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guys are confusing


Question Posted Tuesday March 22 2005, 12:56 am

This guy seemed to like me for a while and so i made a move by subtlely flirting with him. thing is-i ended up falling head over heals for him. everytime i'd see him...my friends would make a really big deal-almost everyone knew i liked him...but after that he started to stop smiling the way he did...and now we don't talk or wave or smile...what happened?

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MsAnswers answered Thursday March 24 2005, 12:13 am:
ask him not us.

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pixieglitter123 answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 8:52 pm:
hes is an ass. He got scared because he was probably falling for you too. Or mabey he really just wanted to be friends and ur wanting to be more was just freaking him out. idk.
i hope i helped a little!
lyl ~*staci*~

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_eMiLy answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 12:43 pm:
Wow, that's kind of weird.
I'm not sure what happend but he could've gotten sick of people making a big deal out of when he saw you and stuff (if he even knew) or he could've got sick of waiting to see if you actually liked him.
I think you should try talking to him and ask him if there's anything wrong and/or if you did anything wrong.
♥Em

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Teza answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:03 am:
Not to be rude or anything but when he found out that you liked him maybe he got a lil scared. He might of not felt the same way about you or had those feeling for you like the feelings you have for him. Thats my guess .. You could try talking to him and let him know how you feel. Everyone else probablly found out that you liked him before you did. Just stay good friends and maybe you guys could take it to the next level .. x0 ` __

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Altazuma answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 4:43 am:
I'm only guessing here but the problem may be that all the friends knew before he did. Where he was friendly before, suddenly he is hearing from all sorts of sources that you have fallen for him. If all I had done was a little flirting and I heard that, I would be thinking "hell, she doesn't even know me" and perhaps conclude you were a pyscho. I'm not trying to insult you, just warning you. Flirting is fine and if people notice a few things well that is OK to. But as a general rule, try and let the guy you are interested in be the one that knows before everyone else.

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 3:42 am:
you fell thats what happened

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 1:17 am:
Well, maybe after he found out that you liked him, he didn't feel the same and didn't want you to get the wrong idea, that could have been it, but nobody can be sure, you could talk to him maybe.


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karenR answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 1:09 am:
If they tormented him about it that may have scared him a little. All is not lost however.
I think you need to ask him what happened to that beautiful smile of his,or something like that and see what he says.DON"T do it when your friends or his are around if at all possible.

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