i just like to give people advice. After i give them advice i wait for later updates on how my advice helped them or didn't. i am pretty good at giving advice about any thing and everything. So if you need any help or advice feel free to ask and i will get back to you with my deepest feelings and thoughts about your problems. i look foward to your questions. Sometimes i may get lost and confused and give the most retarded answers but i try.
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Okay heres the story, me and my 18 year old sister both have boyfriends out of state. However my sister has her boyfriend come up all the time and I just get so jealous becuase I can't see my boyfriend for another 3 months. I know its not that big of a deal but since I JUST stopped cutting less then a month ago the littlest things make me want to do it. I sit here as I'm writing this entry listening to my sister and her boyfriend fighting about how the hicci was to big and im so upset becuase I just want my guy here right this moment. I had my mom hide the scissors from me so that I wouldn't do anything becuase I honestly want to stop cutting and I have almsot made a month with out doing it I also promised my boyfriend that I wouldn't but its just getting so hard without seeing him I just need to be with him but I cant untill July becuase of school ... the only thing that keeps me from not breaking down at night since I cant lay in his arms is that he sings me to sleep on the phone every night ... I just need to prove to him and to myself that I can hold back, that I dont need to cut ... Hes all I have and if I cut I fear that I'll lose him even though we are in love ... does anyone have any suggestions to how to keep my mind off this awful habbit when I start to get deppressed about not being able to be with him ... oh and another thing that does not help my trying not to cut is I'm on medication for depression but my dad just kicked me out of the house so I dont have my medication which causes my depression to get really bad since my body is not used to not having my meds (link)
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wow...thats so sad...and no offense but your life would make a great movie or book so you should consider writing down everything this may take up some time in your life...this may take up some time and it may make you keep thinking about cutting yourself but it might also be something that will interest you and make you want to keep on writing and the only times you would want to stop is to talk to your boyfriend and tell him everything and you may want to try some other things but i think that this would be fun and interesting enough for you!!!!
Hopew i helped♥MeMe
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Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate! (link)
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they are pobably just stretch marks
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ok, well, this so called "friend-of-mine" is being rly well not herslef lately and we use to be bffaeae's until i realized that i dont need a friend like her and she was talking about me behind my back with another bff of mine but it looks like my so called friend doesnt wanna lose our friendship but i dont think i need her as a friend if shes gunna do that what should i do??!! PLEASE HELP
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tell her that its her fault in the first place so talk to her and then u should get the answer ur looking 4...♥Mia
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Ok well every time I try to download fonts I'm able to download them but I can't use them. It doesn't show up in my microsoft word when I want to type something, like when you scroll down the font names it's not there. Any way to fix this? I'm saving them under windows/fonts but it still isn't doing anything. How can I fix this?
Thanks (link)
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save it under miscrosoft word
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13/f
hey..i went out with this guy from a different town from me 4 about 2 months and then i broke up with him cuz i didnt really no him and i never evven seen him be4 but he asked me out and his cuzin, im friends with his cuzin kept tellin me to go out with him, so i did. and that was like a year ago..and then like 4 months after he was my bf i ACTULLY MET him. hes H-O-T-T and i still talk 2 him online and phone and sutff and we r like really good friends - he calls me is sista and i call him my brotha..lol weird i no..but my question is..i still really relaly like him and when ever i talk 2 him i get like all sad and crap like that becuz i havnt had a boyfriend in like 13 months. -he always asks me who i like and i dont wanna tell him becuz he thinks im ugly ..and i talk 2 alot of his friends online..and tells them all im WICKED UGLY and if i told him i liked him ..idk itd just be weird !!! =( and i want a boyfriend ..i just want some1 to love me and cares bout me =(
ILL RATE HIGH if i get good advice !!!
- ConFuSeD aNd dEpReSsEd (link)
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then ask him y he says that
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This guy seemed to like me for a while and so i made a move by subtlely flirting with him. thing is-i ended up falling head over heals for him. everytime i'd see him...my friends would make a really big deal-almost everyone knew i liked him...but after that he started to stop smiling the way he did...and now we don't talk or wave or smile...what happened? (link)
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ask him not us.
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Well, there is this guy that I really like. I mean, the feelings I have for him are undescribable. He is amazing, and wonderful, and everything I could ever want. The only thing is, I'm 14. I can't be "in love" right? So what could these feelings be? When I am with him or just talking to him on the phone or computer, I am as happy as I could be. The feelings have stayed the same for about a year, only I have liked him more and more. Everytime I see him it's like I can't breathe for that second. Even when he signs on AIM, I am so happy. I even get the chills just THINKING about him. And I never stop thinking about him, I mean it's like someone just mentions a guy and I'm like omg, I love him. and people tell me it's love, but it can't be. I am too young and I don't know what love feels like. What are these feelings I have? Is it really "love"? Or just a crush? Whatever it is..can I get over it?=/ (link)
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its love. i m going through the samee thing nd im only 13. i love this boy, wen i see him i blush, wen i talk to him my stomache curls, wen i im him i day dream about him and wen he signs on aim i melt in my seat. i want to tell him how im feeling but i dont no if itz right. but in my case he likes me also. songs also make me think bout him. i never told him how i feel about him cuz he is turning 16 but we can kind of relate.
you can absolutly no its love wen u r going through the same things that we are. Well you can contact me on my aim s/n.
itz AriahBrit
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I feel like the worst person in the world. On March 17 me and my boyfriend of 3 years got into a huuuge fight because he cheated on me. Our relationship was sooo good and we always got told that we were the role model for couples, well anyways..we got into a huge fight and we said things that we didnt mean and I told him that I wish he wasnt in my life and he would just die because I hated him so much, those were my exact words. Later that night at 11:26 I got a phone call from his sister (we were really close, she was like a little sister to me) she was crying really hard and she told me that she had found him in his room laying on the floor, dead. I didnt even know what to do with myself. He had taken a gun to his head. She read me a note that he left and it said "I'm so sorry, I love you so much" thats all it said, and he had the date that we started going out until forever carved into his arm. That night when my parents found out they tried to comfort me and all that but I just didnt want to be around anyone. I went to my room and I cut myself so bad and my mom walked in and stopped me and just held me and I cried for hours, with my wrists bleeding, and I fell asleep crying in my moms arms. I'm getting help now. I went to his funeral and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life, I fell to the floor when I went up to his casket at the wake and his mom had to pick me up and just hold me while we cried. I go to his house all the time and talk to his family and just tell them how sorry I am and we talk about all of our memories. I havent slept since the night it happened, and I havent been to school, the doctors say I probably wont go to school for about another month, I might be homeschooled. I can't even look at myself anymore. I can't beleive those hateful words were the last words I ever got to tell the love of my life. I'm sorry it is really long but does anyone have any advice on how to help me get through this? (link)
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i dont no wat to say but that is so sad.
words can really hurt. i feel bad that this had to happen to you or anyone that tgis has ever happened to.
i have no advice but i can say that you seem to be handling the situation better than iwould have and i aploud you for that. there will be more things for you to look foward to in your future and hopefully not suicide or depression. Well if you have any questions feel free to ask or im me. All my information is on my column.
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my hair is naturally a very dark brunette and i had it highlighted goldish-blondish. its starting to grow out now and i need some ideas for when i get it done next time. if you could give me websites (besides google) and maybe if you know alot about hair some ideas of your own. i kinda like reese witherspoons brunette color and maybe that with like an ash colored highlights? im open to any ideas though.
thanks* (link)
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well my mom has been a professional beautician for over 15 years nd she likes to experament on me nd my aunts and sister
a good color would probably be red violet
it looks awsome in my aunts hair along with blonde highlights
well my aunt has dark brunette hair 2
nd it looks really good wen runches it!
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I have this kissing problem. I have this thing where when a guy tries to kiss me, no matter how much I want to kiss him, I always turn away. I used to not be like this. I had this one boyfriend that I made out with all the time. And one boyfriend I only kissed once. And that was a couple years ago. Ever since then I always turn away when a guy tries to kiss me, and I don't understand why. I want to kiss my boyfriend I currently have, but everytime he tries I do the same old thing. I turn away. Does anyone have any ideas on why I keep doing this even though I want to kiss the guy? I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months and we still haven't kissed and we are a pretty serious couple. Not one of those I see you at school things. Thanks. Good advice, good rating. (link)
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u must still like ur other boy friend
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ok i lost o brother to Sicrydosis (if thats how u spell it) umm. well i was only like 2 when he died. and one day i saw a book on my moms conter. it was her diary. it was all about my brother. it makes me sad and happy when i read it.
why? (link)
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thats normal.
wen sumone loses a person close to them or that they really care about but didnt get to no them that well they feel like they could have done more about hte situation
i went through the same thing with my grandfather
well its normal
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well..just by doing sports and running alot..would that help? and if thats not good...what would be the best way? (link)
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it could b the best way
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Alright..heres my problem..I'm about 15 pounds over weight and i have bigger boobs then some of my friends do. And i dont really like them..cuz im like still kinda young. But the thing is..my fat doesnt show at all what so ever. So my question is = If i loose weight..will my boobs shrink? (link)
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probably not
it depends on how u plan on losing ur weight
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Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.
I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.
I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it? (link)
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a lttle hair is normal but if ur bushy then it may disgust him
get an electric buzzer ar sumthing like that nd shave over it lightly
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ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?
P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :) (link)
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if loves the case then she shouldnt care
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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches (link)
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wow love kissing..
well here r a few spots mii man liked it
ears
neck
stomache
back
nd most guys r sensitive on the nipples
hope i helped
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i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ? (link)
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talk to him
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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap (link)
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go for it, if ure ready nothing should stop u.
if ure so scared bout gettin pregnant use two condems at once
nd tell him that you r ready nd itz all up to him
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ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean? (link)
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wow, dejavoo. i m going through almost the same thing.
mii cuzin dumped this kid ryan who still liked her nd i tried so hard 2 get them back 2 gether nd he still has feelings 4 her so i was on the phone wit him tellin him that he should ask her out again cuz its worth a shot nd he say theres no chance, besides i like u,
i try so hard 2 convince him 2 not like me
i guess we are good like that
j/p
i dont no wat 2 do myself so i really dont got n e solutions 4 u
sorry
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well last saturday i went to my cousins daughters birthday party and i was downstairs with my grandmothers neighbors grandson and we were hanging out, and we were watching TV and i had my head resting on his shoulder and my legs were on his lap and he had his arm around me.. and then my brother came down and was like.. ahh u like her!! to him and he pushed me off and stood up and he was like, no i dont, we were just watching TV. and then he went upstairs and i have NO IDEA what he's thinking now, because he sent mixed signals. and now i like this other kid and he's REALLY funny and pretty cute, and i pretty much cant get my mind off him.. but i dont know what do do... i have mised feelings. (link)
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well go back to the neighbor kid nd talk wit him
then u can shove ur brother in a closet or sumthing if the neighbor kid says he likes u
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