about

Heyy, Brittany here. I know how you feel. Yep, I've been through a lot of crap. I can totally help you through your problems, and will work long-term with people who need some major advice. Ask me ANYTHING and I promise you that I will come up with an answer. I wont be satisfied unless you are first. Reccommend me to your friends if you'd like. If you want to get in touch with me elsewhere, my e-mail and screen name are below. If you cant get me there...I am on my Myspace quite often. So drop me a message! I'll get back to you ASAP.

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

advice

Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!

They probably just like you for your looks. Dont let them get to you...they're just being typical boys.
hope this helped. =D

[view]

I am thirteen and I am relatively short for my age (4' 11") and I'm not really pretty.
At my summer camp, there's a group of high schoolers around 14 to 15 years old, and one of them is my age, but she looks 15 and she is extremely pretty. I want to be accepted by this group, but because I look younger they treat my younger. This girl who is my age is nice and tells them that I'm the same age as her, but it doesn't change their mind. It's like the elite group: is it even worth it? They have the most fun and they are really tight and I want to be a part of that.

You CAN be a part of that, thats the good thing. If the girl that is the same age as you is nice to you, then you're bound to be accepted to their group. Its summer time! Assert yourself and try becoming part of their group on your own also. If you have any group activities in summer camp, then try getting yourself into a group with them, or one of them or something. Let them know what kind of a person you are, and perhaps they'll want you to be part of their group.
And even if they dont accept you (no reason why they shouldnt) there are tons of other kids, and you can have just as much fun.

Good luck! Hope this helped ;)

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

two guys tried to rape my gf when we were walking from a party. so i was in a fight with them, i knew it was a stupid move; i was out matched and out numbered, but i had to. well i manage to take one down and the other i guess just give up, but i took a good few hits, my ribs and face is like bruised up, and now my gf feels really bad about it, like it was her fault, how can i make her feel less guilty, and tell her that i dont care about a few hits in exchange for her safty? shes really sad and i that hurts more then any physical injury

Let me just say I think you're an awesome boyfriend for protecting your girlfriend like that. Thats amazing!!! But as for the guilt part, I think that any girl would feel that way. She's just worried and really cares about you. If shes still going on about the guilt thing, then just keep telling her that you would never let her get hurt, and you'd do anything for her. She thinks its sweet, and she loves it. BELIEVE me. Even if she dosent come off that way I know she'll be thinking it.

hope this helps. =D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
will rate

if you are using a lot of conditioner, then use less. also, try COMPLETELY washing it out of your hair. if some conditioner is left in, it can start to get greesy.

[view]

Well yesterday i sae my belly button had a few small black hairs around it so i decided to but some hair dye on it and i did it started itching and left a lighter skin tone to the rest of my body!! the black hairs have gone now but i have my belly button pierced and wondered if it would have got infected or anything please help lush me xxxxxx

you should have just shaved it. tons of girls shave their happy trail. its natural. never dye it...it will just leave bad results.

[view]

i have formal in ONE month..i need to loosed 10 pounds.. im 14/f .. i work out daily.. but NOTHING seems to be working.i need something simple that would help me loose it on a normal everyday life.. should i eat less carbs or something? how much a day should i consume? what should i eat for breakfest/lunch/dinner ?

the key to losing weight is cardio and diet. for cardio, if you have free time, try running around your block a couple of times. if you have a tredmil, or are able to use one somewhere else, use it. My mom's personal trainer said that cardio is VERY important. also, for your diet, try eating power bars for breakfast. it will get you ready for the day and give you more energy. the ones that taste the best are chocolate and vanilla crisp. =D for lunch, at school, never eat any bagels, muffins, or anything with a lot of bread. you dont need all those extra carbs. if they have a salad, or low fat foods, eat those instead. if you pack lunch, pack a sandwitch a snack, and a drink. nothing more. tuna is healthy, but if u want a better taste, get lowfat peanut butter and low sugar jelly. for a drink, i'd drink water. drink LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS of water. water is manditory. it makes you have to go to the bathroom more and it flushes all of the crap out of your body. for dinner stick with a balanced meal. grilled chicken has lots of protein and dosent taste like shit. stay away from mashed potatoes, they have tons of extra bad-for-you carbs. for snacks, get chips with no Trans-Fat. (trans fat is the fat that goes to your stomach) also, every night before you go to bed do 100 crunches. dont do sit ups, they can hurt your back if you do to many. you can look online for other work out excersizes.
hope i helped =D
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin?

of course it isnt concidered a sin. go to God with your problems, he wouldnt punish you for a problem you had...he would try to help you and WANT you to talk with him. God wouldnt turn away from you when you needed him most.


hope this helped =D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

Hi,
I like this guy that one of my friends are going out with and she really likes him. I don't know what to do .should I be selfless and let her be happy or should I put my self first and take a chance on braking them up and losing a friend?

dont break them up! she is you friend!!! thats total betrayl! your friend would want you to be happy for her. YOU NEVER choose a guy over your friends...its trechery. find a new guy...even if u do break them up, he might not like you anyway...so you would have done it for nothing...and yet ur friend would still be mad at you.

good luck...=D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!

girls hate it when a guy calls them 'hott' to their faces. it makes them feel disrespected and low. things you should say to make them feel wanted are like. you are beautiful...pretty...gorgeous...amazing...etc. make them feel like they really are loved and respected.

hope this helped. =D good luck

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God.

try reading more about God. find an easy easy bible translation that you can relate to. usually they have the New Testament in an easy format for you to read. i can barely put it down. always remind yourself that you are NEVER alone in the world of christians. keep telling yourself that God loves you more than anyhting.
feel free to ask me anything or aim me at whatyouNEVERsay

hope this helped

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's.

ohh get ready for this. i am OBSESSED WITH BOOKS. for young adult books, i suggest...
Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson(ask your parents before reading)
Crooked by Tom + Lauren McNeal(you might want to do the same)
Zipped by Tom + Lauren McNeal
You Dont Know Me by David Klass
Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli
Keeping the Moon
This Lullaby
The Truth About Forever
That Summer
Someone Like You
and Dreamland (All books by Sarah Dessen)

For fantasy books...
Inkheart
Dragon Rider
The Theif Lord (all by Cornelia Funke)
Harry Potter 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, and soon to be 6 by J.K. Rowling
The Two Princesses of Bamarre
Ella Enchanted
The Wish(all by Gail Carson Levine)

For horse books...
Heartland Series (by Lauren Brooke)
Saddle Club (although that may be a little bit young for you, i used to read them...by Bonnie Bryant)
Misty of Chincoteague by Margaret Henry

For Christian books (not sure of your religion but i will give it a shot)...
Jesus Freaks by DC Talk and The Voice of the Martyrs (awesome book)
Left Behind Series (kids or adult series) by Tim Lahaye + Jerry B. Jenkins
Fast Lane to Heaven (hard book to read, but its good) by Ned Dougherty

i know tons more....but i dont want to keep you here all day. if you have any questions please feel free to message me or aim me at whatyouNEVERsay

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

Does anyone know where I can get a used drum set in good condition???For under $300

i know this might sound hard to believe. but try Ebay.com for instruments. they can get really cheap and in realyl good condition. i but tons of things off of ebay, including my brand new guitar. it was in awesome shape. also try online websites. like jrmusicworld.com (i think thats the website)

hope this helped. good luck =D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??

i suggest start singing in front of a bunch of your friends at one time. then after you can conquer that, start involving your family, neighbors, and people from school. once you are ready, then if your school has a talent show you can enter if you feel like u can do it. just start small and keep growing. some of the biggest stars started out with stage fright.

hope this helped. good luck =D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

I feel like my life can't get any lower. Everything I was good at I am no longer good at. No matter how hard I try people are always a lot better. My grades are slipping and nothing I do makes me happy. I hate my life and I just want to stay in my room and be alone forever. What do I do?

I used to be like that 24/7. but since i went to church to spend time with my friends, and God, its been a lot better. I am a Christian, so when I go to church its a lot of fun. we play games, eat candy and crap, and the youth leader is 26 years old. hes young and fun. He is even the lead singer of the band we have at our church. there are tons of christian rock bands that are flippin awesome. you should check out some of their material. if you know any friends that are christian, maybe ask them if you can go with them to chruch or if they have it, Youth Group. Believe me, they will be happy to bring you. God can always make you feel like you are worth something. God loves you more that anything. he CREATED you, he is your dad. if you find a relationship with God then you will live for eternity. if you want me to talk to you more about this, or have any questions, please feel free to im me, or email me.

aim: whatyouNEVERsay
email: xpyrence_the_byttersweet@yahoo.com

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--)

ok, friends with benefits is exactly how it sounds. FRIENDS with benefits. there will never be a relationship if he was the one that asked you. he just wants some ass from you without having to commit to anything. FWB is a very bad idea, and it can get you into trouble aka sex=child=life ruined. if he dosent love you then he can end up hurting you.

hope this helped. think about it...

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

i've been dating my boyfriend for seven months. he lives in the neighborhood next to mine, so i see him almost every day (besides the days he goes to his mom's house in chicago). he's been drifting away from me lately, and he's starting baseball tomorrow and my volleyball's getting more time consuming. how can i let go of him without like losing all interest of our relationship? help! thanx =)

well, since you both have to do sports, and are dedicated to it, why dont you both agree to come to each others games?? When you have games scheduled on the same day, that would be a problem, but try going to each others games and cheer for each other =D Also, since you have been dating for 7 months, which is a long time, then maybe you could go with him to his mothers house with him? Ask him if he could get permission. Tell him that you want to spend more time with him.

hope this helped!!! good luck ;-D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

ughhh
my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do - leave your screen name for AIM if possible !

i know how you feel! one of my best friends had a boyfriend that smoked pot, and she asked him to stop. threaten him with your relationship if you need to, show him pictures of what happens to your body when you smoke. Its NOT a pretty picture. my friends boyfriend quit, but soon after he started again and they broke up. if he really loves you then he would please you. its helping him too!!

hope this helped. Aim me at TeaRMYPapeRWingS

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s.

yes, you could have sex during your peroid. it would be a mess, but bring that to your boyfriend...he may just not know. Dont surprise him with a bloody mess, lol. also, you cant get pregnant when having your peroid.

hope this helped!!! good luck ;-D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

ok i have a really bad cold and im coughing and sneezing constantly but i want to know if that affects your vaginal discharge its been heavy lately and i want to know why..i had my period 2 weeks ago so i know its not that..help!

well, maybe if you just got your peroid, its not regular yet. it takes a few months to over a year for your peroid to become regular.

hope this helped!!! =D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

Okay I was hanging out with this one guy tonight.. We went driving around and then we went over to his co-workers house to play some games.. Well things "happened" i should say.. But.. there is one problem.. He has a GF!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do. I like him a lot and he says he likes me more than ne thing.. and then he was telling me what he feels when he is with me. then I asked him if he felt the same way with his gf and he said no.. I dont know what to do.. PLEASE help!!!

if you really like him, and he really likes you, then he would dump his girlfriend. if he dosent feel anything with her, and he feels with you...that is a real connection, and i think that he should be with you rather than be with someone that he DOSENT like. ask him. pressure him into saying what he is going to do about it. you shouldnt be stuck in the situation, he should. you dont have the girlfriend/boyfriend, he does. dont be afraid to ask. =D

i hope this helped!!! good luck ;-D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker