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Dont know who to believe
This is how it all started:
Me and my friends were talking about just random things due to boredom and I mentioned I was going over my guy friends house tomorrow. Now, I used to like him and so did my friend Kristine. But she doesn't like him anymore and every good chance she gets, she insults him and calls him ugly or stupid or whatever.
So, then she says "Oh yeah right. He is lying to you" and I was like "No, not really. Me and him are like best friends" and she said "Thats what he tells you. I asked him, 'Do you like her?(referring to me)' and he said 'No, just as like a friend. Not even best friends'" and I was like "Well, you don't know what you're talking about. How often do you even talk to him?" "A lot" she says (which a month or so earlier, Jason contradicted saying that he dislikes her and rarely says a word to her). But then my friend Natalie(who I know Jason talks to sometimes) said that Kristine actually does talk to him a lot. Basically, they both said
1)He doesn't like me as bf/gf
2)He doesn't even really think of me as his best friend(which he has called me before and says that I am one of his best friends)
So then later, I called Jason and talked to him about this. He got upset, asking me why I would believe Kristine over him(I talk to Jason a HELLLLL of a lot more than Kristine. Me and Jason are on the phone almost everyday) And saying that he rarely talks to her. He didn't even know who I was talking about at first when I said her name and he just told me she was lying and I said, "Now, maybe I misinterpreted, but didn't you say you considered me as your best friend?" and he said "Yes" and I told him what she'd said and he just seemed flabbergasted and kind of upset. But he told me that it was lies and he does talk to Natalie but not Kristine. He also said that he does tell people, when asked, that he doesn't like me in a bf/gf way and that we're friends. So then after the little "tiff" had calmed a bit, he said he had to go and I asked him, "Do you still want me to come over tomorrow?" and he said "I'm not positive. I'll call you" and I said ok and we hung up...Now, please, someone. God, I need advice on what to do and say to each of these people because I'm about to cry. I can't stand people lying to me, especially my friends and especially Jason because I actually care about him more than I care about Natalie and Kristine. Thank you so much, I'll rate
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He is lieing to you. He obviously doesnt know whats he is saying and isnt mature!
♥ Michelle
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If you know that you and Jason are best friends and that he wouldn't lie to you, then Natalie and Kristine are just lying about all of this and you need to just ignore them. If he said to not believe Natalie and Kristine about their comments, then it's true that they are lying. Don't ever believe these two girls because it sounds like Kristine is jealous and wants you to not have a future relationship with Jason. If you trust Jason, then I'm sure he was telling the truth about everything. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Wow Sweetie. That's a hard one you know? Who are you to believe? Who is lying? Who isn't? Are they both lying? Who knows. Just who is the one you have always be able to trust no matter what. That's the one you should believe ok Sweetie. Trust me on this. I know it's hard. Well hey I'm so tired so sorry if this does not make any sense at all!!
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f jason is yur TRUE best friend. nd` yu kno he is it wont matter wut ppl think..nd` those 2 qirls r just l0sers f they qunna sit thurr nd` do that..nd` i think yu shud b able 2 b friends with ANYONE yu want nd` those snob heads kant tell yu anythinq kuz they aint wurth anythinq (srry f yur friends now) lol but im just sayinq
hope it helps
-tay
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He's isn't lying to you. Just give him some room. Hopefully he's mature enough not to let this little disagreement bother him. And she must like him to lie to you like that. Especially since she goes out of her way to disrespect him every time you mention him.
Don't say anything, just don't take advice from girls who have a conflict of interest. There is no reason to let them have your power.
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