Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2004, 10:08 pm
ok I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and hes really sweet! and i like him alot but all we've done is makeout, he's tried to go down my pants but everytime he does he pulls his hand out and starts laughing so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do?
ICE11BLUE answered Thursday October 21 2004, 10:39 am: He knows what he wants to do, he's just nervous. He must like you a lot and wants to act on it but probably doesn't know how. Laughter is a release of nerves. If you want more and this is like a tease for you, just relax because if you really like him too, let him get through being nervous and don't make him rush anything just try to guide him or let him know it's okay, whatever he's feeling. If he really likes you it will all happen naturally, and, yes, laughter is natural. [ ICE11BLUE's advice column | Ask ICE11BLUE A Question ]
PBODY answered Thursday October 21 2004, 9:23 am: im not sure about this but either he is scared n laughs so you wont kno that he's scared or ur need to shave a lil bit because the hair on ur vaginal area is probably confusing him [ PBODY's advice column | Ask PBODY A Question ]
x33CrYsTaLx0x answered Thursday October 21 2004, 12:20 am: your 14.. and hes already going down your pants? i think thats a bit young but w.e.. next time he does it just ask him whats so funny? cause he might just be nervous so he laughs as an excuse not to do it..h0pe i helped ya! Crystal* [ x33CrYsTaLx0x's advice column | Ask x33CrYsTaLx0x A Question ]
PleaseHelpMe answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 11:49 pm: Lol..alright first off make sure that you shave. Next if he still does that he is probably just shy. If you want to do that kind of thing then try feeling on his dick with his pants on n keep making out. Things should start getting hotter. lol. Or you could also grab his hand and move it a little for him while hes going down there..so he knows its ok with you. Good luck. I hope i helped. :) [ PleaseHelpMe's advice column | Ask PleaseHelpMe A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 10:34 pm: by the sound of this question, to me anyways, it seems like you two are too immature to even worry about this. "he starts laughing". yeah definately too immature. i am guessing you are 13/14. When you two grow up a little bit, maturity wise, then maybe you could ask a decent question worth answering.
XxRockon answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 10:15 pm: maybe hes nervous. Next time that happens giggle and maybe then b like "whats wrong??" Or he might just b not sure what he's doing so he laughs and just doesn't know how elkse to react [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 10:14 pm: Maybe he`s just not ready yet... you should be thankful youve got a guy that would rather wait and not have sex with you after the first week. Just give him some time, and ask him why he always ends up laughing everytime he does that. [ bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe's advice column | Ask bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 10:14 pm: I'm guessing it's a nervous reaction. How experienced is he? If he isn't too experienced, chances are it's the whole nervous thing. Or maybe he's reacting to your reaction...what do you do when he - well, - sticks his hand down your pants?
Your best bet, I'd say, is to ask your guy why he keeps doing that. Point it out - he might not realize he does that. If you point it out to him, maybe he'll stop, or at least be able to tell you why he does that.
I hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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