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Best Way To Get Over A Guy


Question Posted Saturday May 6 2006, 6:41 pm

What's the best way to get over a guy I like?

I've known him since I was like two (when I moved here) and was like best friends with him back then. Now he's still one of my really good friends and I've liked him for about 2 months, and I mean REALLY liked. Now he's taken by one of my other really good friends (yes, they both knew I liked him but I told them it was ok so it's my fault). Now everytime I talk to him, I fall faster, but I can't not talk to him because, well he's my friend.


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Additional info, added Sunday May 7 2006, 10:14 am:
Also, we are all scheduled to hang out at a carnival next weekend. Any way to make it less awkward? I told my other friend that I might not want to go anymore and she completely spazzed at me and told me I was overreacting so I promised her that I would go..

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WWBB answered Sunday May 7 2006, 12:48 pm:
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over that someone you had just broken up with.

Get rid of everything and I mean EVERYTHING that reminds you of him even if you really don't want to know you will be glad you did in the long run. [my advice, put it ALL in a big box and stick it somewhere like under your bed or mabey even in a closet?] You can't get over someone if you are constantly being reminded of him.

most thing people do is drown their sorrows in icecream and watch sad movies also some people cry lots. yes this is a good idea but you should really only do that for ONE day keeping it limited. also wait till you are by yourself or with a best friend. you never want to let people know that anything is upsetting you. then the next day you go to school act like nothing happen.

but in the long run, you should still talk to him. even though you like him just think about being friend for now and then he can get to know the real you and he will like you for who you are.

hope this helps
if you need any more help you can just ask,
:)

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BlondBritBrit answered Sunday May 7 2006, 1:53 am:
sorry, but your heart beats your mind in love. No matter how much you try to convince yourself to get over him, it won't work. You won't get over him until your heart agrees with your mind. -beleive me, i've tryed getting over the guy i like TONS of times, but it never worked, heck i still like him =]. But you could try looking on the worse of his qualities. For exaple, if he has an ugly voice, then whenever your around him think "dang, his voice is so weird!" Stuff like that may help a bit.

Ex's and Oh's
-brittany

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xEVYx answered Saturday May 6 2006, 9:12 pm:
It's tough being in this situation and don't we know it! You feel very emotional and confused- you're angry/upset at him but still think about him like crazy!

You're better off without him! Why concentrate on one guy that you can't have when there are millions that you can!

If he's still on your mind, honestly you should shut off contact with him for a while. Let things settle down before you two talk a lot.

After doing this for a while you should find that you think about them less and can then even think about moving on to your next relationship.

Don't feel bad about yourself. Tell yourself it is their loss not yours and you are a great person.

And just remember- that boy is gonna spend the rest of his life kicking himself in the butt for not being with you haha.

Good luck hun!

♥ Evy

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illLuvUbetterx3 answered Saturday May 6 2006, 8:53 pm:
find another guy!!!

well if u really honsetly want to get over him u just have to move on.<33

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