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i want to go to this party but i'm not sure if my dad will let me. How do i ask if i can go? answer ASAP 2 hrs til the party! will make people favorite columist And give fives!!! (link)
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Well, dont lie to him, but if he does ask, tell him that the last time that you knew, it was being chaperoned and you havent heard anything different. If he trys to tell you that they forgot to tell you or something, tell him that wouldnt forget because your best friend is going and she would let you know if they did have changes and they called her but forgot to call you. Just tell him something that you know is the truth and that he should allow you to go. If he doesnt then just beg, like I do, and see how that goes. That also works for me to and Im 17 years old. My mom just wants me to be able to do what I want to do because she didnt get to do all that much when she was growing up. So you can also that line on him if nothing else works. Get back to me and tell me how evrything goes if you can.
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Ok so there's this guys Shawn, and he doesn't live here. We have been off and on since the summer, and i'm so insecure about the relationship because all the other guys i've been with have been pricks. I never see him so i dont consider it a relationship..and i can't just be friends with him because i have stronge feelings for him, and it's not going to work ever again. But it hurt's so much when i see him sign on or talk or think about him. He was the first real guy that accepted my eating disorder and my cutting habbits. I need to get over him because i don't wanna feel this weay anymore. But everytime i try it feel's as if i can't feel the same way with another guy. I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley. (Because if he really loves me then he'll be there later in life, right?) What do you think? (link)
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Yeah, hell be there later in life if he really cares. But even though he accepted your eating disorder and cutting problems, maybe in a way, it still scared him off. I personally dont know why people have those kind of things even though I have a friend who has an eating disorder, I think that you go and try and get some help for that. Then about the guy problem, if it is meant to be, then dont feel insecure about it, hell be there. Plus, if you get rid of the stuff and he comes back later in life, youll regret throwing that stuff away. Trust me, I have done it before. But again, if it is meant to be and you all arent together right now, dont feel bad for goiong with someone else because that relationship is probably going to happen later in life. Plus, you shouldnt commit yourself to one person at a young age. But if he really cares about you, then hell treat you with respect, so dont feel insecure about the relationship. But him not caring is what you have to worry about. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can.
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ok i have a problem also.. but first of all im in 7th grade.. so its about a boy nd like not many ppl go out with ppl.. cuz its a catholic school..just to let you know.
well i liked this guy since like november.. and my frend thought that he liked me too.. but hes like super popular.. and im like 1 step away from being a total loser.. but theres only 3 groups and im in the 2nd.. so i got 2 shy 2 ask him if he likes me or sumthin.. and i have a major crush.. like HUGE.. and now i just found out that he is starting to go out with this girl.. and im just really mad.. i dont know how 2 like feel better.. im misrable.. and im always really hyper in school and i'm always smiling and laffing.. no one has seen me sad.. except for like once.. but only a couple of people saw me.. so today and yesterday i was happy as usual.. so no one knows that i like him.. except for my frends..but no one could really tell.. so today i was really misrable.. and i was soo sad.. and now i hate the girl that hes goin out with.. and idont know what 2 do.. please help me!!
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Well, dont hate anyone. Its not right in the Word of God for one thing, and for another, just because shes going out with him doesnt really quallify for that. But anyways, I know that its hard to go up to guy that you like and talk to him, trust me, I know. But you should just go up and try to talk to him. Bekieve me, Ive done it and it wound up that I actually became quite popular when I did it and in another instance, the guy I liked, it wound up that he actually liked me to. So give it a try and see how it goes. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, Shorty, Candace.
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14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help (link)
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Well, just try to flirt with her or something. I know that its hard to do that, but just try it. Or you could ask her if she would like to go somewhere with you and your friends, and have have a friend or two with you to ask her if you need to. Just try and break the ice and she feels the same for you and tell her how you feel. Maybe she does and if she is a nice girl, she shouldnt get mad at you for being honest. Just try and see what happens. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, Shorty, Candace.
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As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do?? (link)
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Well, obviously they really dont care about you and really arent your friends. Try hangin out with people who will like you for you. Then, if your mean friends ask why you dont hang with them anymore or anything, dont be mean back, just tell them what was up and tell them how you feel and that you really dont want to be their friend anymore. OR... you could sit down and talk to them about how you feel first, and that doesnt work, then thats when you know that its time for new friends. Hope I helped. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, Shorty, Candace
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I think I'm kind of short.. I'm 13 and just a little over 5 feet.. are there any ways that can help me grow taller? (link)
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Well, Im not quite sure how to make yourself grow taller except what every parent tells you "eat your vegetables and fruit". But dont feel bead. You might grow within the next few years because usually a human takes about 18-20 years to fully grow. And to let you know, I am 17 years old and I am only a few inches over 5 feet and I look like a 12 year old with some exceptions. Get back and let me know how everything goes for you.
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I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??
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Well, if your friends are telling you thatyou are a good singer, then they are good friends and that they wouldnt lie to you. What you need to do is just stand in front of the mirror and sing to yourself at first. If you cant do that, then close you eyes for the first few times, and then try to open them. Then try that in front of your famil, friends, etc. until you can feel comfortable singing in front of people. Remember, even the best of singers such as Usher still get nervous at times and they probably were nervous the first time they got up on stage. Sometimes they even close their eyes when they sing. Some people are nervous when they sing in front of a few people, but arent when they get in front of a lot of people on stage, and vice versa. Just try what I suggested and see if it works. Get back to me and tell me how it goes if you can. Shorty8706
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What do you guys think about having an "Ask Alice" column in a school newspaper.
like where an annonymous person (possibly me) answers annonymous questions asked my students in the school. some could be put online, and some just sent back to the students. do you think that it is a good idea, i read about it in a book, it was called "Teen Idol" by Meg Cabbot, anyone ever read it? then you may know what i am talking about, only in the book it was called "Ask Annie"
the person (maybe me) would remain annonymous so that the people asking the questions would not know who you were or if you were apart of one group or clique and them another, that way the person asking the question isnt scare or whatever!!
So, do you think that this is a good idea?
Thanks!!
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Actually, I do think that is a great idea. I have been trying to do that t my school for my journalism class, but for right now, I have to write an article about it to see what the students think. If people come up to us and want the advice columns up, and not just a couple of people, then we will do it and I get to be the person writng for it. But yeah, thats a great idea. Go for it and follow your heart. Dream Big! Get back to me and let me know how it goes if you can.
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Hi. My problem is a long long story. It starts like this. Me and my punkish/gothy friends have been together since like…4th and even earlier. This year I’m a freshman in high school and I’ve started hanging out with new people. Preppy but they’re not that preppy. They like emo and rock and accept everything. I don’t even want to call them preppy…They’re very popular and just normal. Amanda has become my new best friend and she in the normal group. My old best friend alix has drifted away from me and so had the whole punky group. They even stopped inviting me to hang places with them…I am pretty social and I need people so I made new friends still being friends just not best friends with my old friends. I’m talking to Alix one day on my way to lunch and it’s fine and then she says she has to go to her locker and I say I don’t feel like it and then another old friend of mine (Michelle) says why don’t you go hang out with your other friends like Amanda and them all. And then Alix says Amanda’s a snobby bitchy skank. I swear Amanda must be the nicest person in the world. She has nun potential. She’s really nice and does everything for me and sometimes I feel like a leech but Amanda says it’s fine. She is definitely not a bitch and I am sure of it because I asked many many people about what they think of her and the first thing they said was she’s nice. So that makes the bitch part wrong. As for skank? Amanda doesn’t date much…I don’t remember her ever having a boyfriend. She has crushes but she gets shy around them…So I don’t know where the skank came from…The snobby part? Well her parents do have money but it’s not like she acts or dresses like a rich snob. I told Alix that she shouldn’t say that because she doesn’t know her. And Alix said that if shes a skank she doesn’t want to get to know her. I told her I really don’t appreciate her saying that and then I left..So I told Amanda and my new friends what Alix said about her. Sara (emoish cheerleader and also very nice friend of mine) said that if Amanda’s a bitch then Sara must be like Satan or something. I’ve been friends with Sara since elementary school. None of my old friends believe me because I JUST started hanging out with her a lot again now. Back in like 3rd grade we were partners for a field trip to a water park. Well I could tell that Amanda was upset but shes acted careless and had to tell me not to worry. And a good point is that none of my new friends said anything bad back about her. I really like these new people. They have a good influence on me. I don’t want to tell anyone but Alix is a bigger bitch skank and snob then Amanda. Saying that stuff about Amanda was bitchy. Alix has let random guys give her hickeys and done other stuff too….I don’t think she realized that when she called Amanda a skank. Alix’s mom also has money….As a matter of fact Alix gets just about everything she wants. She gets a new cell phone every once in a while. Amanda doesn’t even have one right now….My new friends are also smart. They’re in all the honors classes with me and doing well….I like being on the same level with people instead of being with my old friends who give “me damn your smart”. Alix is in my honors English and global class but shes not doing well at all….My new friends are the ones my mom always wanted me to have…So now Alix is mad at me…She didn’t even really notice me before….And I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to completely abandon my old friends for my new friends because we have been friends for so long and we used to be so close…But they won’t accept me being with new people no matter what…I know it has to do with typical high school stereotype but no one really wants to admit it…And it would take me all through high school to establish and entirely new group of friends as big as the old one….I cried over this once but it’s really stupid how my old friends are acting and I don’t know what to do…Since this was really long and you might have gotten confused leave a message if you have any questions. Please Please help me!
Love,
Cup of orange juice
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Well, if they have treated you like that, then they really must not be your friends at all. What you could do is talk to them all and get them to see that they arent to bad somehow. Or you could just hang back and forth between the two groups, but that can get tiring aftre awhile. Just do what you think is best for YOU and follow YOUR heart as to what you want to do. Hope I helped. Get back to if you can and tell me what happens.
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what is the best working cold medecine that will really help my cold so i can go back to skool?!??!?!?!?!?!?! (link)
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Well, I have used coricidin's and they seem to really help. Ive used them when I do have a cold and dont have one and it seems to help me keep from getting sick. Just be careful though because they are really hard to get because other kids have used them and abused them to get a high/buzz, whatever you want to call it and to feel "floaty". So be careful to take the right amount that it says to take unless you want to do that and have the chance to get in trouble. Trust me, I have done it before and it wasnt a fun time getting into trouble.
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my friend, let's call her "emily," is very opinionated. most of the time it's rude and she's not afraid to voice her opinion, especially to me. now at first i didn't mind this, but now it's getting really annoying. see, last night was the sports awards banquet at my school and she kept making rude comments to me about people she didn't like but were my friends. if she didn't like them, she would be like, they don't deserve this award because of blah blah blah and i just wanted to scream at her because they deserve it so much and she just says that because she's jealous (she used to be good, but not anymore). how can i get her to stop being so rude and obnoxious? i really don't want to hear this constant complaining anymore. i'm not very confronational so i don't think talking to her in private would be my best option. thanks so much! (link)
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Well, I just suggest that you should just sit her down and talk to her about how you feel. Maybe you could find someone that feels the same way that you do and you both sit down and talk to her and then tell her how you both feel. Dont accuse her of anything, dont yell/scream, just calmly talk to her. If you want, have an adult in there so that things dont get out of hand, but you dont have to. But also, you could encourage her to do the things that shes good at and just be there for her when she has a problem or something. Just be a good friend to her and maybe shell turn around and see the light, see the way that you do.Just be prepared for things to boil up when you talk to her if she is that kind of way. Well, get back to me if you can and tell me how everything goes.
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ok hope this isnt too long. ok so there is this awsome guyy that i REALLY like. hes so awsome. hes my hight and he plays ice hockey. (big plus for me) so anyways he would flirt with me all the time. so i got this big idea that he liked me. so my friend wanted to do something about it. so we had this big plan and all. she was going to ask him if he liked me more then a friend or not. so she did and he said he would think about it. me and my friends waited for about four weeks. i was so sick of waiting around that my friend asked him again. he wouldnt answer yes or no so this guyy who overheard our conversation took him aside and asked him (this guyy is a total idiot who you could never trust with your secret) so anyways he talkes to him and comes up to my friend and tells them the answer. i didnt fine out till later that night. turns out he said no. but then i started thinking. if he didnt automatically say no then he must have something for me. am i right and could you explain please?? thx a lot!!! i rate high!!!! if it helps im a 13 year old
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Well, not always. Not all guys are mean, rude, and inconsiderate. He probably didn't want to be like all other guys and tell you no in a rude way. He probably just couldn't figure out a way to tell you because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. But there is still that slight chance that he might like you, but youll never know unless you ask him youself. Some guys dont like it when girls have their friends ask them for the girl who wants to know. Yeah, you might be nervous to go up to him and ask him yourself, but hell be glad that you had the nerves to go up to him and be honest with him. But if he isnt, then he isnt worth your time and probably a jerk because he cant see you for who you are and what it took for you to go up to talk to him. Just try it out and see what happens. Get back to me if you can and tell me what happens.
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To : tinkerbell_7141@msn.com
Subject : I AWAITS YOUR URGENT RESPONSE.
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...What to do? I know it's a scam, but how should I reply? (link)
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The thing is, don't reply. It be some kind of virus and it maybe sent to you to ruin your computer. Or it could just be that someone wants to try and steal your identity or something like that and it would be best that if you didn't answer that he can't do anything of that sort. If you can, let me know how everything goes.
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Ok i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months now and in the beginning of the realtionship my bestfriend thought we were perfect for eachother... well about 2 weeks ago he fractured his ankle and was really upset about becuz he couldn't play baseball and baseball is his life!! so he got really angry and took it all out on me! well now were both over it and we couldn't be any happier with each other... well the problem is i always told my bestfriend wat was happening and she kept telling me to break up with him and that she doesn't like him... how can i prove to her that my bf and i are perfect for each other and everybody has their fights!? (link)
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Well I think that you should just sit down and have a long talk with her. Tell her how you really feel about him and how you know that everyone has arguments with each other. Try and bring up the fact that even you and her have arguments with each other, but that doesn't mean that you all shouldn't be friends. But if she still states that she doesn't like him and can't be supportive of you, or even act like she is, then maybe you all should try to move on away from each other and hang out with other people now and again. But if you don't want to do that, maybe you two should give each other some time away from each other because maybe you guys have hung out to much. But see where the sitting down and talking it out goes and get back to me if you can.
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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much. (link)
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Well, I know exactly how you feel. Last October I started to see this guy that I had just met. He had another girlfriend, but we weren't technically going out. Then hr finally broke up with her and we started to officially go out. We did have some problems before that, but I was happy that we were finally going out. But the night before Thanksgiving, he broke up with me. I felt that he did that just because his cousin didn't like me and told him to do that and also he wanted to go out with someone else. But let me tell you, there are some people out there who aren't ready for relationships or just don't want a committed relationships. Do what I did and let time heal you and try to busy yourself with your friends or extra-curricular activities. It may seem hard at first, but eventually it will get easier, that's what I did and it helped for me. Try it out and get back to me if you can. I'll try to help you out again if that doesn't work. Plus, you just to forget about him because he obviously doesn't feel the same and is a big time jerk.
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