Question Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 10:35 pm
ok so last year i went out with this guy joe. it was a 2 day relationship so i dont like to call him my ex. we "broke up" because he said he was embarassed to go out with me (which is a load of crap if you ask me). then he told me that he broke up with me cuz he liked my best friend too. well we broke up in may and joe and my best friend went out for about a month.
ive had a lot of time to get over him and i pretty much am. but last night i had a dream about him. we were at prom and i was with my best friend and my other friend katie. well joe taps me on the shoulder and asks me to dance. i of course said yes. then we slow danced and i had my arms around him and he had his arms around me.
does that mean i still have feelings for him?? i want to be over him completely but apparantly i still miss him. please help me!!
Additional info, added Sunday September 24 2006, 10:38 pm: and sometimes i still cry over him and i dont know why. now we are pretty good friends.
im 13/f by the way..and dont ask me why we were at prom i have no idea.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Wheeler answered Saturday September 30 2006, 11:41 am: That dream shows you, that you miss him but don't want to admit it, yet believe him. There are two type of dreams your dream could be: Prophetic which means it's a dream that fortells the future, or Signal Dream which can help you solve problems in your life. I think it's Signal but sometimes you can't just get over someone you love in a snap of the fingers, it's impossible. Hope I helped! [ Wheeler's advice column | Ask Wheeler A Question ]
xokristabelle answered Wednesday September 27 2006, 12:54 am: Every relationship looks better when it's over with. Even if you hate your ex (I'm guessing you don't) you're still likely to miss him. Having a boyfriend is for a lot of people a memory they want back. As for your dream...prom for many people represents happiness, the epitome of high school, in essence the realization of a dream. It's not important that it was him in the dream, it could have been anyone. The point of the dream is that (and sorry if I'm wrong) you're trying to be cool with being single and hanging out with your friends, but you really want to have a boyfriend- who doesn't? He is not the one, he just looks better now that he's gone. Try to enjoy being single- for one thing, dances are way more fun- and the right guy will come along. [ xokristabelle's advice column | Ask xokristabelle A Question ]
HeavensAngel01 answered Monday September 25 2006, 9:54 pm: i think maybe you styll have a little part off you that wants him back but your not shure try sleeping a couple of days see if you get the same dream if you do that means maybe you should go back with him. but if you don't maybe it was a one time thing. hope that helps =) [ HeavensAngel01's advice column | Ask HeavensAngel01 A Question ]
sloubidoo answered Monday September 25 2006, 2:09 pm: If you want to get over him, do something to take your mind off him. Go shopping with your friends and try to spend as little time alone as you can. But at the same time your 13, enjoy life while you can and dont get too hung up about boyfriends. [ sloubidoo's advice column | Ask sloubidoo A Question ]
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