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Okay this morning I woke up And there was CRUST around my Belly Button what does that mean?????
Is is anything serious?? (link)
Nah your fine, just try to like maybe clean it more you know scrub it really hard with your wash cloth in the shower with some soap. Hope I helped.


oh and to all those people with the ? when is the right time to have sex? its when you are ready.
no body can tell you when to have sex.

and ways my ? is..
how long into the relationship do you have sex.
i rate high for nice people (link)
It's different for everybody it's always how long it takes you to get comfortable when you AND him feel like yes, I'm very ready to make love to you and just please wait until your in love* with him if you aren't already trust me if you aren't and you guys break up it will hurt you so much.


well i have this really really good friend in drama club with me..
were tyte
hes a year older than me, but we're still really tyte.

he had a big crush on me last year, but i didnt like him
what sucks is that once i got to know him more.. i really like him now.
were like really good friends with benefits and its obvious that im one of his good friends cuz i was one of the first people he told about wanting to ask the girl he likes out.
i helped him out and im trying to get this girl to go out with him..

But i cant help but wonder.. i know i like my friend.. but why don't i feel jelous.. and im like reminding him every day to ask her out..
why do i not feel jelous at all and why am i so intent on making his other girl work out.. usually girls are trying to sabotauge him in this situation..
is there something thats special and different with us than other typical friends with benefits.. or is this just normal?

i rate all 5s
sorry 4 length
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Just reading this makes me think of what Wes and Johanna had, they were friends with benefits and when they went out they didn't stick to each other like Mel and Dannie >from the Real World< they went out made out with other people got home laughed it up together and didn't care they were still friends with benefits. But now they are dating and happiest ever. Maybe you don't feel jealous because you want him to be happy and shiz because usually when you care about someone that much you tend to get further away from the jealousy and more closer to the being happy part. You never know you and him could end up being together. Maybe he remembers about you saying ask her out today but maybe he doesn't want to. You never know what people think and that's what sucks ass in this world ha, ha. Just keep doing what your doing never know. Hope I helped. Sorry I felt badd* because no one else answered this question.


I didn't know if i should put this in friendships but anyways... i tried talking to the guy i have a crush on, but then someone came to talk to me and he left. all i could ask him was what he was listening to and what kind of music it was. I didn't get neither answers. Now i don't know if i should try talking to him again. if yes, what can i say? i feel like an idiot. i know i should just say hi but when i see him he like avoids eye contact... i tried to just smile and wave at him but he never looks at me so that doesnt work. well he does but not at the right times, like on the way to class or something... so what do i do?

by the way, i only want to be friends with him at first lol (link)
Walk up to him, start asking him questions to make you sound like your interested. I would just keep starting up the conversation not necessarily ask him questions all the time because that gets kind of creepy after a while just be like well I think your really cool and I would love to hang out with you with a group of friends or something and I think we'd have a blast. Be honest, don't lie because if you do end up liking him and he ends up liking you and you guys date trust me that'll be taunting you til the day you tell him. Even if it's not that big of a deal it's still a lie. Hope I helped. If you give me more details by asking me anymore unanswered advice just please ask me. I like these kinds of questions.


Other than a dictionary definition, without using the word to define it, can anyone explain what truth really is? Thanks in advance, will rate 4 or higher. (link)
Ha, ha what very strange coincidence I just made a quote about the *truth* today before you asked this question so here's what I think about what truth really means.

_-**Truth is that there is no truth.. just the lies that hide behind our fake smiles**-_



hi i am danie and i am a girl that is my nickname. I like this boy at school but he has a girlfriend and a friend of his told me that he had said that if he broke up with his girlfriend than he would consider being my bf so do you think i should keep with it or no????????????

:( oxoxoxox
pickme111 (link)
Well, actually there's 2 sides to it. If you really like him sure go for it because honestly if he's saying that while he's in a relationship then he knows that it won't last with his present girlfriend. But there's also a bad side, maybe *his* friend is making a fib, or if he can say things like that behind *her* back what makes you think he won't say it behind yours if you guys do start dating. But if he acts like he really cares, doesn't treat you like shit, always makes you laugh, never made you cry, never made you think about crying when your around him or anything like that then I'd deffinately say go for it. Hope I helped.


I'll have to start from the beginning...


This guy, Nick, is in my Spanish class. I noticed that everytime I looked up, he was staring at me. I smiled at him and from then on, we've been really close. He calls me every night and we talk for hours. ..But he had a g/f..

We walk to across the campuses together to go to Spanish. Yesterday he wasnt there. When I got to class, I looked at my phone and he called me from his house. I called him back and he said that he was sorry for not walking me to class. I thanked him for thinking of me and told him that I would call him when I got home.

When I got home, he called me before I could call him. He explained to me that him and his girlfriend of 22 months had just broken up and he wasnt sad or anything. He jumped right into say that he had a new girl in mind and I was that girl.

Today at school, he would run up behind me and tickle my sides whenever he saw me. Then, at the end of the day, I was waiting with my friend for her bus because I was riding home with her. Nick walkde right passed me and walked on the same bus I was walking toward. Then I remember... his newly ex-girlfriend rides taht bus too.

He hasnt called me yet.
What should I think? (link)
Don't think of anything, maybe he has a *guy* friend that rides that bus and was going home with him. Don't think too much of him it seems like he likes you a lot and maybe he didn't even see you when he walked right by to go on that bus. Be lucky to have a guy like that around he sounds really sweet I mean he calls you, let's everybody around you guys when he greets you with that tickle on the sides that "she's mine and I like her a lot, back off" kind of thing. I would suggest not talking to him about it because then he'll probably be like don't you trust me then next time you guys talk and it might end up in a big fight over really nothing, you know? Just go along with it but if it bugs you too much you have to tell him sooner or later but just talk in a calm manner don't be too hasty or he'll be like don't talk to me and don't take a risk like that, trust me. Just act like everythings normal and I bet you everything will be okay.. He'll call sooner or later maybe he's busy doing some family business or maybe he's hanging around his guy friends, ha, ha take my advice don't talk to a guy when he's hanging around his friends, most get really upset and pissy like their PMSing.. LoL hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't but I think I covered everything.


mkay there's this guy i like and he likes me too. so he sat with me at lunch today and we barely talked. im not sure wat to talk about.. any ideas? thanks. (link)
How his day went, how your day went, how everythings going in life, how everythings going in life. You could always ask him questions that you want to know about him like can you have his phone number, do you have AIM, what kind of music do you listen too, what do you love to do the most. Ya know* the original things you normally ask in a ordinary conversation. Hope I helped.


Did Steve from Blues Clues die???? (link)
Nah he retired.


13/f the one that asked the sex question earlier..
ok well say i did have sex..and my cherry popped...which it will...would the doctors be able to tell by looking? everytime i go for a checkup at the doctors they spread my legs apart and look... i dont know if they willl be able to tell..and i havent started my period yet so could i have sex anyways? (link)
Well if you go to the GYN doctor they usually put gloves on, put lotion on one finger and feel around in your vagina to justify it, to find if you have or not. But I highly doubt just by looking up your puss without sticking something in you to widen that area out to see more and or feel up there to tell if you've had sex or not. If they stick their fingers up you, don't feel the flap of skin that should be there >your cherry< then they'll know you either use large enough tampons or had sex. And it's very rare that your tampon can even rip that flap of skin. And yes you can have sex anyways even if you haven't started your period, I mean I wouldn't recommend it but shiz happens and I can't stop you. Just be safe. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. Ask me for more advice if you need.


My boyfriend and I been going out for a little over a year and I feel like im a noboby to him cause he never opens up with me, he won't tell me what he's feeling. Example..Just a feel minutes ago i called him and hes like hello and im like hello and he said what do you want and i said what do you mean what do i want don't you want to talk to me? he says no i don't want to talk to anyone and i asked him what's wrong and he just won't tell we got into a fight to because i hung up on him because he was being rude to me. This happens all the time! And i can't take it anymore, i want to feel like im his girlfriend when im around/talk to him not a fucking noboby!...Do you think i'm just wasteing my time on this, is the relationship dead? help please... (link)
:\ The relationships dead. If he really did care for you he'd deffinately woudl have opened up for you already I mean damn it's been a year. I'd talk to him in person that he is so close of losing you that you feel like SHIT when he talks to you and treats you like your a nobody. Tell him if this is going to continue I feel that I'm just wasting my time so it's either over or you'll change for me. I hope I helped.. If you want to give me more details into it I want to help because I love love life questions especially these kinds.


Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks (link)
I go to the GYN, and they told my mom. Sorry to say this but they are going to tell your mom no matter what. May I ask why your mom is making you go there? Because if it's that she is thinking that you are sleeping around the doctor can't keep what the whole purpose why your there from her. I'd tell your mom before she finds out that you lied because maybe she asked you before are you a virgin, did you have any sextual contact, I'd deffinately tell her before tomorrow. Hope I helped. Very sorry to hear that.. I know what it's like and I'm only 13 ..:\


i have extremely rough skin, especially between my eyebrows, on my forhead, on my nose, and on my chin. what can i do about this?
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Put Vaseline on your face. That's work for me when I get rough, dry irritating skin on my face.


When i was at the doctors, they said i had something called urethitis.. but when i tried to search it on the internet, it came up like Chlamydia or something like that.. is that the same thing? and what is it? (link)
urethritis:

Noun
Inflammation of the urethra.

If you don't know what Inflammation is I looked it up for you:
inflammation:

Noun
1. The act of inflaming or the state of being inflamed. 2. A localized protective reaction of tissue to irritation, injury, or infection, characterized by pain, redness, swelling, and sometimes loss of function.


If you don't know what Urethra is I looked it up for you as well..

urethra:

Noun
Inflected forms: pl.u·re·thras or u·re·thrae The canal through which urine is discharged from the bladder in most mammals and through which semen is discharged in the male.
Etymology
Late Latin *r*thra, from Greek our*thra, from ourein, to urinate.
Other forms
u·re'thral adj.


Hope I helped.


i am 13 and it seems like everyone has sex at like 14....i have a bf but i dont know if i should bring it up yet..my mom always tells me not to have sex unless i am married...but i kinda want to...i have never fingered either..please help
i rate high (link)
Well yeah it's true that us kids these days are having sex at a very young age. But don't do something just because you want to fit in. And trust me you'd want to wait til you found the _-one-_ and also you'd know what it felt like if your _-boyfriend-_ is really the *one* because sex can do A LOT of shiz to a chick, I'm saying to find the right one, your soul mate in heaven because sex can sometimes get you more closer towards your sex partner, more feelings towards him/her, more relieved, more comfortable... Just be careful use a condom. I'm warning you now having sex at a young age is effecting of how you get pregnant when your older like it's much more harder to get pregnant if you start doing *any* sextual activity at a young age. And your mom is a good mother but 97% out of 100% teens AND adults have sex before they are married. I'm letting you know that now just incase your wondering. But be safe and I hope I answered your questions. If you have any unanswered questions. Please ask me I'm here.


what games can me and my bf play over the internet? like truth or dare something for us to get horney over! thanks! (link)
Hm you could always play tag with your webcams. Be on webcam start strippin*, tell him if you was there you'd do blah blah blah. Truth or Dare always works!


i have no clue what so ever what i am going to get my boyfriend for christmas..does anyone have any ideas..we have only been going out for like a little while..hes 14 and im 14 so i kinda need a inexpensive gift becuase i dont really have that much money..

thanks for the help
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Anything to do with his favorite football team, hockey team, soccer team, baseball team, basketball team anything -he's- into. Just get him like hats that have his favorite whatever. Hope I helped. Or make him a CD, movie that he wants?


im a girl im 15 years old. what are some awsome ways to finger myself. thanks! (link)
You can use things around the house, broom stick, your one-two fingers, candle, carrots (ha,ha)oh god, and uh vibrator, dildo, brush handle. And more. Ha, ha that's great. Well have fun.


Alright
my "downthre" is just really raw and red and burns.
what is this?
What can I do to make it go away? (link)
Do you mean rashy? And burns so you must mean it's rashy and it hurts. Try putting hand lotion on it. And yes I think you need to get it checked up it may be a yeast infection. But I'm not quite sure.


How do i break up with my boyfriend with our hurting him. I like him but not in a boyfriend way. there is no connection anymore. I still want to be his friend. Also he has no clue its coming.well that is what i think
thanks for the help
5's for good advice (link)
Well your going to hurt him either way, I know it's not fare when you just want to be friends with a guy that's totally obsessed with you and the only way to say goodbye is bye breaking him into pieces one by one. Just tell him in a settle manner tell him that he's a really good friend, that he's been there all this time and that you wish to be only friends because you can't see him as a boyfriend anymore and you'd rather have something than nothing -friendship than nothing-. Hope I helped.




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