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so you know how on myspace you can now have "View Pics" & "View Videos"? well what are the kind of videos you put up there .. like, do you take videos w/ your didge cam? or w/ video camera? & how do you upload the videos to your computer? thanksss =] ill rate 5's for anything close to an answerr.

well i have one and i put music videos and then some people put videos that yoiu make from your video cameras.

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Hi, I wear eyeliner & eyeshadow, and yeah..
except I notice that towards the middle of the day its already starting to come off,
or moving further down from my eyes..
I' was just wondering if anyone knew how to make it stay on longer? I put foundation under it or whatever, so it would stick to it but it doesnt work ..
i rate high for helpful answers.

put it on heavier or put it on when it starts going away

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i'm a 10th grader who's never had a gf before (pretty pathetic, but whatever). im really bad with asking girls out and whatnot. anyhoo, im really really good friends with this girl, shes a year younger than me, and we both tell each other everything. ive liked her for a little while, maybe a few weeks, but she tells me that she likes a senior in our school. now idk if she actually does like him, or if she's just saying that to cover up that she likes me, but we always hang out, we've never gotten mad at each other, we know everything about neach other, and we never get tired of hanging out (we've actually pissed her friends off once or twice cuz we hang out so much). anyway, what do i do? thanks

i think that you need to get the courage and ask some girls out. Yeah that is right you are pretty pathetic

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I'm 16/f and my bf is 17/m. Sometimes he acts soooo immature and after a while it gets annoying.


The other day I was at his house and he was acting like a little kid making random noises, talking about burping, jumping around like his house was a trampoline, and making stupid comments about everything.


So I said, "Stop acting like a five year old and grow up. I swear you act like my little brother"


I guess that kind of upset him because he didn't really talk to me after that. And today, he had an away message up that said "'acting like a 5-year-old' with Mike hit the cell"


I don't know if I should apologize or what because I know I might have hurt his feelings but I feel like he needs to know that he can't act like that all the time. What should I do?

just tell him that your sorry and that just because you said it, it is only an opinion, and if he doesn't like it then he isnt a good bf

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Well today i got my hair cut. I asked her to blow dry it also. But when she blow dryed it, it came out so shiny and healthy lookin and even relatively straaight, but if i do it at home it comes out like fryed looking. Also, before she blow dryed it she put this cream stuff on it.

Does anyone know why it came out so nice looking, and any techniques i could use while blow drying my hair to make it come out the same way.

And if anyone knew what the product or what a product is called, how much it is, and where to find it to make your hair come out healthy looking after blow drying it?

Sry this has so many questions.
I'll rate 5's for anyone who trys.

You ask your hairstylist what product she/he used, and ask how much you can buy it for

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Can you take songs from your iTunes and put them into garage band so that you can mix songs and such? How do you do it? Sometimes I can only get 1 song on (I click and drag it) but when I try to put more on, it doesn't work. So how can you put multiple songs on?

umm. i don't really know about this stuff
so i think you need to ask a more experienced advice person that knows about ipods and garage bands

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i was in love with my bf. i loved him deeply and truely. then we broke up and it was over 5 months ago. im not a stocker or anything. but i still love him. i have had thoughts about being with him. i dream about him. but he hates me and wont even talk to me. i sometimes wonder if it would be easier to harm myself than to talk to him about it. i now think im fat and i weight 96 lbs. i think im ugly and i used to do modeling and got voted best looking out of my class. things i used to like about myself i now hate. i want to loose weight and cut myself and i fight with my mom and dad all of the time now. but it only makes it worse. then i wrecked my car and was seriously injured. then everytime i start to do good, i fuck up and get on the same track. can someone please help me

umm just because you broke up does not mean you have to cut yourself!!! that is not good for you at all!!!! u need to go and talk to a guidence counselor. because harming yourself will only make it worse and not better. so go and talk to a guidence councelor!!!

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Well, I'm thirteen and I'm starting to use tampons (or at least trying to start). When I try to insert the tampon, it stings a little because it is dry and solid. I know what to do and how to do it but I was wondering if I will get some sort of infection if I use vasaline to make it go in easier. I mean, if I put a little by my area and a little on the tampon. I won't glob it on, but just enough to make it smoother. Before I experiment with this, I want to know if it is a mistake or if it can harm me. I WILL RATE! PROMISE!

Don't use Vaseline, use petroleum jelly, the vaseline will cause an infection. Do you know that it can cause toxic shock sydrome? so use pertroleum jelly and NOT the vaseline. take this advice before u do this

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Okay so I like this boy he is a return missionary and he has been gone for 2 years and i saw him for the first time ever in 2 years I AM HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HIM!! but I dont know if he likes me he asks me alot about my life and what my future plans are but he is also four years older than me im 18 and he is 22 so does he think im too young for him ive known him for a long time and now we are both changed and i dont know how to act or what to expect but i want to get something going ya know!! HELP ASAP

umm.. well if you really like this guy, tell him how you feel, then ask if t would work between the two of you because of the age wise. well so that is what i would do, find some courage and talk to him in person, but sometimes that can be hard but you have to find that courage, be brave and tell him. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!

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Me and my friend (lets call her ellie) are both 13, we both wanted to get the same job but her mum already knew people who worked there so she got ellie a job and now they dont want any more workers. The thing is, ellie will now get about £25 a week from her job plus 8 quid pocket money and the fact that her parents buy her things all the time. I only get a fiver a week, and although you probably think i'm just jealous, what i get annoyed about is the fact that i'll say i really want something (mostly clothes and accessories) and that i'm gonna save up for it, but after ive said that, she goes and buys it for herself straight away cos shes got the money to do it. Then, once ive saved up, if i buy the top or whatever it always looks like ive copied HER so i dont usually get the things i want or i do and then get accused of copying, please help, how can i get more money, and stop her buying things straight after ive said i like them?

dear mates, money, copying,
the only thing you can do is get a job all by yourself. Don't tell HER what you want because then she will only want to get you jealous. SO just don't tell ellie, and just go get a job without her, and be happy, instead of annoyed!!

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I wore all of my favorite shirts last summer at camp and it was really hot there so everyone sweat a lot. Is there any way to get rid of pit stains? I don't want to have to toss my favorite shirts, but it's really gross!

dear umm, a little embarassing..pit stains,
having pit stains is very embarassing i know from experience. But to break the news you can't get the pit stains out of your shirts. the only thing you can do is get new shirts. it sounds bad but you can find newer shirts that look better

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Ok... sorry its so long but i really need help.

so I had this really close friend for about 2 years now. But recently I got really mad at her and told her I didn't want to be her friend anymore.

She kept saying I was lying about certain people who were my friends and lying about stuff I did and turing my best friend against me. Then I lied once to her... So i wouldn't hurt her feelings... and she automatically thought that everything I had made her realize weren't lies... really were.

I have never lied to her except that one time... and now my other friend treats me weird cause this mutal friend keeps tellin her stuff about me.

She pisses me off SOOOO bad... I would tell her something that was really important to me and shes laugh and quickly go onto herself for a long period of time or just roll her eyes. And she was always really moody and jelous.

And now I've been hearing shes talking about me behind my back all the time and in the classes I have with her she's always staring at me. My friend sent me a convo she had with my ex-friend where that girl was talking about me.

So I IMed this girl on AIM... and she told me she doesn't talk about me and shes got better things to do than that. And I had proof she was talking about me.

So now I'm worried I'm going to lose my friends because of her... and she's a lying bitch herself... NOT me

SOMEONE HELP!!!

dear Friendship Got Fired,
that same thing happens to all teens. if she wants to talk about you behind her back then let her. but one thing you have to do is talk to your other firneds and tell them the truth. If they don't believe you, then they aren't very good friends. So IF they don't believe find some new friends. I do it all the time without any regrets!

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