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Q: well, i have this boyfriend.. and he keeps trying to have sex with me.. what should i do about it? i mean im only 14

well, it depends, if you want to have sex with him then i would. but dont make him force you into doing anything you dont want to do. if you dont wanna have sex with him then dont

Q: mr bz i like your advice thing but i need advice as well.. see.. i have this girl named brittany as a friend and i think she is a lesbian she always gets touchy feely with me.. should i let it go or tell her to stop.. i mean im not a lesbian but i am starting to think she is

ew i know about this brittany girl she is always touching me when i least expect it.. shes quite the sly one. i think you should let it go. maybe deep down in side bz. you are lesbian. i mean you are sitting right next to me right now and rubbing my leg. im starting to get suspisious....

Q: well, im going to write back like you said you hoped i did. Well, I shouldn't let go like you said i shouldnt. but what if he is never going to like me ever again. I mean what if i am just wasting my time like everything else. and i hate myself for every mistake i made in the past and i regret everything i did with one boy last summer. im just so scared of failure, and now it is getting to me; deeply. im tired of screwing up with him and i think that to him i am just a screw up. I dont want to give away to much of who i am but anyways i really am in need of help. majorly. i hope you can help me. I really injoy talking to you. thank you for everything. hoping for more help

Well you are welcome, and i am glad i can help. Everybody makes mistakes and if this boy was worth it he would realize that. Just talk to him about it. its better then sitting around and doing nothing. you never no what he is thinking maybe he misses you and doesnt think you are a screw up.. what kind of mistakes did you make in the past? that could help me give u better advise if i knew.

Q: Well, I need help (as said by the subject). I like this boy a lot. And we used to have so much together and all I want is everything back like the way it use to be. And today I was looking at him and I was about to cry and I look at him and he is looking at someones ass and going wow look at that. It's like i think he misses nothing at all. There are so many memories with him and I don't want to let go but everyone is telling me to just move on.. Please read this carefully and write what I should do.. I mean i'm only a 15 year old girl so please don't make it too complicated. Lots of love, xheartbrokenx

Well to start, guys tend to look at other girls ass's so i wouldnt be to worried about that. If you really miss this guy, and you miss everything you guys had i wouldnt let go just so soon. Its hard getting over somebody that you had alot of good times with. I know that from personal expirience. Dont listen to other people. You should try talking to him, because no matter what you do, if you like this guy as much as you say you do, your still going to like him so you might as well try being his friend and try to get things how they were before, rather then sit around and deal with the fact you lost him.
Hope i helped.
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Q: Ok i keep getting introuble for hanging around this one guy. Im 13 and i fell in love with an 18yr old. WE always get into trouble for bbeing around eachother. I dont want him to get put away for being too old, but i love him... What do i do?? We have sooo many good memories together...

i had this problem before.. except this guy was only 2 years older then me. not 5.. but i think you guys should stay together. age is nothing but a number. if you guys really love eachother you guys shouldnt be apart because of age.

Q: i like this kid named ed what do i do

well i would tell ed how you felt.

Q: i rlly lik dis 1 guy in a grade younger then me and it seems like he likes me but i dunno what i shuld do . we barely talk but wen we do iz great . plz help
- confused

Well, i think that you should try talking to him more, that would really help. If you guys talk more and start getting more close then you can talk to him about you liking him. Do not rush things.