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Q: right know im single...i want a boyfriend...but i dont know what to do,how to act,or what to say to them. i was hoping i would be a perfect girlfriend for my last 3 boyfriends, but i guess i was wrong because they didnt last very long. i think its because i freeze up and just backfire when im with them. im always so shy with them and i dont know how to act...i want a boyfriend bad but i dont know whats wrong with me please help me out!!! I want guys to see me as a beautiful confident girlfriend.
how do i keep a good relationship while not being so shady with the boys?
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Wow i've been through this myself so here are some tips:
- start talking to alot of guys ask them questions and don't talk about yourself and less they ask you
- if your with your boyfriend don't think about it all you need to do is go with the flow. Don't try so hard don't be scared be yourself and if you can't because your unconfotorable with him then he's not the right guy.
- talk to your boyfriend like you would with your friends he just a boyfriend a lil closer then you then your friends so it really doesent matter you kan talk about how yu think this relationship is going get to noe him
-if you get to know him and your so comfortorable try linking arms holding hands guys they like a girl that isn't scared so don't think about what your going to do everyone makes mstakes but if you think about it and gett too nervouse you'll back fire
-so i suggest you just let loose and hopefully the guy will see how wonderful you realy are.
-but don't be soo loose that you'll do anything for him like your desprete guys don't like that either (trust me i've been through alot ahaha)
-Hope That Helps,
Ashliiee
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Q: i really like this guy that i know from school. we have made plans to hang out a few times but they never seem to work or because one of us always ends up not being able to do it. its never been just the two of us going to hang out its always going to have been us and another couple or other people but not really like a double date which is not what we called it but it may have seemed like that to someone else but to us it was just a chance to hang out. but i really like him and hes a really flirty guy with all girls so i have no idea how he feels. i want him to know that i like him more than just friends but i dont want to just come out and tell him because i dont want things to be ackward if he doesnt feel the same way. do you think he has realize? what things should i do or say that would hint to him that i am interested in being something more than friends?
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well i've kind of been through this but i would suggest gettikng real close to him and like flirt how he flirts with other girls you flirt the same way. see if he get the signal your intrested start makeing conversations. just get real close to him. like almost gf and bf.
hope tht helps =)
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Q: the only good thing in my like right now are my friends and my crush. those are the thigs that are keeping me alive right now. me and my parents fight constantly and im just sick of it. they make me feel like im worthless and stupid. ive been cutting for the past 2 years and my parents dont know that and im starting to smoke and both of those arent helping, everyone said it would but it doesnt, it just makes things worse and now i just dont know what to do. i almost ran away like 3 times and my relationship with my parents is worse. the other day they were talking and my mom said to my dad "why the hell did we have kids?!" so that made me feel even worse. and now i just wanna give up cuz ive tried so hard to be a good girl and be nice to everyone but i just screw up everything. so if u can help me in any way, i would appreciate it.
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listen i hve done tht last year i cut myself i was very suicidal my mom always went out and never got to know who she was it was like i wasent alive and then my friends just made me feel left out and i started dating and everything went wrong my dad married this women and he did'nt even ask me when i com eover to his house he won't even say hi it's like i was invisible so i was like why am i here there's no point of me alive i should die but don't worry everything will be okay just keep calm and something great will come to you!! i promise just stop smoking you have to try quit everything thaat is'nt helping and try and try to be great and just talk to your parents and maybe that will help but hang on because something will come along and help you i promise!!
- hope that helps =)
- Ashliiee
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Q: I am Rachael
I am from sydney grew up in singapore. i came to aust in 2004.There was this guy that i liked.I thought he was hot and nice too.He was also a shy person and rather cute.He was the one.He is 15 years old born on 6 sep 1992 and i am born on 11 jan,therefore i am 15.his from croatia, i liked him for nearly three years. He seemed interested in me but i still feel a bit shy around him and i don;t know why he does not say hi to me. I actually had a chat with him and the school counsellor the other day.Today, he did not seem like talkin to me .I wonder what is he thinkin of me.i hav asked him out over the holidays on the email but he did not reply yet.What should i do? Should i back off and forget him.
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even f he doesent say hi go up to him and say is something wrong you've been avoiding me...also i think he was most suprised and probably comfused about his feelings for you so maybe he needs time you just have to communicate with him try to seee whas in his brain try to see whats up. if he doesent react the way you want him to then back off meaning he's showing you to just keep as friends. But it just seems he is confused talk to him wun on wun not by -email or messenging...
hope tht helps
(thx for asking tht question to me) =)
HeavensAngel01
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Q: I think I may have ruined things between a guy and me. But idk why.
As soon as I go online he'll start talking to me first, and we have been talking since the beggining of 9th grade [we're in 10th now]. And yeah, that particular day I told him that last year I liked him. He didn't say anything really about, he replied 'oh i never knew! 'very neutral. and the next day he imed but then conversation was very different. It seemed very stiff, usually we act like two idiots talking about anything sexual. Then the next day I had to IM him first, which was extremely weird and still! A very stiff conversation. And now he doesn't im me anymore. Hasn't for days.
OH. and we were supposed to go to a haunted house together because he wanted me to be scared and jump all over him, but NOW he told my friend he really didn't feel like going. He said he didn't feel like working hard to make money just to go out for an hour.
So did I do something wrong? How do I say something?!
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no he's probably confused with his feelings for you go ask hi if you don't like me fine just pretend it never happened lets go and chill like we use to. try to make him forget about what you have said try to show him your over him.
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Q: so i talked to the guy i liked today, and it went well. im thinking that tomorrow i should tell him i like him, so that he has the whole weekend to think it over.
should i do that or keep fliritng with him ?
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you should maybe it's too late to answer but yea...flirting is just making a move on him just tell him so he knows your intrested.
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Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over two months and he hasn't kissed me yet. We hold hands, hug, and he always has his arm around me, but it hasn't gone any further.
I've tried kissing him, but he just sorta stood their and didn't kiss me back. So I felt super dumb, I tried asking him, but he sorta changed the subject. What should I do?
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maybe he doesent reall don't know how to kiss or juss kiss him evn if he doesent kiss you back and be like i see wen i kiss yu yu feel unconftorable don't yu wanna kiss me keep on askin him until he answeres you and be like if you don't want to just tell me keep on askin until yu get the answer your looking for
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Q: heres the deal i have been going out with this guy for about a week and it is obvious to me that things are going no where there is just no spark so can someone please tell me how to break up with this guy gently because he is nice just not boyfriend nice for me.
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the thing you should say is i think this relationship is'nt working out i don't know you all that well or you could say thing just arent working out i'm so sorriee but i see you more as a brother then a boyfriend
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Q: 14/m
how long should you be in a relationship before you kiss your girlfriend?
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if the girl is shy wait till about your 1 month aniversary if she is really intimate wit your reltionship A.S.A.P if she's half half wait 2 weeks but if she's like those shy shy girls where yu kan't do anything cuz she's to shy to then probably wat till your secound anniversary. but kissing her will show how much you care about her. but if your not sure when is the right time when your talkin to her on your date at the end of your date ask her if you can kiss her.
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Q: Since school started ive become friends with a guy, and i think i like him more than that. The other day after realizing my feelings for him were real..i finally admitted it...before id joke aroudn with my friends about how he was cute and things..and one of my friends willa agreed..i asked her if she liked him, but she said, not if you do. i thought that was really nice of her. Yestedday she wrote me a letter sayign she really likes him too. i felt like my stomach dried up. I find it odd how after i say i like him, she does too... she went to one of our mutual friends about it and this girl said id acted like a bitch about the whole thing. Should i continue to like him? afterall..i am the one that did all along...and me and this girl arent like..BEST friends.., everyone says theyd see me and him together more than her and him, and we have more inc ommon...what should i do? how do i show him i like him without beign too pushy before she ..throws herself at him? im not that kind of girl..i barely flirt..what do i do?
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omg thats just my life too all i have to say is don't give up because i gave up on him and he went to the girl and it was juss compettion wit me and her. soo just keeplikeing him make him choose who he wants to be with not her or yuu. Just try to get close to him make a lot of conversation with him and just be yourself and hopefully he'll fall for you. =)
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Q: I really want a bf. I was with my best friend and her boyfriend tonight and they were so cute together and itmade me really want one. It made me feel kinda lonely too so what are somet ips for getting a boyfriend and showing guys your interested and talking to them more? kthx.
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get close to a guy and try makeing conversation be like hi i'm so and so umm are you in my history class or some and be like oh i'm sorry my mistake well nice meeting you and since you talked to him he'll come once in awhile saying hi or like accidentaly hold or touch his hand and say oops i'm so sorry he'll get the impressio that was on purpose and your intrested in him and he'll ask you out.
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Q: well i am getting to that middle school age where everyone has a boyfriend. now im not one of tthose desperate girls who must have one, but if i were to get one how would i tell my mom?
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introduce the guy to your mom saying he just a rriend first see if she likes him and sayy mom he is more then a friends and be like i'm sorry to lie to you but i'm scared what you would have said.
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Q: there is this guy who rides my bus and he is sooo cute and sooooooo nice. he is a sophmore and i am a freshman and one of his friends who is also my friend says that he thinks i am hot and i like him so how can i possibly get him to ask me out because i really like him!!!!!
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make a move on him to give him a signal ur intrested in him and then after he'll kniow then he'll probably ask you out or you can just make conversation with him and show him that you guys have alot in common and he'll ask you out.
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Q: Im almost sixteen, female.
So I kinda like this guy, and we've been friends since about 4th or 5th grade. Hes not like my best friend, or even my best guy friend, but we've been pretty cool. I dont know if i want to ruin that. Anyways, i kinda like him, and he really likes me, and hes supposedly gonna ask me out soon,like in the next couple of days. On top of that, i just broke up with my boyfriend a little less than a month ago (Sept. 1st) and they r kinda friends, but not that much. And, my ex was really attached to me, so hed be really upset if i started dating him now. (Actually...when he heard we're going to homecoming together, he called me that night, and started yelling and cussing at me! and we'd been broken up 2 weeks then. But maybe he's gotten better since then)Whats a good amount of time to wait? And is dating this guy worth all of this drama?
Thanks.
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okay well if he likes yu go for it all i have to say is that you do whats best follow your heart don't let your ex push around he ain't even your boyfriend go for it and if he loves yuu alot even if you guys break up you'll still be friends hope that helps =)
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Q: ok i just now started going out with this guy,kevin yesterday but we do not connect you kno its like we are shy all the time or somthing we barley talk i need some help 2 get lose around him soo we can act like boy friend and girlfriend i need sum help on how a girlfriend is suppose 2 act this is only my second boyfriend but i want 2 get it right this time because i really like him i dont want us 2 break up because of lack of communication and intrest
plez help me
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okay i've been through this sweetiee you need to make a move i know your probably shy try getting close to him ask him questions abt himself try to find hings in common and say i'm your girl friend and i want time with my boy friend. Hope that helps =)
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Q: ok so last year i went out with this guy joe. it was a 2 day relationship so i dont like to call him my ex. we "broke up" because he said he was embarassed to go out with me (which is a load of crap if you ask me). then he told me that he broke up with me cuz he liked my best friend too. well we broke up in may and joe and my best friend went out for about a month.
ive had a lot of time to get over him and i pretty much am. but last night i had a dream about him. we were at prom and i was with my best friend and my other friend katie. well joe taps me on the shoulder and asks me to dance. i of course said yes. then we slow danced and i had my arms around him and he had his arms around me.
does that mean i still have feelings for him?? i want to be over him completely but apparantly i still miss him. please help me!!
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i think maybe you styll have a little part off you that wants him back but your not shure try sleeping a couple of days see if you get the same dream if you do that means maybe you should go back with him. but if you don't maybe it was a one time thing. hope that helps =)
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Q: Hello... I'm a 19 year old girl.. I'm studying in a university and taking up tourism.. I have a problem and that is, im dying to have a bf.. Most of my friends already have and i am so jealous. I'm not ugly or something, but i don't know why guys don't notice me.. I mean maybe they notice me too but guys that i like don't make a move. There are guys who like me but they're all not my type. Whenever i'm walking down the street, my friends notice that guys stare at me because not being arrogant, i can say that i'm not ugly and i do have nice shape.. So i'm curious why no guys my type ask me out? I had these 2 guy friends who i thought liked me too, though they're not my type, i asked them out but no ones like. They said that they only like me as a friend. What's wrong with me? That's why i'm thinking sometimes that there's something wrong with me that i don't know. My friends say that i'm attractive enough and that they're jealous because i do have nice body but why on earth no guys my type want to go out with me? Please help.. Thank you in advance..
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get out here don't be picky about guys because if they find out you have a type there not willing to go ask you out..just get out there and make a move on them speak your mind be centre of attention don't worry someone is out there for you you just have to look start flirting and you will get a bf a sooon as you get out there and show them what your made of don't be shy!
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Q: How often should you water cactuses?
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hehe yu should water them atleats once a week because as long as ur catus has heat it takes the heat more then the water but once a week should do the cactus well to stay alive hope that helps =)
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Q: A few days ago my boyfriend of a year and a half and I broke up. We got back together the next day. The break up was sort of mutual but I initiated getting back together and wanted it more I think. Things are going a lot better now I think, it seems like a fight we needed to have. When I’m with him now I’m quite relaxed and comfortable but the problem is when he isn’t around I’m completely terrified.
I’m terrified he is going to dump me again, that he doesn’t love me, and that I bullied him into taking me back and the problems I thought we had, the ones we are working to solve, weren’t the core problems and he’ll still be unhappy and leave me.
I can’t sleep, I feel sick to my stomach nearly all the time, and I’m just plain scared. I’ve never been this way before over someone, and I’ve never gotten back together after a break-up either. I don’t want to beg him to love me, or make him tell me things just to comfort me, but I just can’t seem to deal with my fear. He hasn’t said he loves me since it happened and its dumb things like that that are just eating away at me. How can I talk to him about this without pressuring him into things? Or how can I deal with this fear?
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you should relax think that he'll be with you if he did'nt love yo then why would he still be with you juss think possitive!! hope that helps =)
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Q: im 15 hes 17 were both really shy but im the kinda shy that doesnt get noticed alot but hes popular, my friends think we could be a cute couple but everytime we hang out we never talk, how can i start talking him so that maybe i have a chance with him
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umm well try to talk about what he likes or like talk to someone w=right beside him he'll hear your conversation and wanna come in and join..if he notices you guys have alot in common he'll ask you out!hope that helps =)
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Member Since: August 15, 2006 Answers: 70 Last Update: June 24, 2009 Visitors: 3484
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