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so what if i dont eat
okay im 14 and im about 5' 2'' and 97 lbs. these guys at school keep calling me anorexic and i want to take it as a compliment but its getting annoying because they always shove food at my table at lunch. i usually dont eat at lunch because im not hungry. (we have lunch early and i eat breakfast) what can i do to make them stop?
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well, this is a sticky situation and it kind of reminds me of myself. last year i had lunch at around 10 30 but i was never hungry! so i would wait until school was over and just eat lunch at home. i was a bit thin too, except i was 16 5' 4'' and about 105 pounds. all of the girls at my lunch table thought i was anoerexic or had some sort of eating disorder...and i wasnt even bony skinnny or anything. i just worked out a lottt and ate healthy. but there was nothing i really could do but constantly tell them i was not anoerexic...i even gained a few pounds not meaning to..just because the comments were getting annoying so i would end up eating when i wasnt hungry and i felt like i constantly needed to be eating around the people who thought i had a problem. not even that worked because they assumed i was bulimic. after all this being said, my best advice is to just ignore the comments and just eat the way that you want and the way that makes you feel comfortable. if anything, theyre probably jealous that they dont look as skinny as you or something. try telling them what really goes on, and they should understand because your lunch must be pretty early...and its your choice when you want to eat. if you are really worried about all of this and you dont want to just ignore it...then maybe you can fool them by bringing in food and just kind of picking at it or just shoving the food around...idk if that the best advice because if they find that out they will have hard evidence that you "have an eating disorder" so i would definatly go with confronting them about this.
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okay well being called anorexic isnt a compliment.
and just tell them what you told me. i usually dont eat at lunch because im not hungry. [[we have lunch early and i eat breakfast]] then maybe they will understand because you explained to me.
if they continue and you want to be nice tell them to leave you alone. if you want to be rude tell them to fuck off because you shouldnt have to take that crap off them. and if they still continue. just tell an adult,that will shut themup.
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Well first off, you should never take being anorexic as a compliment. It's a disease millions of people suffer & die from. Second off, you do not need to explain your eating habits to other people. I know you may not be hungry, but just by having a snack of fruit or veggies (something light & less filling) might be better than nothing. By skipping meals, it's unhealthy for your body & in result, your metabolism can slow down. No matter when or what you decide to eat, that doesn't make it okay for these guys to act like this towards you. You need to talk to a teacher or an administrator. Things like this should never be ignored or taken lightly at school. You are there to get an education, not to be teased for your eating habits.
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well, technically, you are underweight. someone your height should be 110lbs, at least.
if people are shoving food at your table and calling you anerexic, they probably think you look unhealthy. so as the others say, don't take being anerexic as a compliment.
Eat a smaller breakfast, bigger lunch, and then eat a good sized amount for dinner.
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Being called anorexic is NOT a compliment. Anorexia is a mental disorder, not something you seek to be. "You're so small/slim" can be considered a compliment, but not "You're anorexic".
You should not be skipping lunch. It's very unhealthy. You should be eating 5-6 small meals each day. Like the other person says, have cereal for breakfast and yogurt and fruit at lunch.
So the answer to your question is this: If you want them to stop shoving food in your face and calling you anorexic because you don't eat lunch....EAT LUNCH!
According to your BMI, you are underweight. Gaining a few pounds of lean muscle would do you some good.
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one. don't try to take it as a compliment. its not
why don't you try eating a smaller breakfast that way you have room to eat something for lunch. even if its small, you're still eating and it will probalby get them to shut up.
try eating a small bowl of cereal for breakfast, and for lunch pack a yogurt & fruit & a snack.
good luck :]
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all day during school be like ugh, im so hungreeeey. for breakfast i ate.. and name ALOT of things, and be like im still hungreeeyy! and then at lunch just say "ew this food is discusting" no body can eat this.
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First of all, I wouldn't take it as a compliment. It's fine to be skinny, but if you're so skinny that it looks forced, then you're too skiny. You can't really make them stop unless you have a serious discussion with it about them, which from the circumstances, you probably don't want to do, and they probably wouldnt listen even if you did do it. Why don't you have a lighter breakfast so you can eat during lunch? Or just have a granola bar or something. Good luck :)
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