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Bf
I really want a bf. I was with my best friend and her boyfriend tonight and they were so cute together and itmade me really want one. It made me feel kinda lonely too so what are somet ips for getting a boyfriend and showing guys your interested and talking to them more? kthx.
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Well, hopefully you aren't wanting a BF simply because your best friend is happy and dating. Being single has its advantages, I myself don't even actively look for GF's, but I keep my options open - I segue back and forth without much rhyme or reason.
The hardest thing IMO is finding someone that you will get along with, share interests with, and would actually be happy with. I'd seriously suggest finding someone you like as a friend, is a good person, as well as being attracted to. I avoid just dating left and right, you end up with dating horror stories that way.
If you are interested in a particular guy, I still believe that women shouldn't be afraid of being direct as possible. Ask a guy if they want to go out to do something, dinner, whatever. Many guys (myself included) are notoriously dense at times with flirting, until someone overdoes it (friends always tell me "Dude she was so flirting with you" while I think someone was simply being nice). Flirting can work, but try to avoid being slutty about it, as that can send the wrong message (many guys will simply think "Alright, sex!"). Even something as simple as being physically close, listening to what someone has to say, even giving them your phone number and asking someone to call you are all decent ways of trying to give someone a hint.
Also, don't be afraid of rejection - EVERYONE gets rejected at some time or another. Don't let it faze you, and keep your eyes open for someone else. Try not to let it get you down, the next BF might be just around the corner.
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get close to a guy and try makeing conversation be like hi i'm so and so umm are you in my history class or some and be like oh i'm sorry my mistake well nice meeting you and since you talked to him he'll come once in awhile saying hi or like accidentaly hold or touch his hand and say oops i'm so sorry he'll get the impressio that was on purpose and your intrested in him and he'll ask you out.
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hmmm u sorta kinda remind me of myself. i know how you feel,,everytime you see a couple holding hands or doing something sweet together you often picture yourself with a guy that you love. wellyou probably heard this manyy times before but, i guess i'll have to say it too! the right guy will come to you.Don't be in such a rush to start a relationship with a guy you don't love. you probably don't want to hear about my life example but i'll tell you anyways. i like this boy and he likes me. we BOTH love to see eachother and we never talk, because we're to shy to talk to eachother.see, i thought maybe i can finally have a boyfriend, but when he asked me for my number i realized that i wasn't ready for a relationship. i wasn't ready to get attached to someone even though i wanted too. basically what i'm trying to say is that the right guy will come by,,,and you'll know it!!! yea, seeing your best friend with her man is kind of lovey duvey but, that'll happen to you someday! maybe today,tomorrow,or next month it'll happen!!!! well tips hmmmm:
1) talk often with a guy you like don't make it seem like you like him because maybe he might not like you. when he likes you then give him a sign that you like him.
2)ask to go to the movies or mall. something like that
3) if you're not shy ask him for his IM or phone number
i hope i helped
***HERSHI WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***
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okay well, before you jump into the whole "I want a boyfriend" thing, do you really want a boyfriend, or are you just saying that cause you think it's fun to say you have one? if you actually like someone, that's great! but, don't just date someone to be like "i have a boyfriend! and it's cute!" if your best friend and her boyfriend were cute together, it's probably because they are comfortable together, and they really do like each other. if you want a boyfriend, first find a guy you like, and show him how much you like him, from there, hang out with him a lot, get to know him, and there you go.
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First of all, stop actively looking. Guys can practically smell desperation, and it's a turnoff. Trust me on this one... I had been single for a long time, and I had just sworn off men when my current bf started asking me out!
Be friendly, be approachable. It's okay to be friends with guys before you date them! It's how I ended up meeting the guys I've dated.
Try finding common interests with guys... do you secretly love video games? Because a lot of guys love it when a girl can kick their butt at Halo or Mario Kart!
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