Let me just say ive been through EVERYTHING.
NO joke!
To prove it, let me tell you a little bit about myself.
Relationships:
My best friend turned into the love of my life, got locked up in jail for a year, finally got out, betrayed me and after i took him back, then tried to kill me.
Family:
Im an only child whos lived with a 'crazy' mother my whole life. My father was also always out of town on work while I was growing up.
Drama/High School/Popularity:
I ran my high school... and yes, I know drama.
Sex:
Yes, I know about sex. I wouldnt say everything but im willing to share everything I know.
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Friends/Haters:
lastly, friendss. I have a lot. But I also have
plenty of people who HATE me.
Like I said im here, i've been through a lot, and im a wealth of knowledge.
Willing to answer anything && everything or at least try. Inbox Me.
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hey guys im about to have a party with my friend and we want to have some questions in our mind for truth or dare but we cant think of any! if anyone has some good ones much appreciated thanks in advance! (link)
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okay well heres a website i found thats pretty cool...
http://www.tordol.com/index.jsp
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i called me ex desprate cause when he was dating me he was talking alot of shit on this one girl
saying shes a slut how he doesnt like being around her how hes never going to date her
and as soon as we break up he randomly flirts with her and... kisses her on the cheek.
isnt that desprate?
and this to
he met this girl over myspace and they talk about meeting and if they life close they would date
isnt that being desprate also?
sorry i asked 2 questions in one
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to tell the truth i dont think he is being desprate, he is trying to make you feel better then all the girls, (which he should) but he may also like this girl he flirted with. actually he probally does like the girl. about the 2nd part, that is very desprate and it seems that he is trying to make you want to go back with him because in his head he thinks that if he can get with a whole bunch of people it will make you want him too. in the end my biggest piece of advice to you is that you need to steer clear of this guy. he is flat out not good for you or any other girl.
i hope this helps
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Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me? (link)
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sometimes girls make stupid desisions... even when the guy that we have went out with was totally mean to us then so we break up, and then we find someone whos amazing, we tend to go back to the guy who hurt us thinking that they wont do it again while deep down incide we know they will. sometimes/most of the time we break up with the guys that hurt us phsyically and emotionally but we still like them.
if you really like the girl who has done this to you, i advice you to sit back, lay low of the dating list and keep it single. when she gets hurt she has you to come back to. then she may relize her mistake in leaving the guy who treats her like gold. most girls relize that but may never admit it to the guys. be their to talk to her stay really good friends with her. and maybe you and her will be going out again, but this is not always the case. sometimes the girl just cant/wont/or is scared to go out with you again. but you can still be good friends with her. find out what she likes in guys. im not saying change for her but see if your really right for her. then if you decide that your truely love her, and she still hasnt come back to you, and your friends with her, and you believe that she likes you too, write her a note, saying things include how you feel about her, and how you felt when she did this to you. then wait till friday, when the bell rings to get out of school, find her and give the note to her and tell her no one can read it other then her and she cant read it till she gets home. it may help, it worked for some guy who did it to me.
i hope this helps
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okay well i went out with this guy and broke up iwth him after and a week and a half because our relationship wasnt going anywhere like he hasnt made a move then i just recently started going back out with him and he still hasent made a move so should i make the first move? or tell him to? and i have already tried the tell his best friends to tell him. yeah that didnt work. so what should i do? (link)
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their is no REAL answer to your question. its really totally up to you. if i where you i would make the first move. something i would do is maybe gase into his eyes and blink sexy! not too much or you will over do it but dont stare him down like you wanna kill him.
if you want to tell him to make the first move i sugest that you ask one of his close friends or your close friends to do it. (maybe a girl they are usually better at this) or if that dosent work, you could maybe leave him a cute little note in your locker from "someone" and say "please make a move on _______ it dosent seem like you are!" and sign it "your bestie!"
i hope this works if you need anymore help, relationships are my BEST!
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okay, so my close friend chelsey has had problems in the past with anorexia/eating disorders of some kind. she went to a treatment center and was fine for about a year, but for the past 4 months, i've noticed that she's been skipping lunch at school, and she told us that she's down to a size 00 and she's about 5'5" so its extremely tiny. her parents weigh her once in awhile just to keep track, but they tell her before they do it, so she goes and drinks tons of water to gain weight. my friend's and i have hinted and written letters to her, saying that we're worried, but we seriously canNOT get it across to her that she is on the verge of relapsing her eating disorder. do you have any advice as to how we could tell her that what she's doing is extrememly dangerous and that we care about her health? thanks (link)
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their are a few ways to deal with this. actually confront her. sit her down and tell her about it. tell her your scared for her and wish she would stop. if that dosent work, the next step is to tell a counsler or a adult you trust. then if that still dosent work go to her parents. all steps you wont WANT to take but if you want to help her you must.
here is is a helpful site that you can go to, dont worry i checked it out before i gave it to you. its good.
http://www.raderprograms.com/index.aspx
i hope this helps i am here if you have any more questions
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So I have this good-looking next door neighbor, and yesterday my mum and I went to give him back a DVD we borrowed of his because he is going away. Well, I stood there with her and she was speaking to him, but he did not even look me in the eye once! It was almost as if he was avoiding my gaze. I felt very stupid about this. Even if my mum was speaking about me he would not look in my direction. I'm not really sure what I could've done to offend him. I've liked him for quite a while but only seen him a few times.
In case it matters I'm 17 and he's 25.
Am I looking into things too much, or is there a reason he was doing this to me? I felt really embarassed and unwanted being there.
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as much as anyone dosent want to hear it, hes probally NOT into you. being as their is sutch a big age difference.
sorry
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My best friend just told a huge secret of mine. Do I have the right to be angry?
The secret wasn't that big of a deal but it kinda meant a lot to me.
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well i dissagree with what everyone elce says. although you trusted them with a secret, it was you who really told them not the other way around. you really wanted someone to confind in but you didnt know who to go to so going to your best friend is a good person. but we are still all humans, we are flawed and cant be perfect. we wish we could but sometimes things slip out. try going in his/her shoes. if that was the other way around would you want your best friend mad forever at you if you accadently sliped a secret that didnt seem like a BIG deal at the time/to you?
my overall answer is you should tell the person how you feel about them spilling your secrets. dont hurt a friendship over a silly secret.
hope this helps,
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My friends and I have recently become interested in playing card games. But, the problem is, we've played the following games so much that we're sick of them:
five card draw
texax holdem
bullcrap
spades
crazy eights
speed
indian poker
go fish
and a few others that I can't remember. Does anyone have any good card game ideas? They need to be fun and easy to play- I just need some new games. Thanks! I rate fives for good answers. (link)
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one really fun card game is called suck suck blow. its bolth a girl and guy game. you sit in a circle boy girl boy girl. then you take one randomly picked card and someone takes the card and starts out. they suck it in and press it agenst the person whos next to you then you blow it into their mouth. if you drop it, then you and the person who you dropped it with have to makeout for that many minutes. if its a face card, then its up to the rest of the group how long you have to make out for. it cant be over 10 mins though. hope you like this game its fun. its not really a game but it kind of is...
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What's the best way to get over a guy I like?
I've known him since I was like two (when I moved here) and was like best friends with him back then. Now he's still one of my really good friends and I've liked him for about 2 months, and I mean REALLY liked. Now he's taken by one of my other really good friends (yes, they both knew I liked him but I told them it was ok so it's my fault). Now everytime I talk to him, I fall faster, but I can't not talk to him because, well he's my friend. (link)
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Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over that someone you had just broken up with.
Get rid of everything and I mean EVERYTHING that reminds you of him even if you really don't want to know you will be glad you did in the long run. [my advice, put it ALL in a big box and stick it somewhere like under your bed or mabey even in a closet?] You can't get over someone if you are constantly being reminded of him.
most thing people do is drown their sorrows in icecream and watch sad movies also some people cry lots. yes this is a good idea but you should really only do that for ONE day keeping it limited. also wait till you are by yourself or with a best friend. you never want to let people know that anything is upsetting you. then the next day you go to school act like nothing happen.
but in the long run, you should still talk to him. even though you like him just think about being friend for now and then he can get to know the real you and he will like you for who you are.
hope this helps
if you need any more help you can just ask,
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Ok i think i might like this girl *again* but i dont know if she does like me......... but like i have already went out with her what should i do tell her (even thought last time i told her i liked her we ended up not talking for a week) sooo what should i do
from, this one person you know! (link)
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this one person i know,
their are many ways to find out if a girl likes you. sometimes guys cant really see them even though they are really ovious. sometimes girls dont like to go out with boys more then once but since its not a huge deal at this age...so most girls dont care. a way you could ask her to see if she likes you is if your scared to ask her yourself confide in a best girl friend... ask her to ask the girl for you. but if you can ask her yourself it would be easyer for her if you may not tell her TOTALLY how you feel. as much as you want to tell her, it may be too much for her to handle. if you tell her you like her again and she dosnt talk to you, just act like you never told her...not like i dont like you but normal so that she knows your cool with telling her.
if you need any more help im here,
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