about

hey im allison
im 14 and i go to WBHS.
i love volley ball and snowboarding and i love spending time with my friends.
im a dork and i love it...and i dont care what you think.
music just so happens to be my life.
i like most music...just as long as it doesnt include a BANJO!...eww.
other then music...my life is dedicated to my bestest friends amber conner rachelle michelle and linnea. they are my reasons for breathing. ive had my heart broken twice by the same guy. and it was just recently. i really want some one to show him how i feel. but im still in deep like with this kidd. i dont regret the things that i do...i regret the things that i didnt do when i had the chance. that would happen to be my motto. tee hee(btw...i use 'tee hee' WAYYYY too much!)i like school. but im not good at it. im ok at it. but im still on 'second string' if you will. finding song quotes or just random takes up most of my time. and i have about 3 notebooks filled up in the last 2 or 3 months. im also eager to get better at drawing. i just really like it. but im not that passionate about it. that is really it for now. tee hee...(see! i told you so!!!)
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allison

advice

iam 14 and in the 9th grade and I want to do more than just hug and kiss my boyfriend.Is there any other things that i can do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?I know that there is sex and iam going to do that if that's the only other thing i can do i just want to get closer and if i do have sex iam already on birth control becouse of my messed up period and iam going to use protection.what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?

uh...try hand jobs and head. and if you want something done to yourself, have him finger you or eat you out. and a great combo of head and eating out is "69".

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hey i saw you on adivcenators & can you make me a sign? its a pic of you holding up paper with something written on it to me? if you say yes ill write back saying what i want.

what do you want the sign to say?

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My girls all think that I am a sex freak. I am not saying I am a good in what I am doing, I am just saying that I do it a lot. I know I am not supposed to bring my girl to the house all the time just for sex. I am supposed to take her out etc. But I dont care, I can spend months inside the house doing nothing but having sex. I can come like 17 times a day, I am man by the way.It is not that I am young or I am not getting any, I just cant get enough. Besides, my girls all think that I have been starving for years if you know what I mean. If we go out, all I think about is sex. We might as well end up having sex in some public place. Its not that I dont love my girls or something, I do, I treat them good, and talk sweet to them, buy them stuff and dont cheat on them. If I am taking my girl out, I feel like I m loosing my time not getting freaky with her. I love to do nothing with my girl, just chill and get freaky. I dont have the patience not to take them out and stuff but sometimes its the only option.
Most of the times after sex and after I take my girl to her house, I jack of thinking about the hole situation. I dont know anyone like me, I know it is not a problem nad it causes no damage to health but still, this cannot go on. I am literarely horny 24/7 and I am hard most of the time, more than 50% of the time. I get hard in the dumbest most boring places.Sitting right next to this hairy guy in the bus, and all of the sudden I think about my girl and ...
Any siggestions?

this is more of just a comment of what you replied to me. if you dont like that particular title..."sex freak" then i think that a sex detox is your best bet. it isnt dangerous to your health. but its kinda disgusting. sex isnt always and never really should be the answer to everything. just go for like 2 weeks. you might feel better. guys always say it relieves stress. but its more they just want to feel that way all the time. and if you find that fat hairy guy on the bus attractve. you know you have a problem. sure it feels great. but you shouldnt feel the need to have sex or pleasure your self that many times a day. i hope you dont pressure your girlfriends into sex. that is just wrong. maybe you should find a great girl that wont always give into your need to have sex all the time. and you do need the strength to stop yourself from masturbating all the time. its unnaural. once again. i think you might want to see a therapist. btw...how old are you?

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ok so i was hooking up with my guy and he was fingering me and he was pretty hard and it felt good ...but when he took his fingers out there was blood all over his fingers and that has never happened before. it burned when i went to go pee. what happened? it was so embarassing he thought i was on my period!!! whats wrong?

sweetie. you popped your cherry. that kinda sorta means that your not a virgin anymore. but look on the bright side. it wont hurt so much the first time you have sex.

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i was a cutter for about a year then i stoped for 8 monthes i got back into and now i cant seem to stop my mom dose not know nor dose my boy friend what do i do so i can stop for good and not get it back in my lilfe

sweetie. you need to stop this. my best friend is involved with the same problem. i dont think anyone can save you but yourself. its dangerous. and if you do it right, you will end up killing yourself. death is never the solution. im sure there are tons of people that love and care for you. and you would be a great loss to society. you need to realise that everyone is inportant to someone. and you have a boy on your arm. so i know that you are important to someone. just think twice about is. mabe even 3 times. if that helps you.

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ok well..i was with my bf for about a year and a half..and he accused me of calling him all the time..and we broke up and got back together yesterday and then i called him last night to leave him a voice mail to say goodnight..not wanting him to pick up and he didn't so i just left him a voice mail (he was at work) and then he just got done telling me that he wants me to grow up and not to ever call him ever again and he doesn't want to talk to me ever again..and i just dont know what to do..i really love this guy and when we talked yesterday he really loved me to..but what do i do..i really need help! please help me!!

okay, im sorry. but this guy is immature. you should have a guy that anticipates your every call. and appreciates that you are thinking about him. hes not worth it.

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Okay well i am bi right? and I am whipped by this one chick, and this boy is whipped by me. what do i do?

i really dont know what to tell you, maybe you should do what your heart tells you. that would probably be best.

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Well, I wasn't planning on going to this Halloween event, but I am because my boyfriend just asked me. The problem is that I have no costume, and I'm not creative like that. I want to look cute, but not skanky.

Does anybody have any ideas for a 19/F who has short hair and is a little on the heavy side? I'm not wearing anything slutty, and I'd prefer a more creative and unusual idea. It has to be easy to make and come by, and I'd really rather not buy it, because I'm a penniless student.

I'm incredibly nerdy (and so is my boyfriend), so anything that's kind of nerdy is a good thing.

do something that will get laughs like a sheet ghost. but maybe a bit more feminine. or you could always be something like a pirate. thats what a group of friends and i are doing. but we decided to sex it up a little. but since most of those friends are guys. they are all stupid and being pirates of the carribean characters. but yeah. you could alway look up ideas at like halloween U.S.A.com great ideas. but not always cheep.

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I was exposed to a person for about half an hour in a closed room yesterday, today they're in the hospital with Meningitis.
I have a really weak immune system.
What do I do other than load up on ColdFX?

im going to sound like my mother but yeah. drink lots of fluids. and jusrt try to avoid that person. if your immune system is really that weak then you should really be careful.

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ok, this is very random but i was watching a movie about a murder and i was wondering, if someone is arrested under murder charges and someone bails them out, later they go to trial and are found innocent, do they get that bail money back?

i dont think they get the money back. i think they kinda owed it to them for their time in jail or something. lol.wow. i really want to know that now. im sorry. this is bad advice.

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15/m I'd like advice from someone who has a sixpack and who worked for one, not a skinnypack. Well I used to have a six pack from just doing situps, but then I stopped and now you could call it a "undefined six pack." What are some good work out's to get one. And I'd like more of an answer than just, "Do sit-ups." If you say that, then at least say how long and for how long. Or maybe say what you did to get a sixpack. K gracias...

do crunches and other ab workouts. those tend to work if you do enough of them often enough. so pretty much
crunches
sit ups
leg presses
running/jogging
and yeah

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alright so i was wondering if any of you girls knew of where to buy some kind of pill or something that can make me grow upstairs if you know what i mean. im not completly flat i would just like to feel more confident and better about the way i look. i know theres such thing as a pill for it but im not sure if it works or how much it cost or where to get it. please help

okay...you girls need to stop worrying about your boobs. seriously. its so stupid ow impatient you all are. jeeze
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I have tried to find this on google several times without success. Where can I find a video clip of people grinding (dancing)?

The reason is that I want to see how people do it and written instructions are quite confusing.

Thankyouuuu!

ill put it in simple terms...
you put your vagina plave on his penis place(still clothed please) and you kinda rubb on each other. while still sorta dancing. wow. i never really realised what i have been doing at the school dances untill now!
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Ok well i started going out with this one guy named jonathan.The thing is dat he knows i like somebody else and i know he likes somebody else.Yes it seems wierd but we told each other that since the beggining.Its like we like each other to but it kind of feels wierd to know he dosent only think of me...i know he probably feels da same way but i dont know.I seriously dont think we are going to last.Although i wish it did=/So if you were in my place what would you do??

maybe you should talk to him. ask him if he feels right with this relationship. if you are having second thoughts about this then maybe it wasnt meant to be. you should really talkt to him and see who he has stronger feelings for... you or the other girl. and you need to find that out about yourself too.
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Ok well i have a myspace right.There has been hella lotz of girls asking me for my codes.At first i was okay with it but they kind of started taking advantage of it and one girl nearly asked me for my whole page!!!lol Then i have stuff that has my personal quotes and stuff and some girl asked me for the code to the letters and kept what it said!I seriously dont know how to tell them to not ask me for my codes because im not going to give it to them.I dont wanna sound rude or mean eigther tho....so wut should i say next time?

just flat out tell them in your about me or something. make sure its bold and in big letters.
NO JOCKING! FIND YOUR OWN SHIT BITCHES! DONT ASK FOR MY CODES EITHER. JUST BECAUSE IM COOLER THAN YOU DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU CAN TRY TO HAVE A PIMPASS MYSPACE LIKE MINE! SO SUCK ON THAT!!!!
or something like that.
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okay im 13/f and mi hair is really frizzy wat do i do?

frizeaze(hoping i spelled that right) anti-frizz serum. smooth it on to dry or wet hair. it works like no other. but if your on a budget, then dry your har... do what you will with it. and if its still frizzy, then take an insanely small amount of lotion, smooth it over your hands, then you smooth it over the top of you hair. it works. i do it all the time at school.
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i need a new hair style coz i always have the same ones. i have a round shape face, strawberry blonde/red long hair and i have a side fringe. any ideas would be great.
thanks xx

i deffinitly think that red hair looks really good when its scrunched. so try that. if not. keep it strait. straighten it and use frizz gel. well use the frizz gel only if you live in a humid place.
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Hey!
Im 14/f
I have this prolem where people keep pointing out that i have rather large boobs. It is really embarassing and it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I am a 34B.
So i guess i want to know if there is any way to appear smaller or make my breats less noticeable.
I wear a lot of polos and dont really like very baggy clothes.
Thanks so much!

hey sweetie...
no offence but your boobs arent that big.
so they are most likely just looking for something to tease you about. im the same size and i have rather small boobs compared to the girls at my school. so dont worry about it.
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is it normal for a gf to not want her bf to look at other girls?

HELL YES!
if hes got wandering eyes...
it either means that hes not commited
or that hes having second thoughts.
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I recently got a photo contract with playboy magazine. they wanted me to be nude... with nothing on... and nothing covering me. i acceptedd... because i need the money. i told them i was 20. but i have a secret. i am only 13 =). i have DD boobs... and quite a large downstairs. do you think i will get in trouble with like the law if they find out im 13. helpp=[

the photoshoot is in 4 days. on monday

tell them that you are thirteen. then cancel
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