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Confused!
Well, there is this guy that I really like. I mean, the feelings I have for him are undescribable. He is amazing, and wonderful, and everything I could ever want. The only thing is, I'm 14. I can't be "in love" right? So what could these feelings be? When I am with him or just talking to him on the phone or computer, I am as happy as I could be. The feelings have stayed the same for about a year, only I have liked him more and more. Everytime I see him it's like I can't breathe for that second. Even when he signs on AIM, I am so happy. I even get the chills just THINKING about him. And I never stop thinking about him, I mean it's like someone just mentions a guy and I'm like omg, I love him. and people tell me it's love, but it can't be. I am too young and I don't know what love feels like. What are these feelings I have? Is it really "love"? Or just a crush? Whatever it is..can I get over it?=/
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its love. i m going through the samee thing nd im only 13. i love this boy, wen i see him i blush, wen i talk to him my stomache curls, wen i im him i day dream about him and wen he signs on aim i melt in my seat. i want to tell him how im feeling but i dont no if itz right. but in my case he likes me also. songs also make me think bout him. i never told him how i feel about him cuz he is turning 16 but we can kind of relate.
you can absolutly no its love wen u r going through the same things that we are. Well you can contact me on my aim s/n.
itz AriahBrit
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I doubt that its love. One-because you aren't together, boyfriend/girlfriend. Two-You don't talk. I think you have the common case of 'head over heels' which is never good when the guy doesn't like you back. But, you sound like a girl who will let a guy control you, you put youself down for saying what you said when you argued, you would have never regreted what you said to a sibling because you aren't in love with them. But, this guy isn't even somebody you've known for a long time, and you keep talking about how much you'd give him, and you'd give him anything. You need to cut down on the love you've given to this guy. And yes, it is very possible to get it back. But, people havn't been doing a good job at rating me, and no, I don't do this for the ratings, but only 97 people rated me, and I answered over 300 questions, so I am starting to feel ignored, so, if you are willing to listen to how to get that love you've given him back, tell me in my inbox, and I'll be glad to answer you.
-TheTeenGirl
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I hate to call it puppy love, but that's what the lame term is for it.
a better way to describe it is just to start talking about it. you feel like the love they describe in the movies and that seems genuine enough. love in real life is very different. you know it's love when you'd give your life for them. you care about them more than yourself. everything about them - their flaws, faults, and all - you love, because that is what makes them who they are.
another thing to think about is how much you really know about him. the reason it takes so long to really fall in love is because you need to know everything about that person, and that's a lot. you see couples that finish eachother's sentences and know exactly what the other is feeling even if they try to cover it up - they usually have been together for a long time.
if you are still confused, ask someone that has been married for a long time. if they seem a bit outdated then ask someone who has been married for at least 5 years.
you can ask me if some of this doesnt make sense, just leave a message in my box.
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Ahhh, those feelings. I know what you mean. Right now you may think that there will never be another guy as good as him, but trust me, better will come along. In my opinion, this is most likely a crush. Then again, who knows, love can happen at an early age. Most likely things will get easier and you'll eventually move on and not be so engulfed by his presence of the thought of him. Trust me, these things pass. It just takes time. It'll get better. Friendly advice from Caleb.
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love knows no age. stop trying to convince yourself that you can`t be in love. i`m 14 too and i`m in love. listen to your heart and follow it. no matter how wrong you think it is.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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