I know everything and everyone comes to me for advice and gets mad when they don't follow my advice, realizing I was right. Not to be cocky, but it's true. If I don't know an answer, i'll tell you that I don't know & If I do, don't expect me to sugar coat the truth. You shouldn't fear the truth. "The truth never lies"
Location: New York
Occupation: Audio Engineer
Age: 19
Member Since: November 15, 2006
Answers: 113
Last Update: August 26, 2008
Visitors: 7141
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theres this boy, and him and i like eachother, but were not going out yet, becuase well he thinks young relationships are dumb, but he wants to do all the things boyfriends and girlfriends do.
should i?
or shouldn`t i, becuase were not dating.
and its basically taking advantage. idk. (link)
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If he likes you
And you like him.
Then go for it.
Either way you're going out, without the actual label of "boyfriend/girlfriend"
Unless of course, hes just like, sex sex sex all the time and it's obviouse that that's all he wants.
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How bad is it to cheat? I mean we always hear about it being the lowest of low, but I have friends who've had sex with other people and their boyfriends forgave them. Is it really all that big of a deal? My boyfriend is in Europe with some attractive girls that are always crushing on him, I've pretty much accepted the fact that he might cheat because I know how flirty he can get without realizing it. How bad would it be if I cheated, just kissing or so? I would like to know, so I'll be prepared to react in the right manner if anything happens by either of us.
Thanks. (link)
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Look, if it doesn't bother you, then react as you please. I mean, there is no "right" way for you to react.
Personaly, I think that the only thing wrong with cheating is if they person lied and went behind your back. Sex is sex. That's all. It's a natural thing we do. People try to add this whole love/romance crap because they watch too many movies.
(i'm not saying it's ok to be a whore and sleep around either... so dont get me wrong..)
You just have to talk it out with him. Be honest with eachother. If there is limits you want to set, than do that. But I don't think you need to live in some fantasy world, like most people do.
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and i just got a new puppy and i named her cuddles but cuddles crys all the time and she follows me everywhere and it's begining to got on my nerves and also i was wanted to know how to house train
a puppy? (link)
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IF you just got her, she crys because she's in a new home which she need time to get comfortable in.
When I first got my dog, he did the same thing. It takes some time.
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I'm kind of interested in seeing them but from what I can tell he's toned down a lot,both in the music and shows.Are they boring now or is it still something worth seeing? (link)
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Since when was Marilyn Manson ever worth seeing?
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
hahaha, nah. It's probably because he's old. All he does is just to shock and offend people, so if he's toned down then it's because his old age, & none of it was ever really him to begin with. All for $$$
So i'd say boring and no, not worth seeing.
Just my opinion.
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Ok, I just realized that someone from our house of Prayer left ALL of their audio equipment at my house temporarily. WEe're talking 20 channel mixer, Huge Bass Amp, Nice Bass Guitar, Shure Mics, and whatever else crap I can use to record.
What I wanna do is run the instruments into the mixer and then run them into my computer (which will be in there also) and then use a program to combine it all together (since I'm not in a band, I'd have to do all the instruments myself). the drums are going to be micced to the mixer, and guitars run straight into the mixer (bass and and lectric, and I'll have to do the electric twice so I can get simple leads in there) and then the vocals can be done to the song once the instruments are mixed into a complete track.
Is there software I can download or Buy to do this? PLEASE PLEASE someone tell me something! (link)
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Yeah. There's a lot of programs out there.
I recomend Pro Tools LE & the M box.
It's simple to use.
www.digidesign.com
If you have any questions on how to use it, or mixing. Feel free to ask.
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
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I lost mine at 15. We were in a relationship for about a year before we actually did it. I don't regret it at all. We were together for about 4 years in total. He's an amazing guy. We're not together anymore, but he has remained one of my best friends and I love him with all my heart, till this day.
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16/f
What triggers a person to say `Oh, she`s SO fake.`
Is it how a person looks; is it how they act or what they say? I don`t understand how someone can be fake. Does dying your hair make you fake? Do certain hair colours make you more or less fake? I think this whole `fake` fad is ridiculous and embarassing.
I dye my hair blonde on top and black underneath. Does that mean people have the right to say `you're sooo fake, ew` to me or behind my back? I`m sorry but I just don`t see what they`re implying. Besides, appearance has very little to do with personality.
Thanks. (link)
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Someone whose fake, is someone who is pretending to be something they're not. Period.
Appearance can have a lot to do with it, because it's possible for someone to dress up a certain way in order to fit in somewhere..
Chances are if you're part of some lame highschool clique, you are fake.
If you look, or act, or talk just like all your friends, you're all fake.
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I'm 16/F.
I don't like who I am
I don't like how outspoken I am about everything
I want to be the quiet kid no one knows about
I fight with my parents a lot because I disagree on many of their thoughts and actions
It gets me in trouble and I hate it because my uncle is always yelling at me
I don't fit in anywhere really
I don't have a special talent, or anything I can do.
I want to change.
I want to be quiet, and shy. I don't want to talk to anyone a lot, I don't want to give people my opinions. I don't want to trust anyone anymore, it's screwed me over big time. I don't want to laugh at pointless things and I don't want to be the loud obnoxious girl I am. I want to lose weight, I want to look pretty (I don't wear a lot of make up, just eyeliner.) I'm going to get some crazy hair cut or something that symbolizes who I am. I admit it, I listen to emo music and some death metal/hardcore whatever you want to call it. I don't want to be with my family, or have anything to do with my family. I just want to be the quiet kid that does everything for them and doesn't get noticed for it.
If anyone has any ideas on how I can change, mentally/physically or emotionaly I would appriciate it a great deal. Making like losing weight tips or new hair styles (emoish I guess) (link)
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So you want to change who you are in order to fit in with emo kids?
It's not that hard.
Just keep your mouth closed and cry about how bad your life is, when in reality it's really not.
You have to be really dramatic too.
Never appreciate anything anyone does for you.
Wear a lot of dark clothing and makeup and make sure your hair covers your eyes.
Juat basically pretend to be something you're not, then the emo/metal kids are gonna love you.
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My whole life I've been told and thought I'm stupid. Because I'm not school-book smart. I don't get good grades in the "smart subjects" like science, math and so on. I am so sick of believing this. I'm a different type of smart. I know I can make something of myself.
I am especially good at 3 things; public speaking & reaching out to people, languages (I know 4 different languages and intend on learning several more) and I sympathize, more than anything. People always turn to me because of that, I long to help. More than anything.
I've researched at least a hundred different professions in my attempt to find a major that will equip me with the right tools to help save the innocent from the corrupt and ultimatley change the world. I need a profession that will make me come alive. I have a picture of myself speaking infront of thousands of people, touching their hearts, or working at a homless shelter, somehow helping those who have been used, or anything of that kind. But in BIG levels, it wouldn't mean anything to me as a doctor or anything like that. It's not the kind of thing that would make me come alive, it wouldn't matter to me. I don't want to help one person at a time, I want to help thousands.. at once. I want to do something that would end homelessness and stimulate world peace!
I am compassionate and am able to provide stability in people's lives when they are shaken up. I am 16 years old, female, and more than anything.. I want to do something with my life.
No one believes in me, because I am not suited for the typical "good jobs" I will never have the grades to become a Lawyer, Doctor, Journalist or any of the sort.
Help me, what can I become? And how do I get there?
Thank you so much! And please, don't read this and think "what a dreamer, everyone thinks they'll save the world.. this one doesn't even have good enough grades.. she doesn't even know how to spell" Please, I have enough people thinking that way, if you can't help me, fine. But I'm begging you, don't think like that. (link)
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First off, I want to say that you are a completely AMAZING person. I myself have such a huge love for humanity that no one seems to understand. And I really like how passionate you are in this.
You should be proud of yourself because this is something that is extremely hard to find in people and it really is an awesome quality to have.
If more people had this kind of mentality, we would be living in a world waaay better than this one.
And don't worry about books smarts. Anyone can read and memorize things and get good grades. But that's not what's going to help you survive in the real world.
I don't know what career to offer you really, The advice I give you is just to not be afraid to get out there in the real world. Meet new people, Go to new places... You're going to meet a whole lot of people that may make you rething this dream you have, but never let them get to you.
As you get older you'll find your place in this world. Just keep your mind open and don't let people put you down ever.
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15/f
i just picked up a guitar yesterday. i've been wanted to play for a couple years now. i already play violin for 6 years, and i'm at a solo level 6 so i'm not clueless about music. but my dad got me a book of chords, and I really have no idea what I'm doing. I want to be able to teach myself, but from where that's going I'm completely clueless. the the books it gives numbers, like which finger to use, but I have no idea where to put it! i just went onto a website for tabs, and it makes absolutely no sense to me. HELP! any simple tips would be extremely appreciated (link)
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The numbers tell you which Fret to put your fingers on, Not which finger to use.
You know what a fret is right?
e|--2--(middle finger)----------
B|--3---(ring finger)-----------
G|--2----(index finger)---------
D|------------------------------
A|------------------------------
E|------------------------------(This is the top string. The Fattest string)
Try that. That's the D chord.
You get what I mean?
And just take it from there.
Sorry, it's hard to explain.
Try this site http://guitarsecrets.com/guitar_secrets.htm
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i came to the fact god is not real. the only person who truly loved me is my dad, and he died. my moms totally obsessed with herself. my friends talk about me all the time and boys are total liars and use me. im 13, and im about to give up and kill myself. my teachers think im stupid. nothing goes right. its not fair. i often cry and beg for someone to just hold me when im alone. i really need that. i just dont know what to do and i dont want to go to a theripist (link)
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I understand how you feel completely. I even agree with the whole god thing. But I don't believe you need god in your life to be happy.
I know how hard it is to loose someone you love. That's one of the wost things anyone can deal with and i'm sorry you had to go through this too espeicially at such a young age.
I don't know if anything I ever say would be able to help. But I believe in love. And I love you, even if you think it's impossible because I don't know you. I do. If you need a friend, feel free to message me.
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ok iam a gurl and i was just wondering how to put my hair in a mohawk without it looking all flat and crunchy?
thanks (link)
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Don't listen to her. Gel doesn't work. And don't put A lot of hair spray or else it will weigh your hair down.
First off you gotta shave the sides... Hopefully you already did that. No shaved sides, No mohawk.
Buy a bottle of RAVE x4 Hairspray. It's probably the best out there (I think)... With two hair brushes, hold your hair up, Spray, then blow dry until it's dry. Do it by sections and keep going. Then fix it up nice and pretty once you have each section up.
It may take a while the first time, but once you get a hang of it, you'll be doing it in like 10 minutes... I guess depending on how long your mohawk is. Mine is 7 inces, How long is yours?
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My boyfriend n my best friend thinks im anorexic just because i dont eat breakfast nor dinner...i eat lunch...watever is the food in d cafeteria...but sumtimes i jus dont finish everything...like last nite, i only ate half of a piece of a chicken tender n 3 cheesesticks...n after that i was already full....i dont eat that much, sometimes i throw up d food dat i ate....i use to weight 152 which was overweight, so i lessen d amount of food i ate n now im 124...i lost 28 pounds in less than a month...my mom thinks its dangerous, that i have to eat or else im gonna b sick n die...
do u think im turnin anorexic?
my goal is 110, my mom thinks dats too thin so i told her 120, but im gonna go to 110... (link)
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HELL YEAH you're anorexic!
Start eating some damn food. This isn't healthy for you. What are you trying to be, a super model?
3 meals a day. Do it. Eat healthy food and you'll be fine. Do not be anorexic, it's a bit pathetic and gross. No one wants to see your bones.
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I'm 16. I gave head to a 20 year old marine who will be going to Iraq in about 8 days.
We didn't have sex.
I just have him head twice.
My mom sadly has, both his cell and house number. And now his house address (thanks to my sister probably.)
I think she wants to file chargers....
What do I do?
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What you have to do is tell the truth.
If you weren't forced to do it, then the poor guy doesn't deserve to get into any trouble.
You're old enough to make these decisions already.
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me and my best friend started a friends with benefits relationship about a month before he broke up with his girlfriend, which i felt bad about but we have this very strong sexual attraction that has lasted for years and we can't break the habbit. ok so thats bad enough that he cheated but are people who are involved in friends with benefits relationships considered whores? just because we can screw with 'just a friend'. it's not like i'd screw anyone, i trust my best friend very much. would you think i was a whore? (link)
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Nope, not at all.
We all need sex & since he's your best friend, I'm sure you love and trust him anyway, even if not enough for a relationship.
You're a whore when you sleep around with random people.
So no, I wouldn't consider you a whore.
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14/f
i hate being alive.
i hate everything i've ever done in this earth.
i don't enjoy anything, nothing holds my attention, nothing interests me. i'm always tired and pissed and upset.
i don't have any friends, and i don't have a bf.
i hate how life is only about obsession with your own body and judging people.
i wish i could die.
but i don't know how. (link)
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I feel the same as you. People don't understand. They say yeah, "everyone feels like that sometimes"
But I feel like this ALL the time.
ALL the god damn time.
So I understand you
Wanna be my friend?
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Ok so I have a music folder on my computer called "My Music" and I spent around 9 hours fixing so that the name of the artist/ badn would be before the "-" sign and the name of the song would come after the sign. But now that I'm trying to add them all to iTunes the whole thing (both the artist and the song name) come under artist! And makes songs hard to find on my iPod since I have over 3000 songs! How do I get it so that everything before the "-" comes under ARTIST and everything after the "-" comes under SONG on iTunes?
Keep in mind I have lots of songs and cannot write it in myself on iTunes, that would take far too long. (link)
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The only way to do it is to right click the song on itunes and click "get info", Then click the "info" tab and you can change everything...
I hope that made sense.
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hey!
is becoming Å paid userworth it?
thanx so much! (link)
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I don't know. I'm not a paid user.
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what does goober means? it has a a lot of definition and im confused it says warm-hearted but on the other hand it says stupid or retarded what does it really mean? (link)
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isn't that the name of baby food or something?
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At my school cliques are everywhere. That is o.k that is not the problem the problem is that I'm alone in alittle clique of my own everyone calls me a freak how do I get out of it and became noticed. (link)
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Cliques are going to be around until the day you die. And way beyond highschool. Even if people don't admit to it, Even in the "real-world" as they call it...
Although I don't see much of a difference in this highschool and job world. It's the same Bull crap.
Buuuuuut it's up to you to get noticed, you either conform to societies bull crap, OR you learn to be just who you are.
No one is a "freak", believe me.
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