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Member Since: June 7, 2007
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Last Update: June 11, 2007
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What triggers a person to say `Oh, she`s SO fake.`
Is it how a person looks; is it how they act or what they say? I don`t understand how someone can be fake. Does dying your hair make you fake? Do certain hair colours make you more or less fake? I think this whole `fake` fad is ridiculous and embarassing.

I dye my hair blonde on top and black underneath. Does that mean people have the right to say `you're sooo fake, ew` to me or behind my back? I`m sorry but I just don`t see what they`re implying. Besides, appearance has very little to do with personality.

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I completely agree that appearance has nothing to do with personality. To me, when someone's 'fake' it's how they act...almost two faced. Like, you know the person couldnt possibly be as ditzy as she acts so you might think that they're being fake for attention or w/e. I think when someone calls someone else fake they don't mean as in plastic fake, they mean like not real..not themselves..fake.



i think my girlfriends dad sexually abuses her. her parents are divorced and she has five older brothers but they all live on their own since there alot older than she is. i went over there for dinner one time because she said she was scared but she wouldnt tell me why and the whole meal her dad kept making perverted comments about her chest size. shes like a 36d which is nice. her dad was like wow molly your tits look huge i just wanna grab them. and she kept telling him to stop and saying not now dad please. and he kept asking me when i was gonna fuck her next. and he thinks she would be good in bed. she kept getting really embrassed. then all of a sudden he did grabb her and then she started crying and her dad told me to leave but she looked so scared i couldnt leave her. i took her to my house. and i kept asking her did he always do this to you and she wouldnt answer me. i dont know what to do. do you think he rapes her and sexually abuse her. thank you in advance. (link)
If her dad does that much in front of you he could be doing a lot more when you're not there. You should probably try to get her out of his house..If she can't stay with you try to get in contact with any of her older brothers and see if she can stay with them for a while. Hope she's okay. Keep her safe.


there is this party tonight and i want to tell my crush i like him. i m pretty sure he likes me back.
is this stupid? should i wait? WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
Def tell him...If you wait it's only going to get harder! If you don't tell him he might think you don't like him and move on and you DON"T want that to happen, right? So go for it!


I am a 24 year old student finishing my masters. I have been dating this guy for a year now, who is almost the perfect guy except he doesn't pay for anything, I mean nothing. I pay for $700.00 rent, power, cable, lots of dinners. Furthermore, he is an engineer and making o.k money; I feel that he is the perfect guy I just want to know why he wont help out. I dont want to lose him though. How can I make him see, that he is using me? (link)
Stop paying! Tell him you feel used and that he's making enough to help pay for SOMETHING! Don't be afraid to stand up to him, if you are...he's not really the right guy.




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