anything without it being blurry. i dont want to wear the glasses at school cuz they look bad on me but i need to c the board. last year i got bad grades cuz i couldnt see anything. please dont nag me for getting the glasses in the first place, i cant fix that now. its already been done. please, i dont want to wear them cuz i made fun of enough but i need to see. what should i do?
get new glasses!! Or, get contacts. Just tell your parents their too big for you and they don't stay on right, and you'd like to get new ones or ask them if you can get contacts. And if that doesn't work or you think they'll say no, then "break" them, haha even though thats kinda bad n itll make you feel guilty, but if you REALLY dont wanna wear those and all else fails, try that if you want.
im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx
chances are, there are gonna be seniors pressuring it from you. especially if they are all over you. And theres probably gonna be a lot of bad stuff going on there, who knos what could happen. Im just saying, if you dont want to give anybody more than a hj, then you might not want to go. Just tell them youd love to go but you`re going to blahblahblah...