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Should I date him?
Im almost sixteen, female.
So I kinda like this guy, and we've been friends since about 4th or 5th grade. Hes not like my best friend, or even my best guy friend, but we've been pretty cool. I dont know if i want to ruin that. Anyways, i kinda like him, and he really likes me, and hes supposedly gonna ask me out soon,like in the next couple of days. On top of that, i just broke up with my boyfriend a little less than a month ago (Sept. 1st) and they r kinda friends, but not that much. And, my ex was really attached to me, so hed be really upset if i started dating him now. (Actually...when he heard we're going to homecoming together, he called me that night, and started yelling and cussing at me! and we'd been broken up 2 weeks then. But maybe he's gotten better since then)Whats a good amount of time to wait? And is dating this guy worth all of this drama?
Thanks.
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Never let a guy contorl what you do or who you see. you dont go out anymore so he cant tell you not to date. n if you really like this guy then maybe hes worth all this "drama" and you shouldnt have to wait for him its when you fell ready
good luck
kim
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First of all, who you date after you've broken up with your ex isn't his business. Don't allow his anger to govern your decision. If you feel like you're ready to date again, then you should. Reguarding to the fact that you've been friends with this guy since elementary school: If you like him and he feels the same way about you, then the friendship is already altered in a way. You might as well just go for it because things won't ever be the same as they were back then.
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okay well if he likes yu go for it all i have to say is that you do whats best follow your heart don't let your ex push around he ain't even your boyfriend go for it and if he loves yuu alot even if you guys break up you'll still be friends hope that helps =)
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go for it. if yur ex is pissed, big deal. its a shame that some people dont know how to let love go. But yu have to try to big strong & confident. yull never move on if yu dont step forward. go for it.
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Just wait a good week or so. I would wait till homecoming and see if he's really worth going through all the drama for, and really think of your feelings for this guy. I think so ; if you really like him, the drama will be worth it. If your ex-boyfriend calls you again and starts cussing and everything, just be like,"Well, we broke up. That's what's going to happen. I'm going to date other people, you're going to date other people. Sorry." Because he can't be that jealous, I mean you guys broke up for a reason and you're not his anymore. But like I said, just go to homecoming with him, have fun with him, flirt, whatever and see how strong your feelings really are for him and see if he's really worth it. I hope I helped.
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