I am a 20 year old female, and I am a great listener. My friends always come to me for advice, and you can too. Ask me whatever you want, I will be happy to try to help you with ANY problem or dilemna. I will do my best to give you a great answer. Whatever you ask, I will never judge or make fun of you - I will be honest and respectful with you, telling you my advice with a kind and rational answer. I have traveled all over, had many unique opportunities and experiences, and have great friends from many different places all over the world. All the traveling has taught me a lot about different kinds of people and I have gained a lot of insight and perspective throughout it all. I'd like to think that some of what I have learned will be helpful to other people, and that I can offer advice that takes into account all that I have come across in my 20 years, both from my experiences and the experiences of those around me. I was also an elite athlete, so I have some experience in fitness/training/health questions as well. Thanks for visiting my column! Have a fantastic day!!
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i have a really good friend, since pre-k -3rd. then we both moved in opposite directions. we try to keep in touch but it is really hard. n i feel like we r drifting apart. i really can stand it. its like we dont share anything anymore!!!!!! what should i do. i really dont want to move on!!!
PS: i m a 13/f
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Hi Amanda. I know, it's really tough when it feels like you and a friend are not as close as you used to be. Moving on is a part of life, and it is normal to start hanging around with new people, but I understand your need to still be friends with this other girl. I'm glad you are such a dedicated friend. Make an effort to just to talk to her at least once a week. Do you both have internet access? Start emailing back and forth. It's so much easier to keep in contact with people now that you can use email, instant messenger...it's really is a great way to stay friends. Even though you moved in opposite directions, and since you are only 13, you can't drive yet, try and make an effort to get together every once in awhile. I'm sure she misses hanging out with you as much as you miss sharing things with her, so plan a little trip to the mall, or even better, have a girls' night sleepover. Stay up all night and just catch up and talk. That is sure to bring you guys closer, and gives you a chance to spend some quality time together. Really, though, just make the effort to call her, email her, or even send her a cute little 'just to say hi' cards in the mail. Tell her, (or write to her) that you feel like you are drifting apart, and you value her too much as a friend to let it continue, and just tell her you want to spend some more time together. Chances are, she will want to get your friendship back on track as well. Good luck, I hope this answered your question... inbox me if you ever need something else or someone to talk to!
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i babysit this 11 yr old boy, max and i am 13/f he is taller than me and is quite mature for his age. the thing is latley he's been acting really strange. he asked me if i had my period yet and i tried to change the subject but he was persistant. oh, and the other night we were watching a movie at his house (lion king) and he is younger than me so he like layed down on me and pretended to be asleep. then i fell asleep too. when i woke up he was like all over me and touching my boobs. i dont know what to do. his parents pay well and i need the money badly. should i tell his parents, will they hire me agian? should i talk to him? HELP! (link)
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Talk to him. That situation is not appropriate for either of you, and if you want to handle this responsibly, then you have to have a serious discussion with him. I suggest telling him something like, 'Listen, I am here right now because it is my job, and I am getting paid, so therefore it is my responsibility to watch you. I do not want to discuss personal things (like my period) with you, that's just not professional. I am your babysitter, and I can be your friend, but I feel really uncomfortable the way you are all over me, and if you continue to act this way, I will be forced to talk to your parents about it, and possibly quit babysitting you.' This could work, because no kid wants their babysitter to give them a bad report about them, and threatening him like that might help. Make it clear that you are there for one purpose, and it is to be a responsible babysitter. You also need to try to act more responsible, if you want to get treated with respect. I really don't advise falling asleep on the job. Don't put yourself in uncomfortable situations with this boy, and make it clear to him what his boundaries are and don't let him cross them. If you really are too uncomftable, I would have a chat with his parents, and quit. You can always find another family to babysit for. I personally think that the age difference between you two is not enough, and being of the opposite sex doesn't help matters. Try working it out first, but truly, there are other families out there who need babysitters, it wouldn't be the end of the world to quit. I hope this helped, keep me updated on how it goes. Good luck!
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what is Chat Speak??
ill rate 5's to ne person who helps (link)
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Basically, it is just using abbreviations, like how people tend to abbreviate and type differently when they are chatting on AIM either to save time by not typing as many letters, or to appear more casual instead of using more formal grammar. Here are some examples of 'chat speak...'
-Omg
-Lol
-Lmao
-idk
-any1
-u, ur
-w/e
-jk
Also, spelling things differently such as 'lyke,' 'boi,' 'gurl,' 'hott,' 'kool,' 'yea,' and using 'n' instead of 'and' could be considered chatspeak. I hope this helped, have a great day!!
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ok... im dieing here... im not allowed on AIM and im not allowed to watch tv... ive been on this website like allll day and i can't take it anymore... its raining outside... and i don't no why im not allowed to watch tv or go online.. i was allowed on AIM for 15 minutes and thats it... i didn't do anything wrong... can someone give me ideas on waht to do? i have an annoying 11 year old brother and i don't wanna play with him... i can't even play video gamesss!! (link)
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Here are some things to do...
-Try your hand in the kitchen...maybe make a batch of brownies or cookies. Or even bake a cake! You can look online for a good recipe.
-Do you like art? Sometimes when I am bored I just get out my sketchbook and colored pencils and draw whatever comes to mind. You'd be suprised at how relaxing it is.
-You said you can't watch TV, but are you allowed to put a movie in? That would occupy you for a couple hours at least.
-Read a book.
-Take a nice relaxing bubble bath.
-Turn on some upbeat music and dance around your room. Just go crazy!
-Get some organizing done in your room. Empty each shelf or drawer, then really organize it. Put clothes you don't wear anymore in a pile to donate. And then your closet will be nice and clean!
-Excercise...sit ups, push ups, stretches.... or, if you have one, pop in a yoga, pilates, or kickboxing workout video.
I hope this helped a little, good luck! Don't worry, there is plenty to do besides AIM and television, just be creative!
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Ok I have a boyfriend, and I just wanted to make sure that it was normal to think that he is a better person than you. He is smart, funny, nice, and overall an AMAZING guy. I just feel like he could do so much better than me! I know it's a silly question, but I just wanted to know if others felt the same? I just feel so incredibly lucky that he likes me and is going out with me. Words can't express how I feel.
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Aw, I am glad you got such an awesome guy. You must be amazing too, or he wouldn't be going out with you. Remember, he probably feels the same way you do! Its okay to feel the way you do, just don't idolize him so much that you let him take adavantage of you or anything (although it sounds like he wouldn't do that anyways, if he's such a great guy...) It's fine to look up to him and admire him, because obviously you love him! Don't criticize yourself though, or compare yourself to him, because you are worthy of having a great guy, and not only are you lucky to have him, he is lucky to have you as well. I went out with this really popular guy last year for a long time, and I felt like the luckiest girl, and I absolutely adored him. I was so flattered that he liked me, and I know exactly how you feel. I finally realized that others see the great things in you that you don't see in yourself. While you are focusing on all the things you don't like about yourself, your boyfriend just sees how beautiful and sweet you are. I hoped this helped you, congratulations on finding such a great guy, good luck to the two of you! Have a great day!
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could someone give me the names of some really upbeat songs that make you smile when you hear them. they don't have to be a new song I go for the oldies too. (link)
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'Good Day Sunshine' by the Beatles
'I Like the Way You Move' by Outkast
'Sugar Sugar' by the Archies
'Dueling Banjos' (don't listen to that one too many times in a row or it will be stuck in your head for a week)'
'Mambo #5' by Lou Bega
'The Way You Make Me Feel' by Michael Jackson
'Just Can't Get Enough' by Depeche Mode
'Jump, Jive, and Wail'
-Anything from the Grease sound track.
'Thats What I Like About You'
'Good Vibrations' by the Beach Boys... actually, any song by the Beach Boys is pretty upbeat.
I hope this helped a little, if you need some more, inbox me and I will come up with some more...Good luck!
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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do? (link)
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Well, I think he should stop complaining, it is your body, and he shouldn't dictate what you do with it. But anyways, an alternative to shaving is getting a wax. Most salons and spas will do it, call a few and ask for prices. Yes, it will hurt, but it is a pretty quick process, and it lasts a long time. The only part about the wax that will hurt is just getting it done, I don't believe that it hurts/itches/annoys afterwards. I don't know if thats an appealing option to you at all, but it is something to consider I guess. Otherwise, tell your boyfriend that it is not his place to tell you how, when, or where to shave. Guys do have personal preferences about that, but it doesn't mean the girl has to oblige. I hope this helped, good luck.
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I need some suggestions for a good, reliable car that gets good gas milage and is safe. Don't give me answers with sports cars; insurance bites. (link)
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Saturns. I used to drive one, it got great gas mileage, was very afforadable, and nice to drive. I don't rememeber insurance being too bad on it, either. I really reccommend them, check it out... I hope this helped, good luck with your search for a car!
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I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex. (link)
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I really admire you decision to wait to have sex. It takes alot to stick to your beliefs, values, and morals, and I really am proud of you for your courage to stay strong. I know it's not easy, and there is alot of temptation out there, pressure to be sexually active, and having natural human curiosity doesn't help either. Everyone feels this way, its absolutely normal, and this is what helps me to fight the temptation to give into the pressure. You have to remember this: Once you lose your virginity, you CANNOT get it back. You can choose to become like the girls who go around and have sex anytime, but they can never choose to be like you again. When faced with the tempatation, think of how one day you are going to meet an amazing man that you love and adore, and end up marrying. Don't you want to be able to give him all of yourself, and save yourself for him, and him only? Think of that guy who maybe you haven't even met yet, but is saving himself for you someday, and show him that same love and devotion by doing the same thing. Trust me, you will never regret it. It is normal to feel 'horny' when you are a teenager and hormones are running wild in your body, so it is important not to put yourself in compromising situations that might lead to you doing something you regret later. As for your curiosity to see the male anatomy, just check out some classic Greek sculptures and other classical artwork. ;) Michaelangelo was known for his perfect representation of human anatomy, so just check out one of his male sculptures. Please, don't do anything you feel uncomfortable doing. Hold strong to what you believe in, and you will never regret it. Good luck, leave me a message in my inbox if you ever need anything else, or some words of encouragement. I am in the same boat as you, I know exactly what you are going through. I hope this helped a bit, have a great day!
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Where do i begin? I was recently married 9 months ago to a 47 yr. old nurse. I am a female,45,and officer and have 2 girls, 11 and 16. I was single for 6 yrs. before, having been abused and mistreated for 11 yrs. I started over and now have a nice home and 2 cars, and have worked hard alone for what I have. So anyway I always wanted to marry again someday and have the family thing, and be happy.So I took a chance and boy I have been wondering about my judgement. We so rarely make love its getting hard to recall. He is just not interested he says, He hates when I say something about it, Another problem is I wonder could he be Bi-sexual, Right after we got married I caught him on the computer with men and women and talking sex, writing Bi-Sexual couples etc. I have caught him not about 5 times since we got married,. I Now have forbid him to use my computer, well he went to the library, and did it and he probabley does it at work. He denies that he is BI, saying it was for kicks, he was just messing with them and he was just curious about people. He hurt my feelings so much and not wanting to sleep with me, makes me feel unloved,and depressed, I love him, and want my marriage to work, but you dont have to be a bright light bulb to figure something is wrong here. I have threatened to go elsewhere for sex and he says go right ahead. I am so hurt Im miserable. He says he loves me but he sure dont know how to show it and says he will leave if that is what I want. Im getting to where I dont talk to him, I hold things in, Do I need someone to just slap me and make me wake up here and quit wanting that fantasy of a decent kind,loving husband? Thanks P.s. He has 2 kids that wont have anything to do with him, he was an alcoholic and married twice before. (link)
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Communication is KEY in any relationship, especially marriage. Confront him about exactly what is bothering you. Whatever you do though, don't lecture or verbally attack him. Instead word it in a way that phrases it like, 'I love you so much, and it really hurts me that we aren't close.' If he said he loves you, and doesn't know how to show it, well, show him how! Try being a more affectionate all the time, and not just in a sexual context. Snuggle up next to him on the couch when you are watching TV, or hold his hand when you are walking somewhere, just random acts of affection all the time. He will probably start catching on and following your lead, and hopefully that affection will carry over into the bedroom. Check your local book store for books on the topic, I'm sure there are countless books out there that are relevant to your situation. Maybe there are even some you could read together as a couple. Whatever you do, just don't hold your feelings in, that will only make things work. Like I said before, COMMUNICATION IS VITAL. Also, talk to him about your suspicions of him being bisexual. All humans are curious, and maybe that's all that it is. If you still suspect it is more serious, talk to him about it. Tell him you aren't judging him, and that you will love him no matter what, but you just want him to be honest with you. All marriages go through rough times, so try to work things out before either of you decide to leave the other. Please feel free to leave me a message in my inbox if you want anyone to talk to about this, or need any more help or suggestions on what to say. I hope this helped a little bit, at least. Good luck!
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hey ok heres my problem. my boyfriend thinks im too shy too kiss or do anything!!! im not evenshy in the least bit! is there anyway i can tell him im not too shy to do that kind of stuff without sounding slutty? (link)
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You don't have to say anything. When the timing is right, and you feel ready, just kiss him yourself! That shows that you aren't to shy to do that, and it isn't slutty at all. After all, actions speak louder than words!! Hope that helped a little, good luck!
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I have an adorable new baby puppy and he's a golden retreiver mixed with a boarder collie!! He's SO adorable! But I have no name for him.. any ideas? (link)
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Romeo
Prince
Mikey
Copper
Bailey
Duke
Muscles
Trooper
Armani
Champion
Baby
Raphael
Michaelangelo
You could name him after the zodiac sign that he was born in, or your zodiac sign, whatever...like, Scorpio, Leo, etc. Actually, I think Scorpio is a cool name for a dog.
Cookie
Reeses
Louie
You could name him after your favorite sports team, or city they play for, or an actual player... like, Boston, Avalanche, Shaq, etc.
Sneezy
Tiger
Tristan
Armadillo (my friend named his dog that, it was actually pretty cute)
Rock / Rocky
Jock
Max
Pepsi
Toby
I hope this helped, have fun naming your puppy! Let me know what you end up naming it!
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okay... my dog died about a couple months ago.. and i'm getting a new dog this summer.... but don't know what kind of dog to get..if anyone knows a good dog to get... can you tell me??
also... i kinda want a small dog* thanks
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I'm sorry to hear that your dog died...
Anyways, if you're looking for a 'smaller' dog, what about a beagle? They are friendly, and absolutely adorable. Or...maybe some sort of smaller spaniel? My friend has a spaniel that is just a gorgeous dog, and the sweetest thing. I think it is a brittany spaniel. It's more on the medium size range, but I think there are different sizes of spaniels. If you are open minded about the size, my ultimate recommendation for dogs would be a golden retriever. I am biased, because I have two of them, but it just doesn't get any better than that. They are extremely sweet-tempered, playful, easy to train, loyal... and just really pretty dogs. Let me know if you need any more help, I could ask some friends the exact breeds of their dogs, I don't know them off-hand, but they are a smaller sort. Good luck!
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i want to make a cd for a 4 year old. does anyone know some really fun songs. i don't want anything too babyish though, just something he can dance to. (link)
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Disney songs! Especially if he watches alot of Disney movies, little kids love it when they can associate a song with the movie that it is from. So pick some songs from his favorite Disney movies, they really are some great songs! Also, maybe try just some cute dance-y songs like the macarena, or one with fun dance moves that he can learn to go with the songs. Maybe that Cha-Cha Slide song?... I'm not sure... but definately stick with the Disney songs, and also there are some songs from like cartoons such as Blue's Clues. The Shrek soundtrack is also very good, I have a 4 year old niece who loves it. I hope this helped, good luck with your CD!
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how do you get nice abs? like i want nice abs with a six pack, just not a noticeable one. i want the outline of one not the inline of one. and i want it to look nice and flat.. any suggestions? i'll rate high! :-D (link)
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Ok, it won't just take sit-ups or crunches, those only work a certain part of your abs. To get truly awesome, well-balanced and defined abs, you will need to do a few things.
First of all, yes, do your crunches and sit ups. But, when you do them, make sure there is no room between your back and the floor. You shouldn't be able to feel any space between the two, your back should be pressed flat up against the floor. Otherwise, your crunches aren't really going to be effective.
Secondly, make sure to do crunches to the side as well, so you work the sides of your stomach, too. Another good exercise is to get into a push-up position. From there, hold yourself there by tightening your abs and keeping your back and hips from dipping. You should be fairly straight, making a sort of bridge. Hold this for like 30 seconds several times.
There are soooo many ab exercises, please leave me a message if you want some more, or more information. Another thing I highly reccommend for core strenght (abs) and body toning in that area is Pilates. It really is a great workout, and it is great for your abs. Your whole body will just feel better after doing Pilates for awhile.
I hope this helped a little, feel free to leave me a message in my inbox, I'd love to help you! Have a great day!
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im in student gov and we have to plan the spring dance. does anyone have any ideas for a theme? plz no under the sea or hawiian. thnx! (link)
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Hmm... a spring dance? Lets see, what about these for some themes:
-Spring Fling (you can decorate any way you want, cute colors, flowers, whatever...it's just a cute name.)
-A Night Under the Stars (decorate with all silver and blue, with white Christmas lights, and silver cut out stars and stuff. This one is more of a cutesy romantic theme...)
-'Hot in Hollywood' or 'Lifestlyes of the Rich and Famous' (decorate with glitzy gold stuff, a red carpet of course, and those life size cardboard cut-outs of celebities. You could also tape like gold stars on the floor like the Hollywood walk of fame ones.)
-A Night to Remember
-Rock n Roll
-Secret Garden (you could somehow get a romantic fountain, put flowers all over, and green streamers to look like vines.)
-Beach Party (palm trees, sand, you get the picture...)
-Broadway theme...
-Arabian Nights (just like Aladdin! Could it get any more romantic? That would be an awesome theme, you would need to put some thought into the decorating aspect though.)
-Mardis Gras (beads, beads, and more beads)
-Masquerade (watch the Masquerade scene in the Phantom of the Opera movie, and you'll get the idea...)
-Wild Wild West (decorate it Western Style, with cacti, cowboy cutouts, cowboy hats, lasso's, whatever... you can go crazy with this one.)
-80's night
-A Night on the Nile... (decorate with Egyptian stuff, make some pyramids out of cardboard and paint them gold, and make a fake 'Nile River' on the floor with blue rope lighting.)
-'We Go Together' (You know, from the movie 'Grease.' Decorate with all 50's stuff, it would be so cute. Have Grease cardboard cutouts and movie posters up.)
I hope this helped a little, good luck, and have a ton of fun! Inbox me if you need any more help!
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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks (link)
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I am assuming her parents are going to be there, so it is important that you don't embarrass her around her family or make her feel uncomfortable by being too touchy-feely. When you are around the rest of her family, just be sweet and attentive, and do little things like holding her hand, brushing her hair out of her face with your hand, or little kisses on her forehead or something. This way, you don't seem really over-bearing in front of her parents, and being really sweet will make them like you even more. Compliment her on how she looks, and maybe during dinner you could do something like look in her eyes, smile, and then give her hand a little squeeze under the table. She will love all the little things that show that you are paying attention to her. If you two get a chance to be alone later, give her a long hug, and while you are still holding her, tell her how much you love her, then maybe kiss her forehead. If she seems like she wouldn't mind going further, (don't push her to do anything she doesn't want to...you will be able to tell by if she keeps leaning into you, or smiles at you, or leans in for another kiss...) then you can kiss her neck real gentle-like. See what that leads to, but don't move too fast. When a guy seems like he wants to rush into things, it is a real turn off. Take it slow, and just be sweet and gentle. That's the sure way to win a girls heart. Good luck, and have a happy Easter! I hope this helped you a little.
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is it possibl for a person to not like someon anymore, but not be over him (if that makes sense!). because that's what i think is happening 2 me. i liked this guy A LOT for A LONG TIME, but the thing is that he was a jerk about it (i'd tell the details for u 2 understand it better, but it would be soooo long...) . anyway, i don't think i like him any more (no more butterflies in my stomach, no more going out of my way just to see him go to his next class, no more of his name on my notebook, etc.) . but the thing is that EVERYONE knew about it (even my english teacher!) and whenever i get into a convo w/ anyone, they always bring him up, and i can't 4get about him...that is, nobody will LET me. i still think about him occasionally, but not in the same way, so i don't think i like him. but i still think about him, and i haven't 4gotten the feelings i had 4 him. is it possible that i don't like him, but can't quite get over him? or do u think that i still like him? whatver it is, how do i 4get about him? i rate 5's 4 ne1 who helps! (link)
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Don't worry, thats perfectly normal! Once you have strong feelings for someone, even if you don't like them in that way anymore, you will still probably find yourself thinking about them. You were so used to spending time and energy thinking of him, and liking him, that it would be extremely hard to just stop. You may not 'like' him, but it's ok that he is still on your mind once in awhile. And, you will always remember how you felt towards him, even if that feeling is long gone. It might be that you are not over him, I went through a similar situation myself. It actually turned out that I wasn't over him because I didn't have someone else to move on to. Once you come across another guy that gets your attention, it will help get this boy out of your head...but until that next Prince Charming comes, I think it is absolutely fine to think about him. As for other people constantly bringing him up, make a point to tell them that its not relevant anymore, and that you don't like him. Make it clear that it is not a topic that is available for them to talk about now, since you don't like him anymore, and you don't want to constantly talk about him. Try saying something like, 'You know guys, I really don't like him anymore, and I just don't want to talk about him anymore...really, its nothing anymore...' Hopefully they will take a hint, and move onto some other topic. I hope this helped a little bit...if you want more specific advice, feel free to leave me a message in my inbox, I don't care how long it is, I'll read it. :) Have a great day, and good luck with all of this!!
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What is the hardest thing about High School? I'm trying to figur out, what is the hardest thing that sduents face in a school setting? let me know what you think.
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Here are some things that come to mind, I don't know which you would consider to be the hardest though...
-Peer pressure, or course. Whether it's wearing the right clothes, giving into things you don't want to do, or just trying to fit in with the crowd, basically every aspect of high school is affected by peer pressure.
-Parental expectations (grades, socially, sports, anything) and also expectations you have for yourself.
-Trying to figure out who your real friends are, the ones that will support you no matter what.
-Social drama...enough said.
-Difficult teachers, academic pressures, and so forth...
-Trying to really analyze where your life is headed, and which course you want to take after high school. You high school experiences play a big part in what you choose to do afterwards, and what you make of your life. Just knowing that is alot of pressure.
-Keeping up with the busier schedules, and the increasing responsibility that you accumulate over your high school years.
-Holding on to your values and standing up for what your believe, despite peer pressure, and the surmounting difficulties that come with trying to be accepted by friends and still maintain your individualism.
-Establishing your individualism, and your place among your peers.
I hope this helped, there are soooo many, but those are just what popped into my head as I was writing this response. Have a great day!!
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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.
Is this a good outfit:
White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels
OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers. (link)
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I think the outfit sounds cute, you just might want to swap the pink heels for black ones. Or...wear a cute, tight pair of dark jeans with the white tank and pink shoes. I think that would be adorable. Also, if you're going to be dancing alot, a mini skirt might not be the most comfortable thing to wear. I know when I am dancing, I don't want to have to worry about what my skirt is doing or what is showing. If you are like that, opt for the jeans instead, and keep the rest of the outfit. You may want to wear a cute little jacket (with either outfit) just so that you aren't cold walking into the dance, or walking out, and it will still look cute. Accent your outfit with pink things, to tie it in with your shoes, like a pink ribbon belt, or pink dangly earrings, or something like that. I'd wear your hair all down, or half down/half up...don't put it all up. Give it alot of body, and kind of let it be natural, so it has a cute casual, maybe tousled look.
Good luck, and I hope this helped a little bit!
Have a TON of fun!!!
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