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"Fake" Girls


Question Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 8:25 pm

16/f

What triggers a person to say `Oh, she`s SO fake.`
Is it how a person looks; is it how they act or what they say? I don`t understand how someone can be fake. Does dying your hair make you fake? Do certain hair colours make you more or less fake? I think this whole `fake` fad is ridiculous and embarassing.

I dye my hair blonde on top and black underneath. Does that mean people have the right to say `you're sooo fake, ew` to me or behind my back? I`m sorry but I just don`t see what they`re implying. Besides, appearance has very little to do with personality.

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caramella answered Monday June 11 2007, 1:31 pm:
what makes a person fake is when thaat person acts slutty and not be herself just to get attention,when she changes her voice all slutty,when she changes her appearance and personality for attention then shes fake.Dying your hair doesnt make a person fake.its the personality mostly that makes you fake,but as for looks,yes they can make a person fake.When you die your hair,have on super thick makeup,dress really slutyy and act snobby then your fake.

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disasterxwoah answered Monday June 11 2007, 8:38 am:
To me, how someone looks has nothing to do with if they are "fake" or not. (in my opioion) Being "fake" has to do with the personality. How someone acts. If someone asks as something they are not, then they are fake. An example : If you act one way around people may it be your whole personality or just some of your belifs, then to me you are fake. If you can't act yourself and be proud of who you are, then you are not a true person. Talking behind someones back but acting all nice and friendly to their face, (to me) is not only "fake" but to faced. Clothes has nothing to do with how someone acts, a person is a person because of their personality, not where they buy their clothes. AND hair dye doesnt make someone fake (it makes their hair color fake haha but not them). I dye my hair but im not fake. I know who I am, and that is how I act, no matter the people I'm around. I can't pick out a person who is fake from accross the room. I have to talk to someone and get to know their personality to know if they are "fake" or not. Hope that makes sense, and helped a little.

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PinkRocker75 answered Monday June 11 2007, 1:40 am:
I completely agree that appearance has nothing to do with personality. To me, when someone's 'fake' it's how they act...almost two faced. Like, you know the person couldnt possibly be as ditzy as she acts so you might think that they're being fake for attention or w/e. I think when someone calls someone else fake they don't mean as in plastic fake, they mean like not real..not themselves..fake.

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holahayley56 answered Monday June 11 2007, 12:26 am:
Depends. Some people consider the word fake to mean, someone with fake hair color, and fake tan, to be fake.

But, what I think a true fake person is, is someone who will be all omg i love you! and then the second that person walks away, they go, ew shes so weird.

that to me, is being tottaly fake. or two faced. whichever.

It depends though, I mean, I agree with you, basically, its like.. don't judge a book by its cover. but you will always find people who do..

so just dont worry about it, all that matters is what you think.,

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Neuronautas answered Monday June 11 2007, 12:15 am:
Someone whose fake, is someone who is pretending to be something they're not. Period.

Appearance can have a lot to do with it, because it's possible for someone to dress up a certain way in order to fit in somewhere..

Chances are if you're part of some lame highschool clique, you are fake.
If you look, or act, or talk just like all your friends, you're all fake.

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jessica94248 answered Monday June 11 2007, 12:14 am:
What they are trying to say is that they TRY to fit in. They act like something they're not.
If I, being a pretty scene girl, all of the sudden put a baseball cap on backwards, wore baggy pants, and airwalks, people that have known me would probably say that I am fake.
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Hope I Helped!!

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