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this relationship feels wierd=/


Question Posted Monday August 21 2006, 1:30 am

Ok well i started going out with this one guy named jonathan.The thing is dat he knows i like somebody else and i know he likes somebody else.Yes it seems wierd but we told each other that since the beggining.Its like we like each other to but it kind of feels wierd to know he dosent only think of me...i know he probably feels da same way but i dont know.I seriously dont think we are going to last.Although i wish it did=/So if you were in my place what would you do??

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MelLeDisko answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 2:10 am:
Well, like the others said, I suggest you two break up. And then I suggest you two both try to see what happens with your other crushes, and if nothing happens out of it, and you two still like eachother, I'd try working it out and getting back together. So then if you guys ever ARE thinking of them again, at least this time you'd know nothing'll come of it. But I'm not saying that every single time you guys like someone else to break up and go back out and all. If that happens that I'd suggest just breaking it off for good, cause that's obviously not a very healthy and good kind of relationship to have. I hope I helped. <3

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Greyskate answered Monday August 21 2006, 6:26 pm:
i think you should break up w/ him if you both still like eachother than i think you should give it another try but if not than you didnt really like him that much

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mzunderstood answered Monday August 21 2006, 6:13 pm:
well this happened to me once what i did was i sugested to see other people for about a week and then see if we still want to be together and we did so we got back together why don't you do the same it worked for me so maybe it'll work for you

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GirlyGurl101 answered Monday August 21 2006, 2:29 pm:
Wow that seems really hard. Umm i think you should end the relationship. Its clear you to don't like eachother that much if you both like someone else. I'm sorry im trying to give you good advice but i think im doing a bad job. Yeah i stick with what i just said. End the relationship it's probably not going to last that long. And that's not a good excuse staying together if you just want to be in a relatioinship. I hope i helped in some way.

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myusername1 answered Monday August 21 2006, 12:52 pm:
hey, well, if you like someone else, and you know that he likes someone else too, its probably not a very good relationship. your bf should be dedicated to you and likes just you because your different and special if you know taht he likes someone else, i dont think its such a good idea to stay with him especially if you like someone else too! tell him waht your thinking and talk it out together see how things work out hope i helped much luck <3

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helpachick answered Monday August 21 2006, 12:33 pm:
if i was in your place, i would tell him exactly what you've just said here. how you feel. you'd probably find that he feels the same way. usually when you can feel that something isnt right in the relationship, it isnt, and you can both feel it. so you two can talk it out after that and see what you can come up with between the two of you! xoxo helpachick

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lalagurly answered Monday August 21 2006, 12:27 pm:
well you should probably tell him how you feel and see wat he thinks maybe you guys will realise it is a waste of time for both of you but you could both realise you like each other alot and the other to ppl are just harmless crushes

hope i helped
~nikki~
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caramella answered Monday August 21 2006, 10:40 am:
I would definetly NOT be with a guy that i know likes a different girl.Hes obviously using you to get the other girl he likes jealous.And i dont even think you like this guy.You guys are both wasting your time in a realationship that will get you noowhere.I think you should dump him before you start to REALLY like him and it will be harder to break up.Go for the other guy you like.

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hopeihelped answered Monday August 21 2006, 10:28 am:
You can date him without going steady.. which can work in both of your favors. Just date around and don't worry about going steady. That way, you can both date each other and other people. Just make sure that you talk about, because otherwise he'll think you're cheating on him. Good luck!

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allishow answered Monday August 21 2006, 9:41 am:
maybe you should talk to him. ask him if he feels right with this relationship. if you are having second thoughts about this then maybe it wasnt meant to be. you should really talkt to him and see who he has stronger feelings for... you or the other girl. and you need to find that out about yourself too.
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