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how to make him realize how i feel...
i really like this guy that i know from school. we have made plans to hang out a few times but they never seem to work or because one of us always ends up not being able to do it. its never been just the two of us going to hang out its always going to have been us and another couple or other people but not really like a double date which is not what we called it but it may have seemed like that to someone else but to us it was just a chance to hang out. but i really like him and hes a really flirty guy with all girls so i have no idea how he feels. i want him to know that i like him more than just friends but i dont want to just come out and tell him because i dont want things to be ackward if he doesnt feel the same way. do you think he has realize? what things should i do or say that would hint to him that i am interested in being something more than friends?
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wow i'm am going through the EXACT same thing right now. and the same thing happened with us making plans and them never working out. but it seems to me that he only likes you as a friend because he cares enough about you to make plans with you, but then he also isn't afraid to cancel them. if he really did like you i think that he wouldn't cancel.
but that is just from my experiences, and your situtation could be different from mine. so good luck :]
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well i've kind of been through this but i would suggest gettikng real close to him and like flirt how he flirts with other girls you flirt the same way. see if he get the signal your intrested start makeing conversations. just get real close to him. like almost gf and bf.
hope tht helps =)
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one word: flirt!
1. dress to impress
2. play with your hair when he's talking to you
3. look him in the eye, when talking to him, if he likes you sometimes guys are to nervous to look you back, most of the time their looking at their feet.
4. compliment him!
5. Look your best and be confident!
6. give it time
7. if he treats you like one of friends around his friends than he probably told them he liked you.
8. If he plays sports, go to one of his games to show that you support him.
9.continue to try to make plans, i suggest the movies;]
10. the most important thing is to be yourself! do not change yourself for a boy:]
hope i helped!
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No one person can answer your question of, if he's interested inyou yet; not from the information you shared anyway. As for not coming out and saying it, unfortunately that is the most sure way to get things out there. I do understand you don't want to make things weird between the two of you if there is no feelings in return. Ask yourself this: If he tends to be a guy to touch someone, like does he hug people? If you notice that he doen't on the norm and he does with you, that is one thing. Does he pull away from you if you happen to try to hug him? That might be a sign he isn't feeling you in that way. Other than that, when you hang out, does he go out of his way to make sure it doesn't seem like he's with you? If he does, he is intersted in you just doesn't want to make things awkward himself. I know it's not easy but I hope that gives you a few ideas of what to do to try to see if he feels something for you.
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