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Addicted to sex.
My girls all think that I am a sex freak. I am not saying I am a good in what I am doing, I am just saying that I do it a lot. I know I am not supposed to bring my girl to the house all the time just for sex. I am supposed to take her out etc. But I dont care, I can spend months inside the house doing nothing but having sex. I can come like 17 times a day, I am man by the way.It is not that I am young or I am not getting any, I just cant get enough. Besides, my girls all think that I have been starving for years if you know what I mean. If we go out, all I think about is sex. We might as well end up having sex in some public place. Its not that I dont love my girls or something, I do, I treat them good, and talk sweet to them, buy them stuff and dont cheat on them. If I am taking my girl out, I feel like I m loosing my time not getting freaky with her. I love to do nothing with my girl, just chill and get freaky. I dont have the patience not to take them out and stuff but sometimes its the only option.
Most of the times after sex and after I take my girl to her house, I jack of thinking about the hole situation. I dont know anyone like me, I know it is not a problem nad it causes no damage to health but still, this cannot go on. I am literarely horny 24/7 and I am hard most of the time, more than 50% of the time. I get hard in the dumbest most boring places.Sitting right next to this hairy guy in the bus, and all of the sudden I think about my girl and ...
Any siggestions?
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"Sitting right next to this hairy guy in the bus, and all of the sudden I think about my girl and ...
Any siggestions?"
This might be an early sign that you are going to be gay one day. Don't worry though, in this day and age there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual. In fact, gay is almost the new straight. So enjoy having sex with girls while you're still young and attracted to them, because in a few years you'll be into men and having sex with them 24/7.
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Your age is very important in this situation. In any case, see a doctor. You're right, it's not a problem per se, but being able to relax every once in awhile and not be quite so horny would be very nice for you. Plus, it could easily become a problem. Maybe there's some kind of therapy or medication that could help you live a more normal life. I'm not saying there's something wrong with you and you need to take medication, but it would be good to explore your options and get advice from someone that knows what they're talking about - a doctor. Good luck. :)
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dude your my hero!
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this is more of just a comment of what you replied to me. if you dont like that particular title..."sex freak" then i think that a sex detox is your best bet. it isnt dangerous to your health. but its kinda disgusting. sex isnt always and never really should be the answer to everything. just go for like 2 weeks. you might feel better. guys always say it relieves stress. but its more they just want to feel that way all the time. and if you find that fat hairy guy on the bus attractve. you know you have a problem. sure it feels great. but you shouldnt feel the need to have sex or pleasure your self that many times a day. i hope you dont pressure your girlfriends into sex. that is just wrong. maybe you should find a great girl that wont always give into your need to have sex all the time. and you do need the strength to stop yourself from masturbating all the time. its unnaural. once again. i think you might want to see a therapist. btw...how old are you?
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See a counselor about your problem. Addiction of any kind that is controlling your life and preventing you from having a balanced and whole life is like a cancer. You can get too much of a good thing, like overeating it actually loses its pleasure, and does not increase it when you overindulge or cannot control the impulse. This is ruining your life. You cannot connect with people and lovers on any level. Sex is what you use to dull the pain and as an escape from reality. You are no different from an addict who uses drugs or alcohol or food to avoid confrontation, reality, challenges, emotions and growth. There are others who share your problem and support groups that will help you take control of your life. You need to get professional help immediately and start enjoying life...all of life. Sex will become more pleasurable and fulfilling for you when it is not the whole focus of your being. You may also need to talk to your Physician about taking an anti-depressant which will help you to have the courage to face your addiction in counseling and take the edge off of your sexual impulsiveness. I wish you the best!
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