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They Hate Me!
This is going to be long but if your willing to help plz do so.Oh I'm 14 a middle child i have a older brother 17 and a younger sister 12 the both hate me the constatly make me feel bad they alwayz argue with me they constatly tell me to shut up.and im the bad guy well according to them.my brother he is so mean he alwayz insoults me brings things up that happened a long time ago that can get me in deep trouble.He is alwayz tellign em things like im not good enough im a nobody that im stupid ad many other things that are even worst.My sister i can't tell her anything without her yelling at me back.She is only nice to me when my friends are around and when i feel bad she only cares when people are there or when im feeling real bad.I told my parents but they think this is nothing and that it will end soon.Well it has been like this for a while now and im feeling really bad to the point of wanting to hurt myself.And i've thought many times about suicide.i know thats the worst solution because it wont help and it only makes things worst but i have the simptoms of depression and i feel horrible about myself.I've already talked to this about a teacher and it helps a little.but i dunno what else i can do because i get worst every day that passes by.plz help
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wow !! im the middle child too and i know plenty much how it feels to be hated and i think it sucks !! everyone hates to be hated so what to do is to just treat them how they treat you !!! i know its a little risky but it works cuz when you do that to them sooner or later there goin to stop becuz they feel the same way and then it is time to address your parents and say they made YOU feel bad so what goes around comes around so they cant blame you for anything cuz they were the ones who did it and until then stay away from ideas of suicide and any sharp objects !!!!
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oh.amn..you are the middle child..sigh..you are just getting dumped on either end..i am sorry.
wow what is wrong with your siblings that they have to pick on you? what is really going on in your house that your parents are ignoring this?
There is a period in all siblings lives that they just plain hate each other..for they really hate thmselves...you all want to know the TOUGHEST time of your life..ever..it is now..being a teenager is the hardest. Do not let any adult tell you that their life is harder..nope..your is.
You know what..a HUGE wall of silence.. a thank you for telling me that.will make them steam..do it..ignore them..lol they want you to react so they can get mad.
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You sound like my best friend...you need to have a distraction, whether its best friends, or getting out of the house as much as possible, or writing in a journal...anything like those can get this off your mind, I know its really hard, but this iisn't going to end any time soon. It's part of their personality, and they might be a little jealous of you for something...you just need to find things better to think about than them...don't dwell on the things that make you unhappy..because every minute you spend unhappy is another minute of happiness you cant get back.
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Maybe wrap yourself up in your hobbies, after school activities, friends. Keep busy, don't let them get the best of you. This should pass, just involve yourself in life to the full extent until it does and try not to allow them their satisfaction of making your life miserable. For whatever reason they are acting this way, jealousy, revenge for something, or just trying to be tough assholes, let them see that you are better than that. Maybe they are picking on your weaknesses and it is something that will make you stronger in the end. Simply put, sibling rivalries. In time, your relationships will fall into place and you will all probably be the best of friends. Also, kill 'em with kindness. It works. Don't let them see you on your knees. Don't fight fire with fire just stand up tall and be proud of yourself. You are a great person, I know.
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whatever you do dont let this make you want to commit suicide or harm yourself...this is a part of growing up when you have brothers or sisters im afraid i have a younger sis who is 13 and we hate each other we just do not get on... but try to ignore it..your parents should be doing something about this not just ignoring it try talk to them again..try stay out of there way nobody listens to gossip from someones brother anyway as its family stuff so keep your chin up you can always check out my column if you wanna talk more hope this helps x :)
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my sister would always be hela mean to my dont kill yourself over something like this
why dont you talk to your brother and sister and tell them how you feel
hope i helped
xoxo OUCH
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this seems like a serious problem tht ur parents arent taking care of when they should be. tell ur sibilings tht they need to stop bc its rlly hurting u. im guessing ignoring them isnt helping. maybe we can talk more. IM me at miZZcHeRRyCoKe36 or ilive4summer63. u seem like u need someone to support u and i am here for u anytime. plz dont hurt urself bc theres no need to. talk to ppl. u can get more help. im rlly sorry about ur situation. plz talk to me! ~steph~
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