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I'm 16/F.
I don't like who I am
I don't like how outspoken I am about everything
I want to be the quiet kid no one knows about
I fight with my parents a lot because I disagree on many of their thoughts and actions
It gets me in trouble and I hate it because my uncle is always yelling at me
I don't fit in anywhere really
I don't have a special talent, or anything I can do.
I want to change.
I want to be quiet, and shy. I don't want to talk to anyone a lot, I don't want to give people my opinions. I don't want to trust anyone anymore, it's screwed me over big time. I don't want to laugh at pointless things and I don't want to be the loud obnoxious girl I am. I want to lose weight, I want to look pretty (I don't wear a lot of make up, just eyeliner.) I'm going to get some crazy hair cut or something that symbolizes who I am. I admit it, I listen to emo music and some death metal/hardcore whatever you want to call it. I don't want to be with my family, or have anything to do with my family. I just want to be the quiet kid that does everything for them and doesn't get noticed for it.
If anyone has any ideas on how I can change, mentally/physically or emotionaly I would appriciate it a great deal. Making like losing weight tips or new hair styles (emoish I guess)
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This sounds a lot like what I went through a couple years ago, but it wasn't because I wanted to change, but because I was somewhat cast out & developed a social disorder.
If you just want to get along & not be noticed, start being more reserved & think before you speak. I constantly analyze my thoughts before I say them because I fear that people will think wrong of what I'm saying. So, for example, when you & your parents are fighting, don't say anything. Go to your room or something & just let it out silently [write something, scream into a pillow, etc.] & try not to get into it.
But in the end, you are who you are, & you shouldn't have to change to fit into any stereotype. But if you want to act a certain way because you're unhappy with yourself, just do it. You just have to apply a little self control.
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Don't listen to the person below me. Even though, I see what there saying. Now, why do you want to be all one thing so badly? Why do you want to label yourself, as an 'emo' Why not just be you? When giving your opinions on things, just do it nicely. Just say like, "well I think ..... but thats just my opinon" Be whoever YOU want to be. If you truly wanna be so quiet and just kept to yourself, then that is tottaly fine. and psh who says your obnoxious? if you dont believe your obnoxious, then your not. your you, and if anyone has a problem with it, then they are just being an idiot. don't listen to anyone but yourself. all that matters, is what you think. dont let a haircut or anything, 'symbolize you' as just one thing. you are not an emo kid. that is not your name. you are who you are. your family loves you, no matter what they say, in there hearts, they love you. don't change who you are. just be you.
As for the losing weight thing, there is nothing wrong with losing a few pounds, to be more healthy. [but if you are already skinny, please dont starve yourself.. check your BMI to find out.] you just type in BMI calculater, and it will come up (: If you wanna lose weight, just cut out the junk food, drink water, take walks daily.
be the best you can be.
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Honestly, I wouldn't change. Trust me it sucks. I'm quiet and no one pays attention to me. I'd kill to have the guts to speak my mind and be myself. You just have to embrace your personality. As far as the getting in trouble, you have to learn what battles to fight. Don't fight over little things. If cutting your hair would make you feel better about yourself, go for it. I change my hair all the time to suit how I feel. Just embrace who you are.
If this isn't what you wanted to hear, I'm sorry.
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So you want to change who you are in order to fit in with emo kids?
It's not that hard.
Just keep your mouth closed and cry about how bad your life is, when in reality it's really not.
You have to be really dramatic too.
Never appreciate anything anyone does for you.
Wear a lot of dark clothing and makeup and make sure your hair covers your eyes.
Juat basically pretend to be something you're not, then the emo/metal kids are gonna love you.
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