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i need help!
Okay - here's the deal. I have a lot of friends, but this problem includes two imparticular ones: Josh and Dana (guy and girl). They are probably the closest of my friends. I can tell them both ALMOST anything. I'd say I'm probably closer to Josh - and that's it. I have a crush on him. Here's the hard part: I think Dana likes him too. I told her awhile ago that I had feelings for him and ever since then she's been sort of hanging around with him too. i.e: I'll be standing next to him and she'll come over and just go right between us; she'll sit down next to him when I was right there next to him. It's getting me upset. I can understand if she likes him too, and I don't mind. I mean you can't control who you like and don't like. But I just wish she would tell me instead of flirting with him right in front of my face - and she knows that I like him. And the bad part is that I think he likes her too. They talk in front of me and leave me out sometimes. A few days ago I heard Dana talking to him and she said something about the mall and this weekend. It's really hurting me. I like Josh so much - he's my BEST friend and I love Dana because she's my friend too. I can't help but feel jealous, though. Help!! If you need more information, LET ME KNOW PLEASE AND I WILL POST ANOTHER QUESTION FORM!
-confused and hurt :(
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aww it's going to be okay don't be hurt. Dana is doing this because she thinks josh will like you. and yes i do think Dana likes josh if she is doing this. i guess when you told her you liked him she liked him too and she new she had to start doing something about it and show him that she likes him but not actually tell him. this is what you do. talk to dana ask her if she likes josh if she says no tell her it looks like it because she is always flirting with it. she shouldn't get upset. if she does just be like o ok well i'm sorry i asked u i just thought u liked him and it was hurting me because i really like him. you can also ask josh if he likes dana. if you want. hope i helped!
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I know how that feels. I mean my two BEST friends are a guy and a girl *Jake and Sabina*! They have no feelings for each other what so ever...Well we are out own "little family" So I'm the Mommy Jake is the Daddy and Sabina is the daughter...but I mean sometimes he will talk to her about all sorts of things and sometimes I feel like each other and sometimes its like they are flirting and when they do I just like freak and run over to Jake and start getting all over him and everything...but I think they best thing for you to do is confront them both about it...thats all you can do sweetie
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You really need to talk to your friend. Tell her how jealous and hurt she's making you. Ask her if she does have feelings for Josh and not to lie. Since you can't control who you like, it's understandable. Just have a good chat with her and make her let everything out. Tell her you won't be mad if she does you just need the truth. Keep me updated on this!
♥ Krissy
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sit down and chat with your friend and ask her if she has feelings for him because b4 she knew that you had feelings for him she didnt then all of the sudden she does? well i say you talk to her b4 it gets to bad from *holly* hoped i have helped good luck
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