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Omg..what do I do when I want to get my nose pierced and my parents aren't open up to it? Like..it's my dad I'm mostly worried about. He doesn't get it. He's just like "No..it looks ugly I dont want you to do that." But does he NOT understand that at any time I want I can take it out? It may leave a tiny mark but nothing major because my sister has had it done before and she hasn't like worn it in a year or more..and theres no mark unless you look really closely (which isnt bad at all)...
I mean Im gonna be 15 in March and I dont want it for my birthday..but like say if I wanted it for this coming christmas -- how can I maybe get them to consider it?? It's really hard though I'm warning you...
I was talking to my dad today and was like "So..what? you're not even gonna TRY to consider it as something I can do?" and he's like "as far as Im concerned its a no." and so Im like "THEN WHEN WILL YOU CONSIDER IT and really think about it??" and hes like "not now..I dont know."
But hes not gonna let me get it -- bottom line. I am not a spoiled person..and I am not a bad kid at all. I dont smoke anything, I dont do drugs or drink...the most I do is have an attitude or anger problems around the house and Im trying to work on that but I cant when they piss me off and my sister acts like another MOTHER to me (which I dont need right now)...
Should I make a list of what it WON'T do? Like what I mean is -- should I write down on a piece of paper stuff like "1. it wont be permanant...2. I can take it out anytime."...etc.
...and like.. just say all the bright sides about it? Because I really would make a list..I want it that bad and I dont want to wait until I move out because I dont want to get it when I'm older. I want peopel I knwo rto get used to me having it NOW before I get older..ya know?
I'm not doing it to fit in with anybody either..or just to be different than anyone else. I'm simply considering doing it because I want to be different then what I am now. I mean it's not like I'm getting a tattoo where it will be permanant..and it's not like people will point and LAUGH at me..I mean Im not gonna be the only one in the world with it done and if I ghave my ears pieced from liek when I was 7 then I dont understand why I cant have my nose pierced..even when Im 16
I told my dad "well 16 year olds can buy cars and pay bills for those cars but YOU wont let me get a nose piercing?" That kind of made him think..but he still said no.
But anyways..sorry for the longness of this question but if anyoen has been in teh same situation then please help. I really want this. I'd be so happy. =)
Thank You.
-me
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Ok Sweetie...I'm 14 and I have been begging my mom to let me get my nose pireced since I was 12 and she finally gave in all I can say is really bug and ask him if you can get a clip on to show him what it will look like and stuff and then maybe just maybe he might change his mind you know
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ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks (link)
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Hey! Well I go and make-out in a movie theather all the time. Just tell him that you have never kissed anyone and when you think the time is right just kiss him..Honey all you can do is what you feel ready for and what you feel is right. Trust me first kisses are very scary! I remember I was 12 at my ex-boyfriends house
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This is how it all started:
Me and my friends were talking about just random things due to boredom and I mentioned I was going over my guy friends house tomorrow. Now, I used to like him and so did my friend Kristine. But she doesn't like him anymore and every good chance she gets, she insults him and calls him ugly or stupid or whatever.
So, then she says "Oh yeah right. He is lying to you" and I was like "No, not really. Me and him are like best friends" and she said "Thats what he tells you. I asked him, 'Do you like her?(referring to me)' and he said 'No, just as like a friend. Not even best friends'" and I was like "Well, you don't know what you're talking about. How often do you even talk to him?" "A lot" she says (which a month or so earlier, Jason contradicted saying that he dislikes her and rarely says a word to her). But then my friend Natalie(who I know Jason talks to sometimes) said that Kristine actually does talk to him a lot. Basically, they both said
1)He doesn't like me as bf/gf
2)He doesn't even really think of me as his best friend(which he has called me before and says that I am one of his best friends)
So then later, I called Jason and talked to him about this. He got upset, asking me why I would believe Kristine over him(I talk to Jason a HELLLLL of a lot more than Kristine. Me and Jason are on the phone almost everyday) And saying that he rarely talks to her. He didn't even know who I was talking about at first when I said her name and he just told me she was lying and I said, "Now, maybe I misinterpreted, but didn't you say you considered me as your best friend?" and he said "Yes" and I told him what she'd said and he just seemed flabbergasted and kind of upset. But he told me that it was lies and he does talk to Natalie but not Kristine. He also said that he does tell people, when asked, that he doesn't like me in a bf/gf way and that we're friends. So then after the little "tiff" had calmed a bit, he said he had to go and I asked him, "Do you still want me to come over tomorrow?" and he said "I'm not positive. I'll call you" and I said ok and we hung up...Now, please, someone. God, I need advice on what to do and say to each of these people because I'm about to cry. I can't stand people lying to me, especially my friends and especially Jason because I actually care about him more than I care about Natalie and Kristine. Thank you so much, I'll rate (link)
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Wow Sweetie. That's a hard one you know? Who are you to believe? Who is lying? Who isn't? Are they both lying? Who knows. Just who is the one you have always be able to trust no matter what. That's the one you should believe ok Sweetie. Trust me on this. I know it's hard. Well hey I'm so tired so sorry if this does not make any sense at all!!
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Okay - here's the deal. I have a lot of friends, but this problem includes two imparticular ones: Josh and Dana (guy and girl). They are probably the closest of my friends. I can tell them both ALMOST anything. I'd say I'm probably closer to Josh - and that's it. I have a crush on him. Here's the hard part: I think Dana likes him too. I told her awhile ago that I had feelings for him and ever since then she's been sort of hanging around with him too. i.e: I'll be standing next to him and she'll come over and just go right between us; she'll sit down next to him when I was right there next to him. It's getting me upset. I can understand if she likes him too, and I don't mind. I mean you can't control who you like and don't like. But I just wish she would tell me instead of flirting with him right in front of my face - and she knows that I like him. And the bad part is that I think he likes her too. They talk in front of me and leave me out sometimes. A few days ago I heard Dana talking to him and she said something about the mall and this weekend. It's really hurting me. I like Josh so much - he's my BEST friend and I love Dana because she's my friend too. I can't help but feel jealous, though. Help!! If you need more information, LET ME KNOW PLEASE AND I WILL POST ANOTHER QUESTION FORM!
-confused and hurt :( (link)
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I know how that feels. I mean my two BEST friends are a guy and a girl *Jake and Sabina*! They have no feelings for each other what so ever...Well we are out own "little family" So I'm the Mommy Jake is the Daddy and Sabina is the daughter...but I mean sometimes he will talk to her about all sorts of things and sometimes I feel like each other and sometimes its like they are flirting and when they do I just like freak and run over to Jake and start getting all over him and everything...but I think they best thing for you to do is confront them both about it...thats all you can do sweetie
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I'm a really shy, boring, ugly girl. Don't say I'm not ugly, believe me, I look awful - frizzy hair, horrid skin, big teeth - you'd be sick if you saw me. I don't have a life. I don't ever go out or have fun anymore because the friends I have are so immature and I don't really like going out with them because they always end up bullying me or asking random guys out for me, it's so embarrassing, and the boys say something like, "No way, she's a minger". I can't make more friends because I hate talking so much and I feel sick just thinking about it. I have 2 best ever friends in the world but I moved house and I can only speak to them on the phone, I want to move back because I hate it here - but my mum won't budge. I really want a boyfriend and I'm lonely but I'm so ugly and boring that no guy would ever be interested. Why is it I'm so ugly, what have I done to deserve this? I hate being me. I don't know what to do because I can't change the way I look and I've always been shy. I'm 14 and never had a bf, and I know I'm not the only one who hasn't but I feel ready. No boy would ever like me :/ I don't really see the point in life because I never have fun, every week is the same, and my grades are slowly going down at school because I can't sleep at night any more. I just want to feel loved.. sorry if that sounds pathetic but that's what I feel like. They say there's someone for everyone out there, but I guess some people were made to be single. I don't want to be single, and with Valentine's Day coming up I feel even more depressed. Also if you can help, I really need to 'let myself go', like I want to have fun but I get worried I'll look stupid so I don't do it, how can I stop being scared of everything Sorry I have so many stupid problems but please help :'( (link)
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Sweetie,
I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself. It's so sad that you do, but don't feel bad. I feel the same way about myself but the only thing different is I have tons of guys hit on me and I have had tons of boyfriends but they only were dating me for the following reasons:
1. They so I'm SO "hot"
2. For sex or anything sexually *which none got*
3. Just because I'm such a great girlfriend and I fall for like everything that comes out of their mouth
Anyways...Sweetie you don't need a boyfriend to make you feel better about yourself. I have been single for 1 year and 1 month *tomorrow*. Trust me you don't need them they just cause pain, tears, and leave you heartbroken. Plus if you give them NOTHING they drop you like a hot potato(sp) or just cheat on you. I mean I don't know what to tell you to do because all of these things you think are mainly in your head you know. I have the same problems *all in my head* I mean some aren't but some are you know? I know I prolly just made you feel worse there and if I did I'm so so so so so sorry sweetie. Can you do me a big favor? Email me at miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com and tell me more about yourself and more of your problems I just might be able to help you and make you actually feel good about yourself with or without a boyfriend. By the way I'm 14 too.
~*Perfectly Imperfect*~
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Justin and I dated for like, 2 months and one week. We broke up because he said I couldn't trust him, he cheated. But he admitted it to my face.
Now, we both like each other again, after being broken up for about a month and still talking and stuff. He called me a couple nights ago just to talk, which he's never done before when we weren't together. He wants me to ask him out this time though, because he asked me out last time.
Should I do it? Or wait for him to? I mean I'm pretty sure he likes me, he's said it and he even purposely got kicked out of class so he could come see me (I got kicked out of class too, lol.) (link)
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All I have to say is "AWWWWWWWW". You guys sound like me and my ex of 7 months. He cheated and I dump him there on the spot that was a little over a year ago though. I mean we still talk and are in love more than ever. My advice to you sweetie is if he said ask him out..ASK HIM OUT! Don't lose him. I mean I thought I had my ex and no one would take him even though we were not together but on January 19th of this year some girl asked him out and he said yes I mean he had no reason not to you know we were not dating..But anyways yeah don't lose him again Sweetie...Btw you guys sound PERFECT!
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My girlfriend & I dated for 3 years and she was the love of my life. Well, I decided to take a job that I couldn't refuse in Michigan. I wanted her to move up there w/ me, but she said she couldn't leave her home in TX. The long-distance thing was too tough, so we mutually broke up on good terms. She then started dating someone new who she was "miserable" with. After over a year of staying in touch w/ her, I moved back home. A short time later, she ended up breaking up w/ the other guy b/c she wasn't happy. Well, we started slowly seeing each other again and things were great, but she wanted to "take things slow and not jump back into a relationship" since she just got out of a bad one. So, not trying to force her into a relationship, we just hung out and did everything that a normal 'boyfriend/girlfriend couple' would do. Well, after a few months of dating each other (and me thinking that we were gonna get back together), she met and started dating a new guy! I WAS CRUSHED!!! Here was a girl who was my best friend, someone I thought I was going to marry, & the love of my life........and now she wants to date this other guy out of the clear blue?!?!?! I was devistated. She's still together with this guy.
Now, it's months later. We still talk (fairly often) via email and sometimes on the phone (I NEVER call her...she only calls me), but I'm still not over her. I truly loved her w/ all of my heart. Part of me hates her for ripping my heart out and the other part of me still loves her very deeply and wants her back. Someone told me "if it's meant to be, then she'll come back to me one day". I just don't know what to do and I need help..... Any advice? (link)
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Wowers! Sorta sounds like the situation with my ex. I mean with out the moving around and stuff. But he just dates these girls out of the blue and it really drives me insane. Because I truly love him to death and he loves me too supposedly I mean I believe it you can look in his eyes and see..but anyways back to you..All I can tell you sweetie is just hang in there and follow your heart and maybe tell her how you feel maybe if she knows she will be nicer and think more of your feelings about things but god knows the ones we love can say something so innocent and hurt us so much...but yeah just hang in there and like the saying goes "If you love someone let them go and if they don't come back they were never yours but if they do they were yours to being with"
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well i went to my school dance with my friends they guy i like (kinda my best friend) couldn't go i was kinda sad he came up to me and said sorry but i can't go tonight and he huged me but i still went then when a slow song came on i danced with someone else i use to like and to danced to every slow song then he started holdin my hand next think i know i'm so outside making out with him omg ! what should i do ??? hes older than me and i like my other friend to alot errr so now when i go back to school things are gonna be werid (link)
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That is all up to you sweetie..If you chose to let them be wierd they will be if not then they wont you may like both of them all you can do is take time away and really think and then decide thats what i know or when i need to think i take my cd player and a cd *right now either Avril Lavigne Under My Skin or Kelly Clarkson Breakaway* and I go to the swings and I swing and really really really think and I do this for hours and then after than my mind is clear and shyt like that
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Hey, well i live with my mom and my sister. { My mom & dad seperated when i was 5, now im 13 }. My mom has been qettinq me so mad lately, and it qets me so mad because ive been really depressed lately, and she just makes everythinq worse. Well i miqht have a chance to move in with my dad, which he lives like um 15 minutes away { same state, same school district }, but the only problem is, the high school i want to go to is the school i would go to where i live right now, but if i moved in with my dad, i would have to go to a different high school, and he wouldnt let me choice! what do you think i should do? Sorry if this is a little confusinqq! (link)
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All I can say is sit your parents down and talk to him about it but it may be really hard because parents are really hard headed and stubborn as hell
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my boyfriend spends a lot of time with me at my house, but the problem is that i have a lot of siblings (they are close to my age, not much younger) and he always talks to them. he'll just disappear and hangout with them more and it feels like hes ignoring me. i dont really want to talk to him about it cuz i told him i wanted him to get along with my family so i dont want to be a hypocrite.. what should i do and is there any way that i should just deal with it? (link)
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Ok I know what you mean I had an ex that did that to me he got so close he started calling my parents Mom and Dad really creepy!!! Just like when he does it go find him and tell him to go and try and get him to spend more time with you...you know like make an excuse..plus tell him how you feel he may not know and if you tell him he may start spending more time with you because he may just do it because of the fact that you want him to get along with ur family
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Well there is this girl i like and we are really good friends and i want to ask her out but i dont know if her parents let her date im in 8th grade so i dont know if i should ask her out i dont want to make our friend ship all akward please help... (link)
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Go for it sweetie ask her out maybe she feels the same way
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i have problems. LIKE I AM A VERY NICE EASYGOING FUNNY PERSON BUT I DONT HAVE any friends.(sry cap locks was on!!) like there are people that are nice and i eat lunch with them. but i want a friend thAt i can tell stuff to hang out on the weekends stuff like that. i call people but there always "busy" when i call. since i dont have any friends and im lonely and have alot on my mind my grades are dropping.and since my grades are dropping my parents are getting mad at me. and i am always screaming at them and there always screaming at me. i cant talk to them they would like eat my alive. i cant tell my problems to my friens because i dont have any. i cry so much. i cry myself to sleep. i sometimes think about sucide. i have no one to talk to. i need some love! what do i do?
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Sweetie,
OMG! We have like the same problem except I have two best friends *My ex-bf and this girl* I mean even though they are my friends I still don't feel I can talk to them all the time. I know how you feel the same things and more are going on in my life..If you would like a friend you can email me at miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com and I would love to listen to you and be your friend..
~*Perfectly Imperfect*~
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I am having trouble, I'm babysitting for my neighbor. This one baby is very weird! She like poops every 5 mins. I do not want to change her diaper(that white thing that goes on her butt so she doesnt poop or pee in her pants). I am in the middle of watching a movie and she keeps crying. She has a brother too and he does the same thing(they are twins). It is crazy madness I tell you! So please help me and answer me ASAP! Tell me what I should do !!!! thank you! (link)
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All I think you can do is tell her parents about it. Maybe you are not the only to babysit them because you may not be able to handle them. You know what I mean?
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Okay here goes... I have a great boyfriend... But he is really shy... He is younger then me. But the thing is, he is really really shy. We hardly talk. I mean i really like him. But there is times when doesn't seem interested. But i really like him like i said.. I jus don't know how to react. cause i went from a boyfriend, that was majorly clingy, to one that hardly talks.Please help (link)
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Sweetie all you can do is talk to him about it! I know I am that way with some people. Maybe he is very scared
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First thing I have to say.. is I am really goin thru a tough time right now so please don't be mean anwsering this question because I am serious about this... Alright... I had like a breakdown today...and cut my wrists a little bit not alot but some..I really can not stop thinking about suicide and I don't know what to do.. I want help so it doesn't go to far... but I'm afraid if I ask people will just think I am doing it for attention and I'm not but I can't take this anymore... I don't know what to do.. Please help me and fast... I'll rate you.. I just want to be happy again like I was when I was little... Ok thanks and remember please don't be mean!! (link)
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Sweetie,
I know how you feel. I doing the same thing without the cutting. I have a breakdown everyday. Please do me a favor email miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com please and I will help you ok? I promise!
Adriauna
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recently i met a boy 19 on the net and i have now been talking to him for about 7 months im 19 aswell so there aint a cap.we say we love eachother and that but the thing is is that we live 300 miles apart we say i love u and that but he wants me to move up there i dnt know wat to do please help me im confused i mean i love him to bits i do but i dont want to leave my family. im worried if he'll get tired of waiting for me and go off with someone else. please help many thanks spoilt (link)
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Ok...Do what you feel is right and talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. It is very confusing
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OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them? (link)
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The truth sweetie..My ex used that line...Truth is he doesnt want you just forget him
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Ok i slept with make-up on..stupid i know..and now my eyes are sore..how long will it take for the soreness to go away? (link)
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A couple of day just dont wear makeup for a coupld of days
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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!! (link)
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It just might...Take a day or two away from everyone and everything and think i mean really think and listen to your heart not your mind or anyone just your heart and do what your heart tells you...It may or maynot work who knows
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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!! (link)
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Just confront him and if your mean oh well he is lying to you that makes alot of people mad
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