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does she like me????
i'm a 10th grader who's never had a gf before (pretty pathetic, but whatever). im really bad with asking girls out and whatnot. anyhoo, im really really good friends with this girl, shes a year younger than me, and we both tell each other everything. ive liked her for a little while, maybe a few weeks, but she tells me that she likes a senior in our school. now idk if she actually does like him, or if she's just saying that to cover up that she likes me, but we always hang out, we've never gotten mad at each other, we know everything about neach other, and we never get tired of hanging out (we've actually pissed her friends off once or twice cuz we hang out so much). anyway, what do i do? thanks
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First of all, please ignore the moron that is someone_2_help_u779.
Secondly, not having a girlfriend yet doesn't make you pathetic. I didn't get a boyfriend until sophomore year (I'm now a junior) & I honestly think it's better that I didn't waste my time with pathetic middle school relationships. My situation was actually pretty similar to yours- I was best friends with this guy a grade above me, we hung out all the time, I could tell him anything & everything. Since I never thought it was possible that he could like me back, I never said anything & we'd often discuss the people that we were interested in- we both liked other people but secretly wanted each other. My situation turned out fabulous once he asked me out.
The point of telling you all that was to give you some hope, but there's also a chance that she only sees you as friends. If you feel that you could continue to be her friend if you confessed your feelings & she didn't feel the same way, then I say go for it & tell her how you feel. Things will be a bit awkward if she doesn't feel the same way, but you can still be friends as long as you don't feel so embarassed that you push her away.
This could go either way. You could find yourself in a fabulous relationship or be rejected, but it's better to act & risk getting hurt than wonder "what if?" forever. If you do decide to talk to her, I'd love to hear how it went just because I'm nosy, so if you'd like to talk about it my AIM is Kaaailey & my email is ookaileyoo@yahoo.com
Good luck!
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since i'm a girl, i'll try to tell you what to do from a girls point of view. since you hang out with this girl all of the time the first thing you should do is make sure she doesn't just think of you as a friend. does she ever talk about her ex's or talk about other guys while with you? if she does then she probably thinks of you as just a friend. and do you like this girl? if you do then you should start dropping some suttle hints..nothing big to overwhelm her. like hold the door open for her. that is a very suttle thing that you could do that girls think is very sweet. and if you do like her then try not to piss off her friends. most girls wont go out with a guy if your mean to her friends. most girls put there friends first.
hope i've helped!
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I know it seems like a nervewrecking thing to do, but it's best that you tell her. If she is really interested in you, then you can start a great relationship. If she happens to not be interested, it sounds like your friendship is so good that things shouldn't get messed up. I'm sure if you're like most people, having just the friendship is second best and still worth it.
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i think that you need to get the courage and ask some girls out. Yeah that is right you are pretty pathetic
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Ok get someone to be a go between and ask her if she would like to go out with you. That way if she just wants to be friends you will know for sure.
Or you could write it down and give it to her. And see what she thinks.
Good luck
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