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Q: Okyy. Well,, i better state thhat my handss are shkking unconttraolbly, whichm akes it hard to typpe well, buttt ill tryy my hardest.

Well, today, the doctor said I have strep throat. 2 dayys ago i started feeling siick with a head achhe & stomach problems. I didn't eat after 2:00 ppm that dayy.
The nnext day, I diidnt eat anythinng. It was more head ach and stommach problems.
Yesterdayy, all i at was a cressent roll& a little bit of noodle soupp. My stomach & head still.
Today, I wentt too the doctors office & they siaid ii had strep thhroat. Now, my throat & head & stomach hurtt. All iive had to day wass half a frapp from starbucks.

I've loost 10 lbs so farr, noot onn purpose.

quuestions:
1. Iss this really unhealthy?
2. Am i supoosed to be SUPER coold?

I had something like this last week and I missed two days of school but the whole feeling like crap lasted a little over a week. I lost about seven pounds but unless it's over fifteen pounds, it's not terribly unhealthy. I also had really bad chills and had to go to bed with the heat on, 2 blankets, a sweatshirt, sweatpants, and slippers. That night my fever broke though, so it's just something that takes time. Make sure you try to take pain pills (aspirin or ibuprofen work best) every four to six hours and just really get your rest. Sorry you feel so sick, I hope you get better soon.

Q: Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does?

Personally, my advice is to try to find some other fabulous guy who can get your mind off of this one because, though he may be amazing, there are surely guys out there closer to your age who can sweep you off your feet. If you think it's possible for you to stay friends without getting more attached, maybe go for that. Otherwise, maybe you should make a few less trips to McDonald's from now on. :)

Q: what is Bluetooth wireless technology? its on the razor phone and i was wondering what it was

It's a one-ear headset that you can use, but there is no wire connecting your headset to the phone. There's just something plugged in and you can have the phone sitting next to you or across the room and still be talking to the person that you're on the phone with. It's safer for driving and things like that because you can talk but not have your phone or the wire in your way.

Q: i just got my braces off and i am looking for a great teeth whitener. my mom doesn't want to spend a lot on a dentist doing it but she said she is willing to buy a semi expensive do it yourself. pleaseee help!=]

I swear by Crest Whitestrips, especially the Premium and Premium Plus. I'm using the Premium Plus right now (which cost around $32 as opposed to dentists that cost hundreds) to get ready for prom and it makes a big difference by the time you get through the 10-day box. Believe me, it's definitely worth the $32.

Q: Hey all. I was just wondering if you could inform me about which park is better between the theme parks and between the water parks, in Disney World in Orlando, Florida. I am a thrill-seeker, meaning I like to go on great adventures and ride really scary roller-coasters, and I also like fun water rides and swimming (especially in wave pools!). Thank-you for your time.

As far as water parks go, Blizzard Beach is probably my favorite that I have ever been to and it's in Disney World.

For theme parks, if you need to stay within Disney World, I suggest Animal Kingdom for the new roller coaster, Expedition Everest as well as Magic Kingdom with some really classic, fun rides.
If you're really a thrill-seeker though, your best bet is to go to Universal Studios and Islands of Adventure because you will find endless rides that you'll enjoy.

Q: at a local music store, they display their saxophones on a wall. they have some sort of wall mount thing going on. i have searched google and ebay for saxophone wall mounts, but i can't find anything. i'm looking to hang up my two alto saxophones. my question is... have any of you ever seen a saxophone wall mount and where could i buy them?

I would try asking the store if they have any extra wall mounts that they would be willing to sell. Some music stores are pretty easygoing about that stuff and offer a good price on things like that.

If that doesn't work, ask them if they know a good supplier.

Q: A guy asked me to go to the movies with him this Friday and I said yes. Well we were talking and he asked me if I was going to bring anything with me. I was thinking, "Hm...I thought this was a date?" So I told him that I wasn't planning to but I will if he brings someone. So we decided that we both were bringing someone. Then, about 10 min. later he said that he'd really like it if we went alone. So at that point I was just like, "Uh, wtf? Does this guy not know what he wants?"

Well, I've talked to him for at least an hour and half each day since Monday and now I don't think that I really like him. Like, at all. Not even as someone I'd hang out with as friends.

So my question is, do you think it's too late to cancel? Or would it be rude of me to cancel the day before? I was also thinking about saying that I want to bring a friend after all. What do you guys think?

I wouldn't cancel because it is pretty late, but I would call him up and let him know that he needs to bring a friend because you want to bring one too. It can serve as sort of a buffer for the both of you, and if you actually happen to like hanging out with him, you can give it another go alone some other time.

Q: um..... this may be a wierd question but i'll ask it. when is about the age girls start shaving their legs?

I would say around 12 because that's around when middle school starts and puberty and whatnot. But if your legs aren't usually showing, it's not really necessary right away.

Q: Is it possible to fall in love at 17? I have been with my boyfriend for only 4 months, but there is such an intense energy between us. We talk all the time and are together at every moment possible. we are similar in our core beliefs, but disagree on many topics. Disagreeing has sparked tons of interesting conversations between us. everytime i think about him or someone says his name i smile and get a warm, fuzzy, happy feeling. we trust and respect one another and have good sexual chemistry (we have not however, had sex and will not for quite some time)

I am almost positive that i love him, but ever since i was young people have always told me that you can't fall in love in high school. I want to get some outside oppinions and find out if the things i am feeling are what is generally classified as love.

thanks loves!
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I think that love in high school is a rare event but what you're describing sounds like it could be the real thing. It's just when really young kids start saying I love you 3 days after they strat going out when people say love doesn't exist in high school.

Q: i'm a 10th grader who's never had a gf before (pretty pathetic, but whatever). im really bad with asking girls out and whatnot. anyhoo, im really really good friends with this girl, shes a year younger than me, and we both tell each other everything. ive liked her for a little while, maybe a few weeks, but she tells me that she likes a senior in our school. now idk if she actually does like him, or if she's just saying that to cover up that she likes me, but we always hang out, we've never gotten mad at each other, we know everything about neach other, and we never get tired of hanging out (we've actually pissed her friends off once or twice cuz we hang out so much). anyway, what do i do? thanks

I know it seems like a nervewrecking thing to do, but it's best that you tell her. If she is really interested in you, then you can start a great relationship. If she happens to not be interested, it sounds like your friendship is so good that things shouldn't get messed up. I'm sure if you're like most people, having just the friendship is second best and still worth it.

Q: Is there anyway to go in the pool or ocean with out your mascara running? I heard if you put like clear mascara over your normal stuff it would work. I use Big Lash.. i think it's from Maybalene?

Most mascaras come in waterproof form and they don't run in the water. Meybelline has waterproof in Sky High Curves and Lash Stylist, which both work really well. The only thing about waterproof mascara is that it's a little harder to wash off, but it's worth it.

Q: My bedroom is white and boring. I've been thinking about redecorating it. mostly painting the walls. I just have no idea what color to paint it. My favorite colors are pink and black. I'd be scared to paint it black and plus, im not allowed. but im not sure if i wanna paint it pink. Please help.

What colors would you suggest to paint a bedroom.

I'll rate 5's for anyone that tries.

colors like orange or green are sometimes good for a fun, bright look without the darkness of black. if you really want to go with a pink though, i'd look for a muted pink. a splash of hot pink on your walls might be too much to get to sleep at night. :)

Q: how do i lighten my hair on my arms and but and stomach because its really dark hair and imbarising and i dont no how to make it a light color can u help please !!! thanks i rate high all the time

There are some kinds of bleaches out on the market that can be used for facial hair, but since you're talking about a larger surface area, I'd go with a larger box of highlighting/bleaching solution that you would use on your head hair. All hair bleaches pretty much work the same way, so you'd just leave it on until it came to the desired shade then rinse. Otherwise, there's always waxing!

Q: How long can someone go without eating food but drinking water? if you happened to stop eating food would you die?

Well, when people fast they can usually go several weeks to over a month without food, but it all depends on how much stored energy they still have. Water is a different story though. After a few days, people can get delirious without any liquids. so basically the deal is, don't deprive your body of what it needs.

Q: are you supposed to use a condom for oral sex?

It's not necessary, but if there is any question of diseases, it's a good idea. It does take some of the feeling away from the guy, but I'm sure it's better than nothing. It's up to you to make a judgment call. It's not like you need to protect against pregnancy.

Q: is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13?

I don't think it's wrong to want it because that's when puberty is kicking in, but I do think it's wrong to actually go out and have sex. It's still too young, so if the wanting is that bad, maybe trying to satisfy yourself could relieve that a little.

Q: I want to buy birth control, but the thing is im kind of young and my parents can't know. If i buy it alone at like the CVS or Walmart, is it possible thatthe sales clerk will stop me from buying it?

The sales people are not supposed to stop you but they may refuse to sell you something if you appear very young. Also, remember you can only get spermicide and condoms when it comes to stores, so your best bet is to go to a Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood offers several types of birth control that is usually free or pretty cheap. Plus, they don't judge you for coming in and asking for protection.

If you check their website, they list all locations, so I'm sure you could find one in your area.

Q: I just recently broke out with it all over my face .___. It is dark red and I don't know what makeup to use to cover/lighten it. People said not to use concealer and others said to use it. I don't know. Any help? I'm supposed to see someone tomorrow...I don't want them to stare and try to connect the dots, ya know?

I use Clean and Clear concealer because it covers blemishes well and also has medication in it to help clear up any breakouts.

Q: I know that when a girl first has sex, it [usually] hurts. So, are there any cons for the boys when they first have sex? Do any disadvantages come with it (pain, etc.)

thnx

There isn't usually pain but guys can be very uncomfortable about their naked appearance and wondering whether they are lasting long enough. Usually, extended time takes practice, so a guy could be very embarassed for only lasting a few minutes.

Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for half a year and I gave my virginity to him. He said that he was a virgin also. I feel that he was lying to me about being a virgin. I don't know what I should do to confront him with my thoughts. He seems to know too much about Sex to be a virgin.. I think he lied to me so I would sleep with him. How can I ask him about it without hurting his feelings?

Well, most guys learn a lot going through puberty because that's all that's on their minds and they want to learn as much as they can. Does he just seem to have a lot of knowledge about it or did he seem to know his way around the bed a little too well?

I think you should just ask him upfront about it if he seemed experienced while you were having sex, but if he just seems to have a lot of knowledge but not moves, I think it's just something that comes with being a guy.