Since school started ive become friends with a guy, and i think i like him more than that. The other day after realizing my feelings for him were real..i finally admitted it...before id joke aroudn with my friends about how he was cute and things..and one of my friends willa agreed..i asked her if she liked him, but she said, not if you do. i thought that was really nice of her. Yestedday she wrote me a letter sayign she really likes him too. i felt like my stomach dried up. I find it odd how after i say i like him, she does too... she went to one of our mutual friends about it and this girl said id acted like a bitch about the whole thing. Should i continue to like him? afterall..i am the one that did all along...and me and this girl arent like..BEST friends.., everyone says theyd see me and him together more than her and him, and we have more inc ommon...what should i do? how do i show him i like him without beign too pushy before she ..throws herself at him? im not that kind of girl..i barely flirt..what do i do?
Dani121 answered Saturday October 21 2006, 11:57 pm: We all go through this I have too, it happens to everyone. It does get you mad at your friend sence you both like the same guy. Don't end a friendship over a guy, just be cool with it and the two of you can both help each other to learn more about him. it can be fun because you can tell each other why you like him, and when you flirt with him don't try too hard it will show. Just don't be the rude person, if they said you were a bitch proove them wrong act like it doesn't even bother you. Just work it out with your friend, if she is a true one she won't be mad at you if you like him too. [ Dani121's advice column | Ask Dani121 A Question ]
saleeha answered Saturday October 21 2006, 11:19 pm: well you did like this boy before her so i don't think you should back down just because she says u should. I think you have the right to like this boys. i mean feelings can't be stopped. they just happen. so go ahead and ask him before she does. who knows he might like you back! u'll never find out unless you let him know ur feelings. [ saleeha's advice column | Ask saleeha A Question ]
KawaiiZia answered Saturday October 21 2006, 9:28 pm: Listen, Just because she likes him that doesn't mean you can't. When you like someone, its from your heart your feelings. You can't try to porpusely change that, and if anyone comes up to you and tells you to stop liking him because someone else does just say that they don't own him and you can't stop liking him just because someone says so. And, Don't flirt. Trust me, a guy will like you for whoever you are (I know cheesy but its true) Guys don't really like girls that try to impress them, just be yourself. Just go to him and tell him that you like him. You have nothing to lose! [ KawaiiZia's advice column | Ask KawaiiZia A Question ]
kick_me answered Saturday October 21 2006, 8:34 pm: you shudnt stop liking him i mean you liked him first if you liked him after then that is another story , i guess maybe you should tell him striaght up how you feel who knows maybe he feels the same or ask him out [ kick_me's advice column | Ask kick_me A Question ]
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