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hate life
14/f
i hate being alive.
i hate everything i've ever done in this earth.
i don't enjoy anything, nothing holds my attention, nothing interests me. i'm always tired and pissed and upset.
i don't have any friends, and i don't have a bf.
i hate how life is only about obsession with your own body and judging people.
i wish i could die.
but i don't know how.
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Okay you really need to listen. I know that it might sound like the worse pain in the world right now, but you are only 14! life will move on, and you will make friends. people will come into your life and change it. you will fall in love, and you will change others lives as well. If you are always tiered and upset, you really have to change your way of thinking. Read good books that help you see life in a different way. listen to motavating music, and dont focus on just you! because if you are looking into suicide, its pretty selfish. Although you might not see it, maybe people probably care about you, and i KNOW ATLEAST a good few people really love you, and would love to help you. Do charity work, and listen to other poeples problems. Dont keep swiming around in your own emotions. This way youre life will have meaning. if it gets work, i suggest you get help, and see a therapist. You could probably have depression disorder and tahts why you cant help feeling this way. I really wish you luck and future happiness :) if you EVER need to talk feel free too! i really want to help and ill be your friend!!
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seriously if you can't take life then get a counseler
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I know how you feel but the question you have to ask yourself is "do I want to get better or stay this way?" If you want to get better and believe you can and try you will and someday you will be a happy successful person but you have to believe in yourself. Love yourself. Someday you will be gald you didn't die.
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i'll be your friend! listen..at times life is hard but you shouldnt wish you could die because life is a gift and youre here for a reason..there are people that love and care for you and even though you may feel alone you arent..theres a whole world out there full of people who wanna help you and see you shine and go far in life which you can DEFINETELY do..try getting a physiatrist or someone who can help you i promise itll make you feel better. keep looking..you may find something that you really enjoy and youre passionate about..everbody has talents and everybody has something to offer and you have a purpose in life..just try to stay strong and get out there and meet people and let people help you because nobody deserves to feel the way you do..try finding some music you really love or keeping a diary or painting or something you can use to express yourself..and focus on the positive things in life..and the beautiful things were given such as sunsets and sunrises theres so much ahead of you someone otu there is your soulmate and i promise youll make friends its easy if you be friendly and meet people..just trust me it WILL get better..youre loved and cared about and deserve to go far..youre in control of your life and you have the power to turn everything around and find happiness it comes from within just try to build confidence in yourself and know that youre capable of anyting and youre beautiful inside and out..if you wanna talk to me my screenames swtsusie22. keep your head up its gonna be okay!!
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for five straight years ever since i was 13 and a bit past my eighteenth birthday i felt the exact same way about life as you do right now.... and though our situations and reasons differ the despair i think is identical .... i even considered suicide........ and even sadly attempted it at one point.
on a random day (lol this is not one of those advices that say the wisdom was sent to me from the heavens on a heavenly day blah blah) a casual remark struck me into reality ... not necessarily the present but a bit towards the future. "people are 2 kinds: the ones that hate their high school experience and the ones that hate their college experience".....
i dont knw the extent of truth in this saying and it didnt matter....i didnt hate highschool but i didnt like it either... in any case i didnt really think that way i just set college as a goal i should reach... my turning point.... something i should work for to be happy....
i worked my but off in high school and though at times it was hard dedicating my life and my solprpse to get to a good college it was worth it (not because of college itself but because of the purpose) so what i suggest is that you find a cause and a really challenging cause you can work for... it will get you through and prove to you you are stronger than you think! suicide in our case is an option equal to giving up.
i am sure you knw or have an idea of what it is... all you need are babysteps....
goodluck!
here for you :)))))
p.s: college turned out to be a blast to the point where i sometimes think i should take lesser courses so i'd graduate later :p (i am not serious o'cours!) the change in atmosphere and the fact i chose my path in lif and what i want to do and who i want to be makes you grow into yourself as opposed to how you go through highschool.... things aren't about bodies and judging ppl after all :)
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don't think this way. everyone has there bad times in life. i'm the type of person who always looks on the bright side, but sometimes i feel that way too. i know i probably don't understand, but don't give up. life will get better, it has to.
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you sound really depressed. you can be my friend!!!
im also 14f. i dont know how this is advice but maybe you should talk to a trusted authority,, teacher.. mom? DAd? counselor? anybody, and let them know how you feel. but if you want freidns.
here:
if you ahve myspace?
mines www.myspace.com/britany_megan
or you can leave me messages on this.
sorry. but i dont know really how to help you.
just try to cheer up and look on the brighter side of things!!!
BrittanyMegan:]
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I feel the same as you. People don't understand. They say yeah, "everyone feels like that sometimes"
But I feel like this ALL the time.
ALL the god damn time.
So I understand you
Wanna be my friend?
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im sorry that you feel that way. But killing yourself is never the answer. Trust me sometimes I feel the same way you do, but someone really important to me taught me that whoever you are, or whatever you look like, has a purpose in this world, you just have to find it. There are many people in this world who I am sure would love to be your friend. I would like to be your friend. If you want me as a friend you can email me at softballchickx28@aim.com. Or if you have AIM you can IM me on my sisters screen name. That is
OmG itss erin xx. Or just inbox me. Hope I talk to you soon.
Love,
Nicole
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