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hey! i was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how to make a facial..or what kinds of supplies that work really well..not for specific reasons tho. thanks a bunch! i rate high! :7)

1. 1/2 cucumber
1 egg white
1 tablespoon lemon juice
1 teaspoon mint

Pure ingredients in a blender and refrigerate for 10 minutes. Apply the mixture to your face and leave on for 15 minutes. Rinse with hot, then cool water.
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2. 1/2 ripe avocado
1 egg white

Mash avocado into a thick paste. Add egg white. Apply to face; leave on 15 to 20 minutes. Rinse with lukewarm water.






THESE TW0 W0RK THE BEST!!!!! *STEPHANiE*

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okay this weekend I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family at his sister's graduation party, and they're the REALLY formal type who like kiss you on the cheek and stuff. well you know how when girls kiss in the cheek? do you move your head to the left or the right? cause every time i do that i always kiss the wrong side and we always bump and its so embarrassing haha...

what other ways can i make a good impression?

Hey Hun,

If you wanna impress his family be well mannered. And use all your table manners lol the things your parents teach you! Um the kissing part I know for a fact well im half mexican and my father when his mother kisses she always kisses my Left cheek, So therefor its your Left Cheek! And what always helps is if you can make them laugh and stuff thats always good because they will know your comfortable to be around them. First time my bf met my mom he was like throwing gummy bears at her in the movie theater it was funny but she likes em more because hes not scared to be himself. Just be very proper dress nice and say Please,May I, And Thank You!!

Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX
STEPHANiE

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Im writeing a paper on second hand smoke and weather or not people should be aloud to smoke in public places ( resterunts, bars, amusment parks, ect. )and i need peoples opinioins..
if you think that they should banned public smoking or if you think that it should be aloud nd why (if you want).. i rate !! so help me if you have the time thank yaa!!

LisaxOBabii is right, We must all be smokers if there is Public smoking. I think you should write about how you think it should be banned, Then exsplain the effects it brings Nasty Teethe,Bad Breathe, and etc.!!

Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX
STEPHANiE

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recently my friend and I have been stealing a lot. it's like every store we go to, we almost always steal atleast 1 thing. we steal simple things, like make up, food, skin care products... when she first told me that she stole things with her friend a few months ago, I laughed at the idea and I couldn't believe they were so.. bad. but when I saw them in action, I realized how easy it was. I only steal when I'm with that friend, and even though now I'm better than her at doin it, I still feel extreme guilt sometimes. she doesn't feel any regrets at all. I kno I should stop, but I just wanna kno if any of you have stolen things and have gotten caught doing it, and what were the concequences. I will stop eventually... but it's really fun and easy. if my parents even found out, they would literally disown me

Hey Sweetie,


I remember when I was with some friends in 6th grade and we went to this store, It was a store back on the base here in Jacksonville. My friend decided to put some clothes on and try and walk out, unfortunetly yes she was a blonde and we were walking out of the store, And I was scared more then anything because ive never witness anything like that before. And the people that worked there came out and told her to go into this office. And she did and they searched her and looked and seen she had two shirts on and then little did we know they knew she took it and all they did was like took the shirt away and told her to never do it again. But ive heard like alot of people get locked up for shoplifting so its better to let your friends steal by themselfs because "If one goes down they all go down"!!!

Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX
STEPHANiE

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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?

Hey Sweetie,


Sometimes your period changes like one time it could be in the beginning then mayb the next month it could be in the end then mayb the next month right in the middle. Its hard to predict unless you keep record of your dates. But if he hasnt cummed near your vaginal areas then your skr8 just your period is prolly changed!! Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!

♥StephAnie♥

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Okay, so I'm bedridden for a while. I certainly don't enjoy readering, but I figure it will pass the time.. so I'm not just stuck laying there like a useless moron. I like those cheesy little romance plots and all that sensitive bologna, so if ANYONE can think of something I might enjoy, I would DEFINITELY appreciate your recommendation!!

"Mackenzie"

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I heard a long time ago that different fruits mean different things. For instance, if you leave a squash on your girlfriend's front porch then that means you want to break up with her. The reason I am asking is because last night (very late) someone, possibly two people, ate watermelon on our porch and left the remains of the watermelon! What the crap does this mean? Does it mean anything at all? There are two peices that were cut in triangles. This is freaking weird.

Laziness....

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Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-(

Hey Sweetie,


Whasup with your friends that is so crazy. Ok my Homie had the same prob. She followed what I told her and what she did was wrote them all letters and apoligized you should seriously do everything because "The things you love are always worth fighting for" So do whatever it takes!!! Hope it gets better!! You should try callin em or even text messagin them or something but you never know it could of been something you said online or something on IM cause ive done that alot like ppl think im gettin smart but nessasarily im not and I exsplained to my friends im a crazy person and like to play round' and now they pretty much understand you just gotta esplain yourself! Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!

Alway`Sz
STEPHANiE

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does anyone know the best way to get rid of pubic hair i mean shaving sometimes leaves whiskas and i don't like that. I tried waxing on my legs and it really hurt so i gave up! Is there any wax you casn buy that does not hurt and is effective???and leaves legs smooth and about pubic down below how can i get that smooth.

Nope not really, Unless you use Nair but you either way your still gonna have pubic hair! Unless you got like some kinda of Laser Surgery that removes all your pubic hair but im assuming your young so just try nair!Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!

Alway`Sz
STEPHANiE

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i have never got on with my dad very well from a young, i didnt like something he did so i told him and he didn't seem to get the message to stop so i said stop or i'm running away he didn't so i did what i said and ran away, my friends dad was there and he knew everything that had been going on and said he would hit him if he didnt stop so my dad being like 1/5 of his size stoped, this was like 18 months ago now ever since he has been trying to like get me back i use to cut myself and he knew everytime it didnt change anything though its like i'll be on the phone he'll shout... i'll be on the computer he'll shout and make up things when i yell back he'll just say that im over reacting and twisting what he is saying.. hes always taking my phone off me grounding me for things i havent done.
e.g. i got the wrong coat out the cupboard he grounded me for 6 months from ahving or going to a sleep over.
i use just my folk at dinner yesterday and not with the knif he goes who out ya friends have you got that off then i just went no one and walked out the room saying fine then i wont eat at all.
he didnt offer me any food all night.
my mum doesnt do anything about this and when i go see my councellor she just says look what your parents are going through and im just like there punishing me for no reason.. i endded up in hospital in dec for taking an overdose and they just told the nurses i had fallen out with my friends to make me look stoopid he just didnt want to get in trouble he blames me for everything and i think its just to do with what happened like 18 months ago i seriously cant do anything right i walk in the room and he'll say something he hasn't been talking to him for the last 2 weeks because i do everything wrong and i just dotn know what to do anymore im only 14 i cant move out or anything im just stuck i have a sister but she dont care she only thinks about herself and does everything they say and they never say anything to her even if she does something wrong if i were to do that they would ground me, im always being grounded or told off for something and its just taking over me right now.. is there anyway i can get out of here, or at least stop my dad from trying ot take over my life??

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13/f
okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!

Hey Sweetie,


I dont get it, before im assuming you loved him and wanted to be with him. Therefor your feelings changed overtime, You should really be concerned bout talking to him! Its messed up in a way cause its gonna break his heart more then it will break yours because sometimes boys can take that a lil harder specially now if a boy says he loves you then you know he will defintly take it harder while your takin it lightly going to someone else. I guess that teaches you to think before you act and say yes to someone! By the way how long have you been together?

Anyway contact me on aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO, and I could help ya out with this!! Cause I need lil bit more info to go off of!

-Hope things work out hun!-

Always,
Stephanie

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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!

SiNCE Y0U iNViTED HiM YEAH Y0U SH0ULD PAY iT W0ULD SH0W H0W MUCH HE MEANS T0 Y0U! HE WiLL LiKE iT T0 AND WH0 KN0W`SZ Y0U MiGHT RECiEVE S0METHiNG iN RETURN!!! Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!

Alway`Sz
STEPHANiE

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i just started my period... im a little late .
what should i use tampons or pads?

I agree with saltoftheearth, I like tampons better but you have to wear what you feel is more comfortable its best that way so you dont feel uncomfortable!! xOx Hope I helped xOx!!

-AlwaySz-
StephAnie

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i got this weird virus on my computer through AIM..i did a virusscan on my comp. and it said there was nothing there but it still kept acting funny. so i restored my computer to an earlier date, will this get rid of it???? thanks, i rate 5's!!

HEy there! Yeah SaMe exacT thiinG happenD to me! My cOmputer started actin uP and I haD to restOre the entire thing. it sucks juSt next time save everything to a diSk befoe yOu restOre it Or sOmethiing!! LatEr BabEsz! xOx Hope I helped xOx!!

-AlwaySz-
StephAnie

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alright my boy friend has some issues and i dont know wat to do about it . He has a problem in figuring out who he wants to be . He sed one day that he wants to be gothic but then he changed his mind and i cant stand all the pressure of worrying about him all the time . I realy love him and i dont know wat i wud do with out him but im tired of waiting on him to figure out who he wants to be and im scared to break up with him cuz i love him so much . Wat shud i do?? -worried

Hey Sweetie,


I see your bf is changing his image alot. Its usual for a boy, He is just tryin to see what fits him more and what he likes better. It will be worth it in the long run all you have to do is be honest with you like the goth look if my bf asked me if he lookd good in that honestly I wouldnt care because I love him for what how he treats me and his personality not for his self image. Im sure you will like it in the long run it will take a while, Just sit back and think about how much you have changed since you were lil! I know I have went from wearin skirts n all kinds of cute stuff to like wearin diff. stuff and havin my own style hes just tryining new things!! xOx Hope I helped xOx!!

-AlwaySz-
StephAnie

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ok this is really worryin me my g/f is in middlsboro with her mom 4 the summer there is alot of boys that like her up there. i mean yea i trust her and all but i rlly dont kno what 2 think about all those boys can any1 help me????

Hey Sweetie,


Well I feel really good bout' this but I had the same exact problem! My bf went and is currently in New Mexico. Its soo hard but like if anything happens we just would tell each other. And im sure if ANYTHING did happen an she is truthful to you then you have nothing to worry about. Girls usually are very truthful to there boyfriends but then again you have them hoesish girls. Looks like your girl loves you an im sure misses you alot. Just it will take time yall will overcome it and soon you will be back with her soon!!! xOx Hope I helped xOx!!

-AlwaySz-
StephAnie

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I have a BARELY three year old lactating mare. She just turned three two months ago. She was accidentally pasture bred when I bought her, and at the time, she didn't look pregnant. When she was pregnant with the foal, she looked healthy - but not pregnant. She had the filly right after her third birthday. The filly is healthy enough, but her dam isn't. My mare is constantly sweaty. She could be expected to look sweaty because it's summer, but this is unhealthy! She's sorrel, but during most daytime hours, she looks bay because she's so sweaty! She looks very sickly; she doesn't weigh enough, and has rain rot very bad. I'm treating the rain rot, so that's not a big problem, but I feed her 4 pounds of oats and sweet feed in the morning, 2 pounds at noon, and 4 pounds at night. She is not gaining any weight. I've been feeding her this much for over a month and a half and still nothing. She should look at least a little better by now. The filly looks very healthy, though she's very sweaty too. I think the filly's sweatiness can be attributed to all of her baby fur which is very thick and her being very dark colored. (She's going to be black when she sheds out; right now she's a dark dun color) My other mares and my colt are not nearly as sweaty. My bay mare is sweaty around her flank, my chestnut mare is sweaty around her throatlatch, and my chestnut colt is sweaty around his flank - but my lactating sorrel mare is sweaty all over her whole body. This mare is on a regular de-worming routine, she gets lots of clean water (I change the water daily), eats plenty, so I don't understand why she's so unhealthy looking and sweaty. Do you have any ideas or cures? Should I call the vet immediately? Thanks!
-FunnyCide

My aunt has the same problem and she said just call a vet because there is diff. reasons asked to why mare could be doing that!! Hope I helped!

-StephAnie-

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ok im 25 and have alot of streach marks is there any way to get rid of them? please help

Yes you can help it, Use Coco Butter its a type of lotion and you just rub it on wherever you have stretch marks!!!

-StephAnie-

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Does anyone have a link to the full song "Crazy For You" by Gemini? I absolutley LOVE that song and I can't find it anywhere. I rate high.

Thanks-

-bonjovigrl-

Hey if you need the song i got it, I could send it to you on aol instant messenger, my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO!! Latersz!!

-StepHAnie

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latley i have been in a very bad mood. people have just been annoying me and doing things that make me mad latley - what can i do about this? i am not depressed at all - i have fun and i guess it's just when i'm alone i think about a bunch of underlying stuff. what is a way i can not think about all of this?

Hey Sweetie,

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I always for some odd reason just like start thinking about all the bad stuff and it can never get off of my mind. Im glad im finally findin someone who has the same prob. as me. I know exactly how you feel and I would help you in any shape or form my Aol screenname is
MOMMYSLILBOO, please talk to me cause ill helpya out with whatever you need if you dont feel comfortable postin it all over the net! Hope I helped hun!!!

-StephAnie-

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