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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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when you massage someone's penis through their pants? enough to make them cum. so, basically like... grabbing their penis, through their pants. haha. is there a name for that?

i think not for sure that you can call it petting also

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im a little embarrised the pink thing on my vagina sis really big like the lips or whatever and when i stand up u can still see it... will this turn guys off?

pretty much EVERY ONES vagina is nasty and does something like that so dont feel bad about it or what ever.. some guys are just like o yay vagina lol and they shouldn't be to picky since we let them get that we.. are the controllers lol jk but no anyway i wouldn't worry about it they won't get turned off unless they are like a super picky fedish guy

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Okay, kind of an odd question, but I'll ask it anyway...

So there was this show on TV about these people whos mentality of their sex (f/m) didn't match what they actually were (the opposite). I know there's a name for this but I forget lol but anyway, this girl always felt like she was a guy so she took hormones to begin to transform herself into a guy (no comment) and she made the statement that while she (he?) was taking the supplements, s/he felt like a 14/15 y/o guy with "strong sexual urges"... okay... so my question is... do girls go through something like this like during puberty? I don't recall it...

some do. it really depends on the people they meet and if there open anof with themselves to be able to think like that. i believe had the basis to be "bi " or what ever its just if you find it repulsive or act on it or what ..

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Hi I am 17 female and I am going to get my wisom teeth taken out in a couple weeks. They are still under the gums and they are going to have to cut open my gums in order to get them. I'm going to have laughing gas and then they will give me some shots in my gum. I just wanted to know what it was like and how much pain you felt? So if any of you have had them taken out please give me some advice on what it is like. Thank you soo much!

so my bf just got his out a while back. you will get some pain pills for the pain and will swell up alot the first 3-7 days or so its not fun a bit ok . you need to take those pain pills or you will feel the pain it could make you some what loopy and stuff. make sure not to use straws cus you can pull the blood clot from the gums where they take out the teeth and then give you a dry socked wich can hurt so so so bad so be care ful and the holes will be ther a while cus the tissue has to heal so be careful with food getting in there.the docters should ltell you most of this. but as soon as you get home sleep then if you feel any slight pain take a ppain pill it will get bad

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Okay so, I am a 16/f and all my life ive liked guys. I met this girl lets call her Sally. We became best friends really fast and we trust eachother with eachothers lives. She has liked guys too. Until one day she let it slip out that she had a crush on me. She still likes me , so now she knows she is bi. I'm not sure how i feel about her, I'm afraid of liking her because i want to be straight I dont want to be bi or gay or whatever, not that there is anything wrong with it. But she is the first girl i thought I liked and its weird. We always see heart shaped things and shes like "we are soul mates" but she has a boyfriend. I love being with her and she always wants me to kiss her, but i just can't bring myself to do it. I guess I'm just really confused and I dont know what to do. Help?

here let me think ill just say this i guess.. a person can like a person of the same sex and only that one person .. they can still like guys so u can like this one girl and still like guys its just her.. u care for her.. you don't have to be bi ... you don't even have to say anything about it .. if you do decide to act on it.. you can care for one person and it not mean your bi or gay... its just caring for some one. hope i help message me if ya need anything els

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what are the signs girls get before there period? like befoe they start for the first time :D

zits, moody,mabey an upset stomach.those are a few

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okay , so im fourteen . and i want to start using a tampon , because well pad's are nasty . and well , i tryed a small tampon and i put it in halfway before i took it out and when i took it out it hurt . my hymen isnt broken yet , thats why . idk what to do . because i wanna use one , but like ahhhh it hurts :/ and feels funny .

help ?

well if you put the tampon in and like took the plastic cover off and then pulled the tampon out its going to hurt because it wasn't used and causes friction and stuff inside.it has to absorb stuff to be take out easily.and you may have put it in sideways some you have to get the right angle

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i want my boyfriend to finger me.but i dont want to look like a total slut.and i have no earthly clue how to start like i dont want to like spread my legss.and i dont know how to ask that or anythign.helllp

talk to him and be like i think we should try a little more in our relationship u want to try something new . a new experience in the sexual form.

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Ok, i want to have sex with my bf but i dont know how to tell him im ready

can you tell me how to tell him.....

if he has asked you to before just be like im ready if he sais what then like just say it sex or give him a little look and say it. but if you like going abruptly just be like on him lol but ya tell him how you feel make sure your ready and its the right moment wait for the time when yall can and ur ready

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what do you say about making out and fooling around with a guy friend? is it ok? nothing wrong with it...i'm not too sure, it's hard to explain, but you don't have to be in love to make out with a guy or anything, do you?

no its fine . friends with bennifits

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Is bi curious another word for homosexual?
I mean can a man like dick and still be straight?

I personally believe it's for people who are just afraid to admit they are gay in the first place.

o psh no. bi curious means ur curias about sam sex suff but you still love the oposite sex been there. bi is different from gay or "homo" yes u can be straight and still like dick .

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ok so the other night at a party i was sitting behind the house and it was dark out and i was with 2 of my best guy friends. well they kept going up my shorts and down my shirt but no matter how much i told them to stop the one kept touching me down there and down the back of my shorts... they kept following me and even did it secretly when ppl were around!! and then i was laying on the grown and the one guy put his thing right in my face and begged me to suck it and kept pushing it at my mouth but i locked my lips.. so im basically asking was i molested? i hate this feeling i have now

the part of him putting his hands up your shirts and in places bad then kinda there but with everything els its just guys being discusting pigs like the dick in you face and stuff. im sorry hunny this happend to you its not right not right at all

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I masterbate....a lot.

im 15 female and i use things to do it with like: thend ends of a brush or bottles or my finger or shower heads (water pressure)

number 1) is this normal?

number 2) after i orgasim i get thick saliva and then my vagina hirts and i cant touch it anymore bu i also get really un-hoorny.

why? & is that normal?

yes its all normal . ur not horny cus u let it out kinda . and it hurts because you put fricking and stress on your vagina.

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so there is this guy. He is really fine and has a way with words. He is very sweet and fun to be around. Me and him talk dirty to eachother a lot. And one day he said lets hangout. so i said okay and do what? and he said anything. And i said anything but sex? and he said no, im down for that. i want to loose it to you. I really like him and he is special. i am a virgin. and so is he, but he has done everything except sex. and i want to loose it to him!
Should i?
no lectures

watch me get stupidly band for this but ok well if you want to go for it . but its up to u i take that like a love thing . but i wont lecture u

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15/m

ok so dont just think oh no another first makeout case or anything. im really just looking for things to spice up things with my girlfriend. she tells me im a good kisser, other girls in the past have, but whats wrong with wanting to be even better = ]
sooo any tips or website links on the subject you have are greatly appreciated. peacee

ok well if yall are like hot and heavy making out, bite her lip but not to hard in like a sexy way and give her a hot look lol um different tongue movements i guess and change up the amount of toung and the rotation of your toung. pull back to tease her, try new things feed her stuff from yoru mouth lol but its up to her cus some girls don't like alot of that stuff

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OK, so Im working with kids about ages 7 to 10, although there is 1 6yr old and one who's 4. I've so run out of stuff to do with them! I need some game Ideas. They love Simon says, any kind of tag, froggy murderer, lots of different stuff. Plus, how do I get them to focus while theyre hyper?! PLZ HELPPP!

a good movie they like should catch three attention. or bribe them with some kind of good food or say your gonna take something away they want or something like that. or tell them u will call there mom. lol play hide and seek, freez tog, redlight green light, make up some game, play pretend, bord game, read a book, tell them a story, make one up or tell them one about your life. hope i help. ANDIE

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how come when some people say stuff all you see is random letters and dots? like
h.. m..sy..y..sds..f
lol or something

and what is bobba???

thanks lol.

booba is what they put in place of a cuss word or a word that is "bad" not real sure aobut the h..m..sy.. ect. i wish i could tell you.

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okay. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a year now. and i really really love him. infact we talk about getting married one day. heres the problem, im young. 15. same for him. is it odd for us to be thinking that far ahead even when we are so young? i mean i can't doubt us being in love, and we just feel that connection. and its been there from the start. there are no dull moments. yes we have been through alot, but it was my fault(i was diagnosed with a brain disorder about halfway though everything and had to spend alot of time in the hospital). but i honestly think that we have a future together. does anyone think this is odd?

no im 15 my bf is 3 months older than me he is 16 since april. we are getting married one day . we tihnk about all that stuff

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and the other day on the phone, randomly he goes, i wish i could see you, and hug you every second of the day.
is that sweet or just plain weird?

THANKSOMUCH!

aww thast swete ya me and my bf have been dating almost 7 months and i loev it when he sais stuff like that.its up to u if u like that kidna stuff don't depend on what othe rpeople think . but i think its sweet :D

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im 16/f and im home alone

and im scared cuz i got drunk and i don't want my rents to know. and im dizzy what should i do?

drink jello and breath mints and water lots of water and jello

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