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my best friend who i love like a sister ran away today to MY house! i told her to go back. but she wouldnt. finally i got her to call her dad and then a police officer came to pick her up and bring her home. now her mom and dad hate me because they think i told her to come to my house. i wasnt expecting her at all!! one minute i was talking to her on AIM then her away message said out. wont be back any time soon. then i heard a knock. but how can i get *especially her mom* to like me again? HELP! any useless answers will recieve a 1. any good answers will recieve a 5. (link)
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well you need to tell her to admit to her parents that it wasn't your fault and that she did it on her own tunrs sorry if i didn't help but hope I did from sophie
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i got my first holes done and i took them out 4 weeks after they were peirced. but they werent healed and they started bleeding. do i have to wait another 4 weeks now? (link)
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you have to wait until there propaly healed because i did that it closed up for abit I had to shove it back in and it bled so it's best to wait
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basically this guy moved here a couple years ago and ive liked him ever since then. he lives right across the street from me so we became brother and sister type friends. he's had a lot of girlfriends here so we never went out, but he has liked me before. so now he's in an 8 month relationship with another girl and im happy for them. now heres the hard for me part, they've gone to 3rd within 3 months...and now they're talking about having sex within a few weeks. he talks to me about this (he doesnt know that i like him still because i dont want to create drama), but if he actually goes through with it i dont think i could ever look at him the same. we're all 15 by the way. i don't know... i've been thinking about it so much and im really upset. please help (link)
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you need to tell him theres no time like the present ask him if he's sure that he wants to do this and tell him how you feel because otherwhise it's gonna haunt you for the rest of your life
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hey. well this might be confusing so i'll apologize now. in novemeber of last year my aunt got married. i hated my new uncle. i know, thats rude but its also true! i loved my aunts old boyfriend .. he was great! they were going out for 6 and a half years! he was so funny too but then they broke it off. then my aunt met this other guy who she is now married too. he's okay i guess but hes such a freak! he totally changed the relationship between me and my aunt. before they met eachother me and my aunt were best friends!!! now we cant even have a simple convorasation with out him standing there & making sure everythings appropriate.
heres a little about him:
- hes a Church freak ( i guess theres nothing wrong with that .. )
- we have to listen to religious music ( and since he wont let me listen to B96 or KissFm .. i asked if i could listen to country music and he said 'no!! if you want to listen to that sh*t .. get ur own ride!' )
- he wouldnt take me and my grandma to fannie may because he said 'Jesus didnt sacrafice his life so people could waste their money over the stupidest f*ckin things!'
- we have to pray before every meal.. even if were in public. this one time my sister started eating before we prayed and her punishment was she had to say the prayer , she couldnt eat her lunch ; and for the rest of the month she had to go to church 3 days a week.
- he treats me and my sister like were 3
- he wont get cable for the same reason he wont take us to fannie may
what should i do about it? i cant talk to my aunt about it because i know she'll get so mad. how can i learn to like him? please answer.. ill rate high for good answers!!
love,
I HATE HIM!! (link)
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you shouldn't have to like him he sounds like a total knob tell him that your sick of being treated this way and that he's not gonna take over you life because you capable of living yourself and tell him just because he's married to your aunt that you can't change yours and hers relationship and tell him it's up to you what you do and if you don't like it then it's his problen hope this helps Sophie
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I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him? (link)
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you need to flirt leae him wanting more forget about your friend because if she acts all desperate then he's just gonna get annoyed and she'll make herslef look a fool with you just try and flirt a little like go up to him and pretend to bump into him but at the same time touch him like his arm and just be playful don't be to full on but go with the flow and bingo your in there hope i helped sophie
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so like my bf and me have been going out for 10 and 1/2 months, and we always fight about the same thing, Him going out, and today he told me that we should take a break, what is a break really and what should I do, I was so upset all I could do was cry... and whats worse i actually let him take his stupid break, and I dont know what to do, im so confused and hurt, and I cant break up with him because i love him, and he told me like a million times today he loves me, but i just feel like this is going to change our relationship, what should I do, i really need some help!@ im 16/f (link)
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he sounds like abit of a jerk if he truely loved you then he wouldn't act like this confront him about it and tell him he better get his act together i know you love him but sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind i know it sounds harsh but thats all you can really do hope I helped sophie
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my dad i really care for him but he dosnt no my b-day or anything about me he left when i was i was three have not seen in a year or two i relly care for and i still love even tho he has a alcolo probmelm and drugs and many more my mom has a oder of precettion and i can only see him when someone else is there what should i do i relly miss him and i dont no if him loves me please help me
xoxxo
girlygirl4real (link)
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write a letter telling him that you miss him and can't wait to see him and then tell him your birthday and stuff and say tha you really love him I bet it will make his day and it will make you feel alot happier hope i helped sophie
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So there's this boy named Jamie and all the girls have liked him. Well,lets just say a large quantity at one time or another.
He's not that hot but, he's cute and sweet and innocent and really funny. And he's a mormin so he just gained the ability to date in May when he turned 16 and went on his first date a couple weeks ago. Now I really like him, I mean really like him. Last year we were in a couple classes together last year and became okay friends not great ones but okay ones. But I don't look or act like a lot of the girls he hangs out with. So basically what I'm askin is how could we become closer without me being to obvious.
And please don't say just flat out tell him that I like him because we're going to be in at least one class together next year, I know he doesn't like me yet and I don't want it to be awkward. (link)
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you need to talk to him don't be afraid to tell him how you feel you should express your feelings and tell him straight then see how he replies if he says sorry i'm not interested then move on if he says ok then then give it ago hope i helped sophie
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I have wavey shoulder length hair and for awhile now I've been using hair gel to keep my waves tight and frizz free. It's worked well for awhile but my hair is untouchable and crunchy. Does anyone have any other suggestions on types of products to use for my hair? I would like to maintain my tight waves and frizz free hair as best as possible. Thanks to all who answer.
I rate. :) (link)
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ok i have wavy hair which is curly shoulder lenth what I do is I get some like hair condition stuff called smoothin serum I put some in a bottle and put water in it in no time it is really thin and damp but looks really nice
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okay heres the thing. i kind of like my guy best friend. but the problem is, i cant like him. My other best friend is practically dating him. But i cant help but like him anyways. I dont really know what to do about these feelings. I know I cant actually do anything. And im sure he doesnt like me. But i just wish he did. I can move on, and i do. I like other guys, but i still like him. Nobody knows how i feel & i wouldnt know how to tell them. And i dont think i should. I mean I just.. dont know what i can do.. and im not sure how anyone can help me here.. but i just keep holding this inside of me, and its really starting to hurt.. what can i do?
help please!!
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you need to tell both your friend and him how you feel you need to make your feelings clear because if you bottle them up it will eat away at you express how you really feel tell you mate that I no your closer to him than me but maybe for my sake can we both stick with him or can she back down abit and say if your really my true friend then you'd understand but if she doesn't then ditch her with him you need to talk to him alone and tell him how you feel if he doesn't feel the same way then move on I know it's hard but trust me it works just talk to someone and have a good cry get a movie and some chocolates and then it will be alot easier hope I helped sophie
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ok ..well they say that birthcontrol helps alot better than condoms do. is this true? ..also when i want to "do it" what are the chances of me getting pregnant if i use a condom because birthcontrol is too much work, you have to take 2 pills aday or somethign ..if u can help me thanks ..i appriciate it. (link)
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ok the best way is either a condom or pill so then if you use these then you haven't really got a chance of getting pregnant unless the condom splits or you forget to take the pill but apart from that theres no other risks so if your ready go right a head and make sure that your safe because if you have unpretected sex then you've also got a chance of catching sti's so be safe and be careful hope I helped sophie
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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??
I'm 13,Female (link)
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if he really cared for you he would try and change but he's oviously a jerk so i'd break it off with him and do better
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alright well there is this guy jeff who i used to date. after a bad break up we became really close friends, we told eachother everything and always laughed and had fun together. well he started talkin to my like everyday about a differant girl he liked, and honestly i didn't mind that much. i even gave him advice on rlationships, good advice. but if i said one word about a guy he always got mad and aggrivated. then one day he told me he liked me alot and would love to be my gf, so later on i asked him out. he said "i love you so much i can't stand a break up so friends with benefits???" well that was lame so i said no, just friends. then he got mad because he said i told him i liked him then asked to be just friends.... even though he did the exact same thing. well we forgave and forgot and he started talking about another girl and he asked who i would probably date because he heard that i liked some guy from my friend. i told him that i liked josh and he asked me out and i said yes.... jeff got mad and started calling me all these names and being so rude! i told him he was a selfish emotional loser... harsh but i was mad. then we forgave eachother and he said i love you i am sorry. now he is being really mean to me, always getting mad over nothing and if i get mad back he sucks up to me. so i told him that i was done with him, and we should just never talk again. after hearing him sob for a while i am beginning to think that i am the bitch? am i the mean one, or is he out of line?
p.s. im 14 f (link)
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this jeff guy sounds like a total loser you did well to move on
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Well i broke up with my bf after we dated for 7 months i felt like i wanted to experience more things so i broke up with him.. and now im dating him again and i dunno if i rly love him in my heart i see us starting a family together but i kinda feel like i want some1 new but im not for sure.. wat should i do?? (link)
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you need to decide if you love him or not and you need to talk to him
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Okay I want a boyfriend and stuff and be able to makeout and stuff with him. But I have heard from some people that a couple guys havn't asked me out because they think I won't do anything with them. So my question is how do I let them know that I will and want to without acting like a slut. Thanks in advance!! And if your rude then I will rate you low or not at all!! (link)
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ok ignore what your friends say you'll find one i promise and when you do you can do whatever you want with them
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Gender: male Age: 16
Me and my gf havent exactly been getting along we cant talk much it neva works, we hug sometimes, and we dont do anything else either because there was a problem and we said we'd work it out but obviously not and im a shy guy and i get pretty depressed often and today one of her friends(also friend of mine) told me my gf wants me to stop me getting into depressive moods and make more of an effort to make the first moves or she will dump me. And then her friend also told me that she also liked another 2 guys and she things my gf is just using me.
But when i was 1st goin out with her i have neva been as happy and im not sure i wanna give up on her and thus lose that happiness.
What do u think? am i just being stupid?
and if u think i should dump her please tell me.
How?
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just try talking to her tell her why your getting depressed and exlain that your getting bored that you never do anything and tell her that it seems like a waste of time and if she doesn't get her act together then your gonna break up with her
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i use to be a really fun exciting girl i was always talking or doing something stupid to entertain myself. but i noticed that i dont find many things funny anymore. i dont do anything stupid to entertain myself. I use to talk to everyone now i only talk to a few people. I dont get close to anyone anymore i dont share my feelings anymore. im sorta confused i dont know whats happened to me. (link)
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as your getting older things start to change you become more mature thats probably why
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These last few times I've had my period I've been really PMSy. Like all constantly have cravings for chocolate, something sweet, or something salty. This has been throwin me off my diet. *Im skinny but I wanna remain healthy and fit* .. What should I do when PMS strikes again? (link)
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try eating fruit and veg and you'll be fine
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i need a website that has anime music like from the shows fullmetal alchemist or wolf's rain for your advice column!!! any suggestions??? plz help!
thanks! ^O^ (link)
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www.artistdirect.com
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okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.
Please help me. :( (link)
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you've got to ignore people like that their jealous you just get on with your life and tell oyur bf that your sick of everyone getting on your case
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