Trying to keep this short: boyfriend of four years, have lived together three - have had issues with finding messages and texts, nothing ever extremely horrible, though. ex girlfriend used to text him pictures of her face, he'd say cute, but confronted and reply was that meant nothing, he's known her forever they just talk sometimes. fb message to a girl and told her she was pretty, but it was an old coworker. lots of random messages at like, 2am when i'm sleeping to girls (only girls) saying hey, none of the girls really reply though (at least that i can see), he was just bored and wanted to talk to people. always an answer. the one time i definitely found a DISGUSTING conversation, i got so upset and ran out of the house. when i came back, we were talking and when i wanted to go back upstairs to show him, he told me he wanted to see why i was upset and when he saw that he deleted it cause he was embarrassed but it was an old conversation with a girl he re-added on Facebook and when you re-add someone, old conversations pop up. i saw it was more recent on his message box and the month of the conversation was the but once again, i'm not a Facebook expert i wasn't sure if that was exactly true and since the message was gone i couldn't prove it anymore, so i let it slide and haven't looked at anything again since.
well, till today. my friends just recently broke up over this issue so i don't know if that was it or what came over me, but i looked. facebook, didn't see anything (but there's the archived option where i found those things before but mobile doesn't show you that stuff). no texts. but then i saw he had a myspace app and apparently he still has myspace, none of our friends do and this profile i found seems to be new, not the old one i knew him to have. the earliest date for a profile pic upload was like a month ago but i don't know if that's just how it looks with privacy settings and whatnot, i have no idea how new myspace works. all his friends on there though are trashy girls, with their cleavage out or they're half-naked. there is not one guy. and he's "connected" to alot of them and their photos which i googled and i guess that means you like their photo and their stuff will instantly post on your stream or something. also, lots of "hey" messages on there as well, but not a lot of replies again. one woman, a conversation. she's married. he says he's single. then he says he lives in new york (she lives there) he makes a comment she's gorgeous. she keeps her side of the conversation completely normal, non-flirty. she just seems like an older lady that wants to chat with people. he says a lot of other random things that aren't true in there (i guess just for conversation? idk)
he's on her top 8 or whatever haha, he doesn't have one. so i don't know how to really take it. i haven't read anything truly sexually or anything but still the fact he has this page and it seems to have it to talk to trashy chicks is pissing me off. especially when we just had a fight (which we've had a lot) about him thinking i'm cheating on him, when the only friends i have are HIS friends cause he didn't like my girl friends cause he thought they were sluts.
i just don't know how to feel - like i understand i crept, i betrayed his trust but i found things - what about MINE? i know nothings indefinitely said, whether he deleted it all or not i don't know... i feel like i just can't come at him with "YOU SAID THIS GIRLS PRETTY AND THATS IT". lots of people nowadays seem to think that that's ok, harmless flirting. i don't do that with guys, though. i don't message anyone. i just feel this is shady. i have a tendency to go into arguments, get flustered and then i just back out cause i lost my point and ground and i don't want to do that. i took photos this time of the conversation, checked the dates so i know everything's from like, two days ago and i can show them again if i need to.
i just need opinions. is this a line crossed? would you say anything or just know that this is there and keep that in mind? part of me just wants to make a myspace just to solely send him a friend request on it, just so he gets the message that i know its there and i can see his friends and stuff. and i just won't even say anything to him about it.
and sorry if this posted twice - i went to double check and see if it posted and i didn't see it listed so i thought maybe it didn't submit!
Harmless flirting is only harmless until the other girl goes with it. I have no doubt that given the opportunity to cheat on you, he would. I know, because I was this guy. I was unhappy in my relationship and sought other outlets. It was "harmless flirting" until an opportunity arose and I slept with another woman. I came forward about my infidelity. We worked through our problems, I rebuilt her trust in me, and now after 9 years together we're engaged. The point is, I don't believe a cheater is always a cheater. I do believe, however, that there is one of two issues here: he's either not serious about your relationship, or there is a problem with it and the communication is not up to par for him to discuss it with you. The latter was my issue.
I say confront him. If he gets angry and defensive, point out that this is not the first time and there is overwhelming evidence against him. If he wants out of the relationship, it's a sure sign he's been wanting out but didn't want to pull the trigger. He was hoping he'd get caught and you'd do the dirty work and end it. If you think he's worth it, don't let him off the hook that easily, and fight for him. Otherwise, kick him to the curb.
This is a problem that can only escalate with your inaction.
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I go to Russia every summer and last year I met this wonderful darling cat that I just fell in love with. It is a girl and she was pregnant when I met her. One day when I was walking with my mom the cat was meowing so I petted her for around five minutes and then I asked my mom if we could get her some food. We gave her food and she was very thankful! So then we ended up feeding her everyday. I begged my mom if we could bring her back home but she said no because it would be too expensive and we already have a cat but he's mean! So my question is, will she remember me? I even gave her a name! Kisa! And whenever I called her she came running even if she was all the way down on another block!! I miss her bunches and I want to know if she'll still come when I call her and if she'll be happy? Thanks
I understand why we could not bring her. It would indeed be expensive, but sadly I am so sentimental in that way
yes I know touching a stray was potentially dangerous but I did it, and now what is done is done
the idea of being forgotten by anyone I made a connection with, even a cat, makes me sad.
This question was asked word for word back in November. Were those answers not satisfactory?
Russia is pretty cold during the winter. The likelihood of the cat surviving for a year and staying in the same neighborhood is pretty slim. If that cat is still around, it may remember you. Don't get your hopes up.
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Okay, so I took eight 500mg Tylenol &' I'm afraid something is going to happen. The reason that I did this was because I really wanna get high &' I have no weed ... So that is what I did now I'm afraid. Please tell me what to do!! Also, is there another way to get high? Oh, I'm 15 &' weigh 103 lbs. I'm a girl. Thanks.
There are many ways to get high. None of them are a good idea for a young person's developing mind. Imagine a baby tree growing in your yard that you walk past and kick as hard as you can every day. Think that tree will grow up straight? At any rate, in the immediate present, you may have done some intestinal or kidney damage. You need a doctor. Take the chance of punishment, admit what you did, and see a doctor. It's a smaller price to pay than say, death.
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As a baptist faith. What do they think of suicide?
To put it in a word, "undecided." The Bible has different viewpoints ranging from "self-murder is a violation of one of the Ten Commandments and is therefore a damnable sin" to "no one can be removed from the love of Jesus Christ" to "only God can decide if a person who ended their life in a moment of extreme weakness is worthy of the Kingdom." In other words, they shrug their shoulders and say "whatever you believe, I guess."
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it's like taking a bath with a bunch of people you don't know. Disgusting. If you want to relax in some water why not fill up one of those small tubs in your backyard
not to mention you have to wear a pretty embarassing outfit in front of everyone. Doing the swimming unit in school and both boys and girls are there. Though at least those are your peers
Due to the sheer amount of chemicals in a swimming pool, and the constant flow and filtering of fresh water, it's nothing like a large bath. Swimming is something you do to not die. You should probably at least get the basics.
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My mom wants me to help her buy a vacuum cleaner that vacuums dirt and dust AND can also steam and clean carpet. She says that her friend has one but I have been searching for one and I can't find one anywhere. Is there really a "two-in-one" vacuum cleaner that can steam and just vacuum? And if so, where can I get one and which model is the best?
Not really. Steam cleaners have a vacuum built in but it's meant for sucking up the dirty water, so it's very small. Sometimes it's larger, but typically impractical to use as a vacuum. You really should buy 2 separate ones.
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my boyfrined cummed in my mouth and then wanted to finger me I said no he washed his hands and then like a half hour later he fingerd me he washed them in hot water could there be a possibility I'm pregnat. I haven't had my period yet I think I'm late . is there a chance it was under his finger nails
No. Sperm can't survive outside the body that long. You're fine.
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i'm a 16 year old teenage girl. I have been in a lot of relationships but idk what happens. they either always cheat on me, dup me in a very bad way, always ask me for sex, or end up ignoring me. i'm very insecure about my self. people tell me all the time they wish that they looked like me. I have brown long hair with highlights bright green eyes C cup bra skinny and I have a black girls butt. I guess I'm a lil pretty but with guy's always doing this it hurts:""""( I have never lied to a guy cheated on him or ignored him. I've always been honest and even one time when I was grounded I would sneak my phone just to be able to talk to them. what am I doing wrong?????? please tell me so that I can stiop!
Chances are, you're not doing anything wrong. You're dating people your age, and they're pretty bad at it. Immaturity is going to be rampant for some time. That's why it's hard to find a decent guy; even later on. Some guys don't grow out of it. You gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. Just hold out.
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my wife wants us to have a bi boyfriend so we can have a three some and whatch me get off with a guy and in return is prepared to get naked with a girl and turn the tables, I find this quite interesting and am qurious to see what happens but canot find any sites online that accomadate this fun, can anyone help?
Craigslist is your friend here. Post an ad requesting exactly what you're looking for, and make it casual. Rather than "come over so we can fuck" try more like "let's go out for drinks, get to know each other and see if there's a connection." If you're not 100% on board with this, don't do it. If it solely her idea, this will not end well.
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how is babby formed
how girl get pragnent
We need to do way instain mother...you know the rest
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Hi! I live in Melbourne, Australia and I am a 14 year old girl. My boyfriend and I had a blue the other day and now he's backstabbing me and calling me the b word on wheels. What should I do?
I'm American, so I'll be damned if I know what a "blue" is. At any rate, he's just trying to get a rise out of you. The thing you can do to frustrate him most is to ignore the hell out of him.
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Ok, so I have been dating this girl that I love and such. But my freinds, literally, all of them, hate, her. And I have been freinds with them for my whole life, so I thought about just dumping her, then I noticed that she had been getting a little clingy lately, and finally, we got In bed, if you know what I mean. Then I had to stay with her, but I just don't know what to do! What should I do, stick with my freinds, or stay with my girl?
Well, it depends. The basic answer is "what do YOU want?" Why do they not like her? Do they find her annoying? Is she taking you away from them? In any capacity, true friends would support whatever makes you happy, regardless of their own self-interest. I have friends with girlfriends I can't stand, but I don't encourage their break-up without just cause.
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Right so I no this guy and iv been fucking his best m8 since I was 13 I'm 16 now and I like him a lot so the guy iv fucked for 3 years have told the guy I like that I'm a Gd fuck but my m8 told me that he's into hard routh sex and that sort if. Kinky sex what should I do coz I wanna fuck him and he told me he wants a shag and I wanna give him the best hard sex he will ever have and plus if u could tell me how to tern him on that would help to thx
Spelling and grammar are my two biggest turn-ons.
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couldn't this just be a way for the teacher to encourage students?
Encourage the students to sleep with her, yes. My girlfriend is a 9th grade teacher. The thought of her students in any sexual way makes her physically ill. That's the way it should be for any normal person.
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so I have this gym teacher in high school teaching my gym class who is young, (younger than 30 I think) really pretty and good looking and red headed, and she teaches physical education and English and so we are doing the swimming unit and while in the pool she was walking around and she then said to me and some of my friends later when we were walking back to to change that she likes the swimming unit the most because she likes to look at all the male students without their shirts on in the water and she can see how fit you really are
the comment doesn't bother me in the slightest , but if some kid who was around me decides to go cry about it, will she get in trouble? I talked to a friend of mine about it (who wasn't there) and he says it is wrong and she should get in trouble but I don't see why, If she was actually doing anything then I would agree. I am not going to say anything, she is a really good and nice teacher and I will not get her in trouble
even if she does get in trouble, should she really
Saying anything like that was a really bad plan on her part. Maybe nothing will come if it; maybe not. It could be an innocent (but dumb) statement, or it could be the precursor to the next sex scandal. If it's the latter, make sure you're the "victim".
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Do the female in the porn videos get orgasms or they just fake it
According to interviews I've heard, some of them really do get off and what you're seeing is genuine. I assume a lot of that is dependent on the skill of the male. I'm sure the majority of them are just acting. After all, that is their job.
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I get strep throat almost every year and this time I wanted to understand why so I looked it up and I got some info saying that it can cause like heart problems or something in the future. I want to know if that's true and if not is it normal or not to get strep throat so often?
I used to get it once or twice a year. I just kept amoxicillin at home and took it once my throat started to act up. My doctor told me I was nothing if not consistent, but no damage was ever done to my tonsils. I've never heard of strep affecting the heart. If your doctor is not concerned about any long-term effects, you shouldn't be either.
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I always read about girls getting crushes on their male teachers but I wonder if the same thing happened with boys and female teachers
Hell yeah it does. I wanted to do unspeakable things to my 10th grade history teacher.
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a conclusion for transport in plants
Conclusion: plants are terrible drivers.
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I'm M/18, freshman in college. I'm currently going to college, majoring in engineering. I hate it. I really do. I don't want to go anymore. What I really want to do is have a successful band. I didn't really have a choice. High school and family basically forced me to go. I honestly feel that I'm wasting time sitting in my 3 hour classes. I feel like I could actually be doing something. My whole life it's been "you have to do this/you have to do that." I'm tired of it. I want to do what I want for a change. You might say I should keep college as a backup, but I disagree. What's holding me back with music is time and money. If I could get a job and save and invest, I can get the equipment I need. I understand that being in a band does NOT guarantee success at all. But the way I see it, is that it's similar to a business. If you don't put time and investment into it, you'll get nowhere. So I should at least try. I'm not a big spender, I have no expensive addictions (I don't smoke, I don't buy lotto, I don't buy sneakers etc.) I just want to get this thing rolling. I don't want to be like everyone else. Everyone is going to college now. Everyone is getting into debt. College doesn't guarantee success either. My parents went, my sister went, etc. My sister is an NYU graduate, yet she lives down the block from me in the same "ghetto." I don't want to just have a stable job. I want to enjoy my life, I want to be my own boss. I'm willing to work and save for it. But my parents would get so pissed if I stopped going to school. I'm not on Earth to satisfy my parents though. So if I think I have a chance at success against the odds, why not try? See, we all have dreams, images, pictures of what we want. Each one is different, might be very similar, but each is unique. The thing about us is that, no matter how far fetched that dream or idea is, to an extent, we can bring it to reality if we truly want it. I really don't want to tell my parents about this, but I also don't want to waste their money and go against my dreams.
I don't see a question. You've already convinced yourself anyway. I'm a college dropout; you'll survive.
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