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I'm GrinningCheshire
I'm gay btw
Anyways I will try to help u with all my might but not with sports,not my fortè.
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A few days ago I went to sleep over my grandmothers house (Im going to sound like a crazy person right now, but whatever), Around 5 am I was laying on her couch and I started to hear somebody talk to me in my head. There was something I was feeling guilty about that time and that voice told me that he forgave me and that it was alright and I thought it was God at first. But after a while that voice became really annoying and when I started to doubt if it was God it became really scary. I would feel really heavy and started to hear more voices talking. I was in total panic because I had heard scary stories about people being possessed and killing others. And I was really afraid that my body was possessed too and would move out of itself. I suddenly started thinking of knives and all that and my family who was sleeping. I started clinging to the couch and keep holding on to it and tried to keep still. And when my leg suddenly began to spasm I freaked out. It felt like something jumped through my body and I got scared. And well at the end I started crying.
I then prayed to Jesus and asked if he could please help me get rid of the voices. When I stopped praying I heard one voice say 'Im still here' and I went on with praying. Then I called my mom to come get me because I was too scared and my grandma wouldn't wake up , when my mom came I got into the car and I heard angry growling & demon voices. I was so scared that I didn't tell my mom cause she wouldn't believe me. They've gotten worse.
I've been hearing voices on and off since I was 10 yrs old but now they're worse. I see shadows (not people's shadows) all of the time.
I probably sound like a lunatic but I swear this story is true. I have no reason to make this up since I don't gain anything from making myself look like Im crazy. I keep hearing scary demonic voices and I'm scared. I hear angry screaming and weird noises. I even saw a cloud of black smoke floating by me when I was in the living room. When I close my eyes sometimes I heard angry demonic voice too and I know I'm not mentally ill.
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You just need to strenghten your faith.Pray to Saint Philomena and St Benedict they will help you.And Mother Mary too.
Demons try to bring you farther from God through fear but if you pray to him they will vanish
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I can see white orbs, literally, all over my room. I was able to see spirits my entire life. I've seen good ones and bad ones. I've been physically hurt by a demon. Let me tell you that story: I was having a dream where a very small kid from school whom I'd kill in a fight was beating the crap out of me, and all my punches were defenseless against him. No one would help me, in fact a teachwr threatened to beat me up if I tried to defend myself against that “poor boy" and that teacher I saw is the nicest teacher in the school in real life! I woke up at the point where I died, and I hurt so badly all over. I saw a black, ugly, evil force crawling around my room. I prayed to God, then remembered my religion teacher giving us the saint Michael's prayer. I left it in my folder. I tore my folder apart looking for it, but it was no where to be found! I told my mom who also sees spirits and she told me this is when I have to get help from God, and now I have to tell the demon to leave. I did that, and stopped seeing it. That's when the white orbs started. But I still had increasing demonphobia. I implied it to my mom so she gave me a saint Micheal card. She showed me the picture and said,“see what he's doing? You don't need to fear demons, it's the rule of the universe spirits can't be in your home if you tell them to leave. And if a demon still stays you have to fight it with prayer." I know I have the gift, but I still have so many questions: how to I avoid evil spirits? Why won't spirits show their face? Why do I have this? Can everybody do this? How can I communicate with them? I want answers from experienced people, not non believers. You shouldn't pay attention to my question if you are a stupid ass who doesn't believe. (link)
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Hi
I am not really an expert in third eyes but I know what to say
Your third eye is very active and no not everyone can do it even me I don't really know if i can see "them".
But a good thing is you can try to help them to pass on and go into the light like Ghost Whisperer.
However if you are scared of ghosts of the brutally murdered tell them not to let you see their faces just so you don't get traumatized.
I saw this article that if you listen to music before you sleep your third eye will close try it.
If you see demons then keep a rosary if you are catholic
Or keep a small crucifix near you.
Additional
If some angels try to contact you tet them first befor you trust them.
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Im going on my sophmore year in highschool, and i love everything about marching band. I am also on the debate team and preparing to take an AP class which my parents find as conflicts. My dad was this huge debate superstar in highschool, and now has decided to force me to quit marching band. I have told him in the past that i love marching band more than anything else that i do in school, and he doesnt care. I asked him to consider my happiness, and he said happiness isnt the key point in his decision making. Also i asked him why i cant do what i want to do, to which he replied "what you do in high school is not your decision." How do i get back in marching band? its the only thing i love about school and its where my friends are. (link)
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Tell him nothing will stop you because it is what you love.And that you are sorry if you were not the one to live his dreams
"If you don't do something you love then you are just like a robot,unfeeling and will do anything that the master tells you to do."
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should I email somebody i'm having serious problems with explaining things? (link)
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I guess no since he or she is letting it out.
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How do you be yourself with a new group of people? Like, what if your social identity is defined by what your college friends loved about you, but now you need to adapt to a new group who may not love you for the same things? How do you still make new friends without putting on a total and complete facade? And how do you present yourself in a more mature way without reverting to old ways (i.e. immature humor, ignorant thinking) but still not being totally fake? How do you gain respect from people a few years older than you? (link)
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You are you and you must not change yourself for others.
Besides you are still growing up I guess and just remember that you can be anything as long as you don't step on one person for your dreams.
Besides true friends come when you need them
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How to commit suicide the fastest, and the least painful way. (link)
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Suicide my friend is your one way ticket to Hell and you won't enjoy it so please try to look at life positively
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I don't know if its a ghost or what but I saw this woman appear in my house and it scared the crap out of me. She had pale skin, long curly black hair and she had stitched up lips. It looked really evil and it was like it wanted me to know its there. It looked like something out of the walking dead. Now I'm scared. I'm not making this up and I'm not hallucinating. I've also been hearing voices that sound evil. I've been googling it and this is the closest image I could find that looks like what I saw.
http://img-cache.cdn.gaiaonline.com/ca60e3b6548cd227462227694fbfe327/http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q113/Kiwikes777/Comments%20and%20Such/SewedLips.jpg
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Spirits are either harmless or dangerous.This one is harmless and is just conveying something but ask a friend with anopen third eye or a psychic because they are the ones who can understand better and try to look at the history of your house.
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Hi! I am writing a story and I need last names!!
I have three characters so far.
Violet (blank)
Steven (Blank)
Damien (blank)
PLease help!! I just would appreciate some last names that sound like they would go good with these :) thanks (link)
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Violet Estelle
Steven Erandale
Damien Voskitch (Russian)
I am A writer in Wattpad
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.
Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.
In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.
I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.
To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.
What would you do?
What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?
How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?
What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.
Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?
Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.
Thanks in advance.
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Dude she is such a user.
Break up with her
Don't ever go back with her even though she pleads
And next time know who your dates are before you even enter a relationship.
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My cousin is making me feel really uncomfortable. Today we went to my uncles house to watch the soccer match (FIFA 2014) so I was feeling ok. I went to my cousin and asked him a favor if he could download me a movie and pass it to my USB. He said ok so I went upstairs with him and at first he acted all right he asked how i was at school...... Then all of sudden he grabbed my waist pulled me to him closer each time and started touching my back softly! Then he grabbed my hand and kissed it and started like touching my back again it felt disgusting! He asked me if I feel uncomfortable and of course I said YES! Then he left and I just stood there feeling Ughh ! I don't want to tell my parents! Please what else can I do? Help me!
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Go tell your parents because you are innocent of all this.And if he tries to change the blame let them ask your witness (If you have any) but if you don't I Am pretty sure your parents know who you are.
Fight!
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If a man is bi it's wrong when a girl is bi it's OK. A man screws with 100 girls he's a stud a girl screws with 1 guy and she's labeled a slut. It's not fair. (link)
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Eh people are just so sexist because...the world is very lustful and judgemental one gossip and they're like
OMG FOR REAL.
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Hello you guys
Thank you for clicking on my question
I really am frustrated A LOT! This illness or whatever you want to call it is making me lose my mind
It's been present for quite a while (1year) yes quite a while huh..
The thing is some red stuff... Really dry and dead skin that brushes off when I rub it , I simply rub the skin, it's yellowish colorless kinda skin that falls off when I rub it off my face or below my earlobe
And now it reached the space between my freaking eyebrows since the redness and dryness is present under my eyes and on my nose and it climbed up to the space between my eye brows. My entire face is kinda red now...
Also, this dry dead sorta skin is present on my sideburns now..my sideburns (both of'em) itch and when I rub they fall off.
Some people also told me I got white stuff on my hair in the bottom of the back of my head..
I attached this picture of the redness/dryness http://oi57.tinypic.com/wlq0ao.jpg
By the way this redness/dryness disappears when I rub it with some cream and wake up the next morning gone.
Thank you SO much ! For donating priceless time for someone else.
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I agree with dragonflymagic.Go to the dermatology clinic or a dermatologist they can figure out what to do.
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So I am in the 8th grade- going into 9th. I'm pretty sure this all started in 5th grade btw... but I think I have a depression/ anxiety/ bipolar disorder. I've taken A LOT of these quizzes and screenings online for them and it states that I have a high case of it and I should get some help just in case... I also had one of my friends take it and she got a high ish score too but her mom found it and she took her to get help and she has been getting help from medications because she was diagnosed with quite a few disorders like depression and anxiety. I've told her about my scores and she has told me many times to ask my mom but I'm afraid to. I mean I don't cry every night or day about my life but I do a lot and when i do it's horrible and i have no one to talk to about it. If i tell my mom, she'll either think i'm crazy or she won't believe me. And what if I am actually diagnosed with those disorders? I'm going to have to talk to a therapist (she does) and get on medication.. and that's going to cost a lot of money... and nows not the time to make my mom worried and have to pay money. she and my dad have been stressed lately and it's just too much money and i don't think we could afford it with all this shiz going on. I want help but I don't want my parents to have to go through all this... (link)
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Well I agree with lightoftruth you should really tell your parents because they care about you more than anything else in the world.
And maybe what your having now might bring your mom and dad closer(But don't expect it is a 50-50 chance)
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Im Jade and im 14 and ive been dating my boyfriend Nick, 17, for almost more than a year. I feel like he tends to be overprotective and won't ever let me be around other people unless im next to him or whatever and it annoys me.And if we're out in public or with friends he can get a bit touchy feely, and I get embarrassed, and he does this mostly when we're around his friends. He'll grab my butt in front of them or smack it and its just so annoying cuz he thinks its funny and if I try and tell him to stop but he just tells me to shut up or he'll kiss me so I can shut up. I dont know why he does this and it really gets to me. There was an incident where we were at his friends house and he just shoved his hands down my pants without asking or telling me, and I told him to stop because his friend was watching and he gave me this death stare and told me to just go with it and I didn't want to, and he just leaned and kissed me so that I couldn't say anything else. Why does he do these things to me, I feel like he disregards my feelings when it comes to stuff like that. How do I tell him not to do this, I really dont want this to happen anymore. (link)
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May I just call you friend even though we are not that close?
Anyway,just tell him that his overprotectiveness will just kill your relationship slowly and try to understand his POV point of view besides he might have had some history of being too lenient in a relationship
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So i met this guy a few months back. (Im 19 and hes 21) To be specific we met mid April, we have been talking non stop every single day since then. Hes my best friends cousin so she was always trying to build things up between us when we met. Thing is, I got out of a relationship 3 months before I met him, so when we met it was really difficult for me to believe in anyone or anything for a while, I was devastated and it was a terrible time for me. When I met him, he really liked me.. he asked my friend for my number and asked to see me all the time, he was such a gentleman and was such a sweetheart. At first, he told me he liked me and I told him that i thought it was too early to talk about it because what comes easily breaks easily and he was iffy about it but I think he agreed. I thought to myself, well if this kid really likes me then he'll wait until the time is right between us and thats what I thought before he started pulling what hes pulling right now (Ill talk about that in a bit) Anyhow, we went on vacation together for 2 weeks..me, him, my best friend and their whole family. He would always ask my best friend to take pictures of us, everytime I was sitting down he'd rub my lower back very softly (not sexually at all) he was great and I started to really like him, I felt like things were really starting to build up between us and i could finally see us being together after feeling like I was not at all in the right state to be in a relationship, we came back from the vacation and he was the same..sweet all the time, texting me and calling me. till just last week when he stopped. He doesnt call me at all anymore unless I call..he barely texts, so im like okay this kid probably lost interest right? Then he texts me going, I dont know why you havent written me lately.. i kind of felt like he was trying to turn tables on me because he knows that I was upset with him for not coming to see me the day he said he would, so i told him that I always write him but hes the one being weird and distant and hes like No im not but I really liked that you called me previously to go out and see me, I apppreciated your effort" and im like okay well great if you appreciate my effort and write me and get annoyed that I dont write you, then why are you being weird and distant and not writing me at all or calling or being half as sweet as you used to be ? I didnt literrally say that but thats what i was thinkig. Before our vacation and even a few days after, he would call me sweet thigs like "Love, babe " Now, nothig at all. What happend? Did he randomly lose interest?? What do i do. should i just forget him? To be honest its all making me feel terrible about myself, I feel like my self esteem is so low and I keep thinking its somethig I did. I showed him I liked him A LOT after our vacation, even if I didnt say it im positive he knew because Id say things like "Im telling you this because your special to me, your the only guy I really care about" and I swear I meant it all. Im just confused now. Any advice would be helpful, thank you! (link)
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Sorry to offend you if I will but I think what you both had was only Mutual Understanding I don't really know about it that much.But this may help understand it
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Mutual+Understanding
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I am married w/2 girls 21 & 16. My oldest doesnt ever come around and I am told that is my fault. My husband calls me names, disables my car, when I can leave he shows up so I go back again. I recently had my 3rd back surgery, cant find a job, and am pathetic to my family so my girls go to his mother even on Mother`s Day!..I just want to fall asleep and die but do not know how to do it. I have tried, so need to know what/how many do I need to take?...NOT 1 PERSON would care if I wasnt around. dont judge I get enough of that (link)
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First off
Have a divorce from your mean husband and never give up.
You know God wouldn't give us challenges if we can't handle it,right?Besides God loves us all.Mostly ask help from
1 Mother Mary
2 http://www.americancatholic.org/Features/Saints/saint.aspx?id=1120
3 http://www.saintanne.webhero.com/st-anne-patron-saint-of-housewives.htm
They will help you and I will also pray for you.
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my name is Rachel and I am a 25 year old female and almost a year ago I was dating this guy named Aaron who went to my church and he was very involved in the church and all my family and friends told me that he was a good guy so I didn't have to worry about him doing anything to intentionally hurt me in any way and I also assumed that since he went to church that he was a good guy and that I could trust him but both my family , friends, and I were wrong because he did hurt me and it wasn't by accident either . lets just say after 3 months into our relationship we had sex which it was my first time having sex with anybody I was virgin until him and it was the biggest mistake of my life losing my virginity to a jerk like Aaron and I regret it because I know that I can never get it back again . I know having sex that early in a relationship was to soon and that was my mistake. After we had sex he told me that he wanted me to tell my family and friends that I cheated on him if I were to end up pregnant because he didn't want anyone one to know that he had sex outside of marriage and when I told him that I wasn't going to do that he broke up with me and will not speak to me or even look at me anymore. I don't understand why he would do to me ? I don't understand what I did to deserve the pure hell and torment that he is putting me through . It's been a year now since it's happened and I am still not over him last night was far the worst melt down I've ever had . I was getting ready for church and I knew he was going to be there because he always is and I couldn't even get dressed by myself my cousin had to help me because I was sweating and shaking so bad my dad had to help me with my hair . I am just so embarrassed that when I am writing this I feel like crying . I ended up staying home from church yester because my cousin told me I didn't need to go if it was going to upset me that badly . I couldn't sleep at all last night . I didn't go to bed until midnight and woke up at 3:30 in the morning and my cousin had to lay down with me just so I could get back to sleep . she told me if I ever needed someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on she was there and if it wasn't for her last night I couldn't have made it through it by myself .why do I still love him after what he put me through? my cousin told me it was probably because he was the guy that I lost my virginity to and I will get over him eventually but it just takes some time please help me . (link)
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I am pretty sure that the scar in your heart hurts a lot since the first cuts are the most painful ones.He is not a man more or less because he can not take responsibility for what he had done.If ever he got you pregnant he should be responsible for it it's his fault(most of it) and friend please never let your guard down on guys especially if he is the sweet kind and handsome type.
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I am from india.
i am 22 , never had a girlfriend . i dont know why.
its not like i am ugly but still . never had sex . next year i finish my college , got a campus placement in a good European company.
but it all feels so sick . i like a girl in college shes cute but i dont feel like disturbing her.
i love my parents but you know i cant talk to them about certain things and these things are killing me from inside.i am depressed , dont know what to do...
i want it to be over soon. (link)
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Don't kill yourself please think of life as precious.
You can't be dictated by not having a GF or having sex those are just things.They do not dictate your life.But everything has a right place and right time.And tell the girl you like about what you feel and probably (not saying she will) she likes you too.
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PS:Just wait and don't kill yourself
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20,f
I have a problem finding a boyfriend and I think it may be because of my appearance. I am 162cm tall,weigh about 65kg,I have long blonde hair,blue eyes and I dress nice. I am told by many people that I am actually beautiful but I have trouble believing it because it is really hard for me to find a boyfriend. I do take care of my looks but I'm no supermodel. My good friends and family told me they think I'm having difficulties with this because I don't want to go for just a one night stand,I want a serious relationship with a normal guy. But I feel like nobody will even try to get to know me because there are so many prettier girls than me out there. Pretty face will be gone,but a good woman will always be a good woman. So is appearance really the main factor for a guy who is choosing a possible girlfriend? Just thinking about it makes me stop pursuing anyone ever again.
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Do you know Ugly Betty or I Love Betty La Fea in spanish then she was loved by the gut not because of her looks but because of her good heart and some movies have that concept.
Never ever think that everything beautiful is nice because it is like a mask that hides the true face of a person.
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Okay, so here it is. I have a crush on this guy since I graduated from highschool and I'm in college now, so that's like, two years. The crazy thing is he does not have any idea I have a crush on him. We haven't even exchanged few words from each other. I mean, how did I even have a crush on him? Anyway, I still stalk him on Facebook. I know, I'm such a creep. I want to somehow let him know, you know, about how I feel. I am planning of sending him a message on Facebook. But, I don't know. Should I send him or should I not? I really need an advice. Please.
I am 18 and I'm female. (link)
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First I think you should hang out for a while then after friendship
Tell him how you feel however be always prepared of what he may say after
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