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my life is falling apart


Question Posted Monday December 4 2006, 10:37 pm

the only good thing in my like right now are my friends and my crush. those are the thigs that are keeping me alive right now. me and my parents fight constantly and im just sick of it. they make me feel like im worthless and stupid. ive been cutting for the past 2 years and my parents dont know that and im starting to smoke and both of those arent helping, everyone said it would but it doesnt, it just makes things worse and now i just dont know what to do. i almost ran away like 3 times and my relationship with my parents is worse. the other day they were talking and my mom said to my dad "why the hell did we have kids?!" so that made me feel even worse. and now i just wanna give up cuz ive tried so hard to be a good girl and be nice to everyone but i just screw up everything. so if u can help me in any way, i would appreciate it.

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HeavensAngel01 answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 4:12 pm:
listen i hve done tht last year i cut myself i was very suicidal my mom always went out and never got to know who she was it was like i wasent alive and then my friends just made me feel left out and i started dating and everything went wrong my dad married this women and he did'nt even ask me when i com eover to his house he won't even say hi it's like i was invisible so i was like why am i here there's no point of me alive i should die but don't worry everything will be okay just keep calm and something great will come to you!! i promise just stop smoking you have to try quit everything thaat is'nt helping and try and try to be great and just talk to your parents and maybe that will help but hang on because something will come along and help you i promise!!

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- Ashliiee

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kiran answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 1:35 am:
Friends and your crushes always keep you going. I might not be where you are right now but just try to find time to talk to your mom or dad separetly and tell them how you feel and whats going on because they've got to love you and if you don't think that just try to think positive because maybe someone else is having something worse go on. Just think positive and talk to your parents it might make things better.

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gateway01 answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 1:30 am:
First off, smoking will only make things worse. Hurting yourself wont solve anything at all. You need to sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel, tell them that you do not like it when you fight with them. Try not to bring up the cutting or smoking cuz that'll only make things worse but tell them how you feel in a calm voice and keep a straight face while maintaining eye contact to let them know that your serious. Hope i helped o^-^o

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