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Ok sorry if this is long,
i used to cut my wrists in 5th and 6th grade(im 13/f) but i stopped. Now im just really tired and hungry all the time. the only thing i do is play online video games and sleep and watch TV. My mom thinks im this happy kid and all, but i'm not. I've just been sad a lot i get headaches and chest pain and i wonder if i am depressed. My cousin is always being mean to me and calls me bad names. I feel like if i tell my mom i'll be failing her or something. Do you think im depressed or am i worried for nothing? and if i am, how would i tell my mom? or who else would i tell? (link)
this might not sound like it would help, but it really truly would, i think you should just be completely honest and tell your mom everything thats been going on. then she will always be there to help you, and you wont have to deal with everything yourself.


Ok Ive put this under mental health, cos thats what Im supposing it is..

Well where do I start... Since I can remember, Ive noticed Ive been doing some really strange things, mostly which are coming out now..if Im walking along the street, I tend to roleplay something over and over in my head, and sometimes Ill end up speaking it out loud.

If see a car, ill imagine a whole crash, and sometimes if I pass a car park, Ill pick whichever car I would have if I could have any.

Theres lots of strange things like that, sometimes Ill breath ot the beat of a tune, or Ill just imagine some really strange stuff. Its hard to explain.

I told a friend for the first time last night, he suggested it being that Im intelligent and my mind is under worked, so now its over active?

But Im more worried about it being serious. I suffer from panic attacks aswell, just incase that helps.

If you could just give me an idea of what you think, dont diagnose me with everything under the sun, with panic attacks, Ill diagnose myself with whatever you tell me Ive got, I dont want that :)

Thanks! (link)
i know exactly what you mean. i do this stuff too. i always ask people what it could be, but the only conclusion me and other people come to, is maybe a small case of OCD. I'm not positive but it could be. Sorry i didnt help much, maybe just another clue to your puzzle.


Ok well recently I've been feeling sad that all ym friends are like not caring about me anymore and I know this happenes to everyone but I feel so bad!

Recently, I found a person on the internet who i can atleast complain my problems to but now it's like the same thing and he just seem to be really mad at me..

What should I do? I can't feel happy anymore (link)
We all feel like this sometimes. Just keep trying to talk to them, they most likley aren't mad at you, it might just seem like that. You always have your family too. Talk with them too.


14/f

i hate being alive.

i hate everything i've ever done in this earth.

i don't enjoy anything, nothing holds my attention, nothing interests me. i'm always tired and pissed and upset.

i don't have any friends, and i don't have a bf.

i hate how life is only about obsession with your own body and judging people.


i wish i could die.


but i don't know how. (link)
don't think this way. everyone has there bad times in life. i'm the type of person who always looks on the bright side, but sometimes i feel that way too. i know i probably don't understand, but don't give up. life will get better, it has to.


i want to know how to lose fat but not gain muscle because i dont want to get that fat and muscular look (link)
Well as you loose fat, you will most likley gain muscle. so you wont have the fat and muscular look, you'll just have nice tone. :]


My cosuin is almost 12 years old and she's very small for her age. She's only 4'8 and she's very very skinny. (The small height runs in the family) Last weekend, I saw her at a cookout and she told me that she'd hadn't eaten in almost a week! I'm worried about her because she won't tell her mother and father and she's already really small and I'm worried that she might have a problem if she doesn't eat! Should I tell her parents or let them find out?


Shannon (link)
Well she would ovbiously be pretty mad if you told her parents, so if you think its bad enough that something serious could happen to her, then yes tell. or at least tell her that its dangerous.




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